Jet Plane-Level Stimulation: Kimberly’s Update
- Luna Robbie
- May 8, 2023
- 16 min read
26 white queer female, she/they pronouns, editor of this podcast.
🔗 KIMBERLY LINKS | @kimberloft
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Luna
An update from our past guest, Kimberly from episode 34. What was the name of your episode?
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Kimberly
I am not nice to myself when I masturbate. Kimberly's virgin stories. This is.
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Luna
Me. So, Kimberly, when was that? Three years ago. Two years ago. Three years ago. Almost four years in June. Was it four.
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Kimberly
In 2019?
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Luna
Well, that makes sense because that's math. Oh my god. So that was almost four years ago. What the fuck has been happening since in your sex life?
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Kimberly
Well, I'm not a virgin anymore. Also, I know. So that's fun, you know?
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Luna
How do you feel about the word virgin now? I know we use sexual debut a lot. Do you have strong feelings? I get a lot of comments about virgins, so I just want to talk about it.
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Kimberly
I knew since I was 16 that I didn't want to be a virgin, but that was more about experiencing sex than like any shame associated with being a virgin. And I also didn't feel any shame when I told my partner that I was a virgin, which was really nice. And I'm not sure how I avoided the shame connotation with being a virgin, but I appreciate it.
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Kimberly
Brian. So thanks.
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Luna
Shameless. I love it. So where do you want to start? Do you want to start with, like, hot details? What you've loved? I love that you're counting orgasms. Or do you want to talk about, like, how you decided it was time where you. Where do you want to start?
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Kimberly
Well, so me losing my virginity is so strongly tied with starting seeing my partner. So I think maybe I'll go through a bit of a timeline with that. So it was July of last year. We'd known each other for a little over two years at that point, but we were just friends. We were in the gaming space together and had played games together online pretty regularly for those two years, and then they were coming up to visit, and both of us at the same time sort of were like, hey, you're going to be here in person.
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Kimberly
Maybe we should do something about that. And so they came out to visit, and within seven hours they had fucked me on my roommate's bed. Which, which listeners might know this, but.
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Luna
I still get excited.
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Kimberly
That, my roommate is actually Xu from originally episode 19 and then also Xu sexy update. So that's that's my roomie. Love them. And when I told them they were like, hell yeah! And it was really wonderful. That first experience was I was sort of laying back. We had been cuddling before a little bit and it was early afternoon, like around 430, I want to say, and we like started moving.
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Kimberly
We were kissing. It was there was a lot of touching and then they sort of just took control and had the focus be fully on me because they wanted my first time to be like centered on my pleasure and my experience, which was fucking fantastic. I started writing in a shared note that we now have, originally it wasn't shared.
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Kimberly
I was just, you know, writing it down because I like to remember things. And I was sort of just writing as after each encounter I was like, this happened and this happened and then this and sort of recounting it. And I told them about it and they were like, oh, I would love to read that. And it was very fun to sort of be in the same room as them while they read my perspective of our sexual encounters and like, you got to like them.
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Kimberly
She sent me, I think the first time they read through it, I wasn't in the room. But they've read through it again while I was in the room. And they would like me, like, look at me. And I was just like, oh, I wonder what part you're at? And it was, it's just really hot. And because I was writing down all of the first encounters, I sort of just started to count the number of orgasms, which they really jumped on.
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Kimberly
They were like, yeah, great, let's get you to this number. And their first visit with me, and they were here for about five weeks, and they gave me 75 orgasms, which thank you so much. It was fucking fantastic. Literally. We are long distance, so we've seen each other. I think we've only seen each other four times total in person.
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Kimberly
And so it was for five weeks and then two weeks, and then about one week and then another week, and then they're about to be here for two weeks.
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Luna
Yeah.
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Kimberly
And total they've given me 120 orgasms. So really pulling in the effort every time they're seeing me. Which isn't to say we're always just fucking when we're together. It's actually very funny when one of the times where we were only together for a week, we didn't really have sex. For the first, I want to say 4 or 5 days, we just neither of us were really in the mood.
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Kimberly
And then it was before some, some outing, like we were on the floor and we were playing a game of some kind, I can't remember. I think it was a card game and we were like, oh, we have to leave in like 15 minutes. And then we just fucked very fast on the carpet and it was so hot after that.
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Kimberly
We like, then fucked like rabbits for the rest of that visit. But yeah, it's been wonderful and wild to discover, like the things I thought I wouldn't like or the things I thought I would like, you know, because I had never really engaged in a lot of kissing with anyone before. And, it was all usually for like, acting things, and it was never particularly enjoyable.
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Kimberly
I was just like, okay, yeah, we're kissing, I get it, really.
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Luna
We are acting. Kissing. You don't enjoy.
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Kimberly
Not really.
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Luna
So it's connection based for you.
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Kimberly
It's connection. Yeah. There's the emotional connection really makes a difference for me. And it really turns me on when we're doing a sort of a long makeout session and just. It's funny because I'm happy to kiss for, like, ever. Like I'm happy to kiss them on and on and on. And they're always like, all right, we're going to move on.
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Kimberly
And if they didn't move on, like to a different part of my body, I don't know, you know, we wouldn't be at 120. I'm glad that they're very, you know.
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Luna
Yeah, yeah. Okay. That's what I wanted to ask about. Well, it's a lot of it sounds like it's a lot of mouth kissing. Also, I'm. I just want to point out the contrast, like, of partner selection. Like you picked a partner who you share your sexy stories and they're like, oh, I got oh, yum yum yum. Let's give you more orgasms.
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Luna
Whereas like, I'm noticing that I picked a partner where I'm like, here's my journal entry. You asked for it. And it was like, how dare you? You know, like I'm just like, all right, note, note to self. And, you know, I'm hearing there's a lot of kissing. I want to know if it's all in the mouth, if you like to kiss all over.
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Luna
And if you'd like to receive kisses all over. And then like, you're orgasming a lot. That's a lot of orgasms in my mind for nine weeks total, especially when 4 or 5 of those days you're not fucking. But it sounds like you're doing a lot of stuff in between the orgasms, so please expand.
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Kimberly
So yes, kissing all over. I love kissing like their neck nibbling on their ears. I really enjoy kissing every part of them and I really enjoy. I've discovered this isn't kissing, but it is physical. I really enjoy, like, hair pulling, love my nipples and my boobs getting touched and, like, kissed and sucked in a bit. It depends.
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Kimberly
My boobs are very tolerant sometimes, you know, sometimes they like one thing, sometimes they want really rough. There was one time where it was like really just a lot of of pressure and pinching and twisting and biting to the point where there were like bruises on my boobs and it was like perfect and wonderful and amazing. But then another time it was like, Featherlight touches are the only thing that my boobs can handle right now.
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Kimberly
So, you know, it's it's hit or miss. It's like day to day. They're very moody and I really appreciate them.
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Luna
Have you attractive? It's, related to your cycle.
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Kimberly
I haven't we haven't been together enough times, like on and off and like during my. So like, it would be hard to track until we're, like, regularly together all the time.
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Luna
So your boobs are all over the place and you appreciate that.
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Kimberly
They're all over the place. Appreciate that. I love I love being like inner thigh kisses is actually like around the labia and like on the mound. I really like both pressure and kisses and touches. Also depends on the day. My clitoris is very temperamental along with my nipples. You know, sometimes it's like just light touches, please. And then other times it's like, I would like a jet plane to land on my shoulders.
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Kimberly
It's like. It's like I want and I've been to something, but I'm not sure. Yeah, yeah.
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Luna
I would really like to know all the different ways that you have come. I mean, maybe not all of them, but like, you know, like hands, mouth toys, like.
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Kimberly
Hands, mouth toys does cover it, but in more detail, but.
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Luna
Details. Hahahahaha.
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Kimberly
Also, depending on the sensitivity of the labia and what's going on, sometimes hands and pressure is really like the thing that can get me off. I do like pretty consistent pressure. Okay, so here's the problem. I can't do them when they're down there. Well. I can't really tell what's happening down there when it's like it's all just sensation later.
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Kimberly
Very difficult for me to like pick out what's going on. And I'm just like, almost every time we're having sex, I'm like, wow, what are you doing? And they're like, I'm just doing like the well, so, sort of like a knuckle press with, like one finger against the clit. It's nice. The knuckle is pressing onto the clitoris, so.
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Kimberly
Oh, repetitive motion that way. I wish I knew all of the different ways that they touch me. But especially like during sex when I ask, I'm always like, I always ask. And they tell me and I go, oh, cool. And then I go, I'm just so delighted that I can't remember. But usually I need to be warmed up with the magic wand.
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Kimberly
So we have a magic wand that I really like, the usher, sort of like on the pubis, and then like sort of like against the lips, but not inside. Necessary. But then sometimes I like like the lips to be, like folded over the side and like it just like pressed down onto the clit.
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Luna
I've never tried that. I might dive. I'll have to try it. I'll report back on something.
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Kimberly
And then with tongue, there have been a few times where they've fully gotten me off just doing fingers and then mouth, and I've been told that it's biting, licking, kissing around and on the back like that's what they're doing down there. Yeah. You know depending on the mood. Just like like not like art but like little nips.
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Kimberly
It's just such a lovely sensation you know, like my whole body just kind of. Oh it's not that my whole body goes away. It's like when I'm in there like a really good massage, like my brain goes away and my body is just like fully in the moment, like everything feels like connected and transcendent, like it's just fucking fantastic.
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Kimberly
And you have foreknowledge. So you know that I can come more than once in a row and I can do that even when I masturbate. Back when they were first here, they asked, you know, how many times, like, what's the most you've ever, like, made yourself orgasm in a row when you've masturbated? And I think the answer was like eight, but I also like, didn't really keep track before.
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Kimberly
You know, normally if I'm masturbating, I'll come 1 to 4 times, depending.
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Luna
Really. I don't know that. I mean, I knew at least one because.
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Kimberly
Oh, I figured, but I mean, sometimes I do just like to sort of like masturbate and not orgasm and then just like go to bed and then I like, we'll have a fun sex stream.
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Luna
Yeah. That's cool, I love that.
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Kimberly
But so they took that as a personal challenge that I fully endorse of beating my record. And so they got me to nine that first time that they were here. And it's been so long ago now that I can't remember like exactly what was happening to get me there. I remember, like discovering that I actually get very light sensitive when I've come more like six or more times.
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Kimberly
I get very light sensitive, like can't only light.
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Luna
Or sounds too.
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Kimberly
Sounds are fine. It's just light. It's just also made me realize that I think in general in life, like I'm fairly light sensitive. I have always, whenever anything is too loud, I actually close my eyes instead of covering my ears and it helps. So I'm not sure. I think it's just like it's like an whole stimulation thing. I'd be curious if anyone else experiences that because we try doing.
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Kimberly
The first time they made me cum nine times, they were then going to get off after me and that became quickly impossible because apparently when I am like cum happy, I just cackle like a mad man and I'm just like, like in their ear. Just like you. Like laughing like crazy and like I can't stop, like, not like it's just everything is funny and fantastic.
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Kimberly
And then I think it was like over Christmas time, they got me to come ten times. They really like beating their record and I appreciate it. And then the last time they were here, just a couple of weeks ago, it was right before I was driving. It was like hours before, but the, afternoon evening before they were leaving, we were like reading a book together and then like, they just, like, sat down the book and like, I guess to to sort of backtrack a little bit as we're keeping track of the number of orgasms.
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Kimberly
We like to always end the trip on a round number. So 75 for the first one, I think it was like 100 for the second one. The third one was like 105, like we only got five in and then we got to like 109 before that last day. And so I was like, oh cool. Yeah. Well you know we'll get to we'll get that one more, we'll get you a 110 and it'll be great.
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Kimberly
And then I blew right through those first two orgasms, quite literally. They were like super strong. Like especially I think psychologically when I know it's like it's on like we're about to orgasm a bunch. I think my body is like, okay, well, like, let's throw it up a little bit, you know, like let's sprinkle it in. So it's like really nice, good orgasms, but like, not so strong that I'm out of commission and so like blew past the first two.
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Kimberly
So I was like, oh okay. So we'll get to 115. Great. No, we got to 120. I remember I'm like, I want to say like the eighth one. I like gutter really screamed into my pillow and like when I'm coming, I'll like grab the pillows and like the blankets to the point where, like, I don't notice I'm gripping until like, later.
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Kimberly
And then I like release and I'm like, oh, my fingers. It's just like such a full body experience. So that's like, I'm there in a way that I don't have to, like, think of anything. And it's so nice. And then afterwards, I guess 11 like, I wasn't cackling, cackling. There was a point where I was cackling, but after 11 I was like, kind of like slap happy and just like,
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Kimberly
And then we just cuddled for a few, like a couple hours. I think it's also very hard for me to tell how much time has passed when I've come. So it's like, who knows? Oh yeah, it was a couple hours, but it was enough time to sort of like do the aftercare. I needed. Because when I come that many times, like I need like cuddles and affection and like, don't touch my vagina.
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Kimberly
And they're like, really good about that. And then I drove them to the airport. So I was still I'm still able to do that.
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Luna
Fucking amazing. Tell us now what you've learned about yourself as a lover. We've heard how you receive attention and affection as a giver of love. And I'll lead you a little bit because I have foreknowledge. You like to be in control.
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Kimberly
I love to be in control. I mean, it comes very naturally to me in a lot of aspects of my life. And so I was I wasn't really surprised when it turned out to be this way, also in the bedroom. But I really like taking what my partner wants and like, just kind of like having free run with it.
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Kimberly
So I'm sort of given wider parameters and then within those I get to sort of just like not do whatever I want. But, you know, within the parameters I get to, like, I get to just like explore and like kind of tell them what to do and like be kind of mean, like it's very fun to we're sort of like playing with a, like punishment and praise sort of dichotomy.
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Kimberly
It's been interesting to notice in myself how I'm like, kind of nervous to do it. Like all of these things that I do sort of naturally is like being in charge and like all of these things. But like once it's like put in that frame, I'm like, but what if I do it wrong? But so far, so good.
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Kimberly
Oh, it's so hot. Like when I get to touch them and like, do what I want to them and knowing that they're like super into it. It is like a power trip isn't quite the right way to say it, but I mean it. Feel it like I'm like, wow, I'm fucking amazing and I'm having a fun time. Like it.
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Kimberly
It's really delightful.
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Luna
Okay, so from this particular frame, this particular moment in snapshot in time in the Kimber life, what wisdom do you want to share with our sweet audience about sex?
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Kimberly
Tell your lovers what you want and and talk about it and try to.
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Luna
I'm practicing. How do I do a better job? Hahahahaha. Like literally, could I talk to people about sex even more? And could I prime my lovers even more than once I start, I don't know, I'm still working on it. How? What's the secret? I guess picking the right person is a start, quote unquote, right? Yeah, there's a right and wrong.
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Luna
But,
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Kimberly
Someone picking picking a person who's like, match. Yeah. Who's like matching up on communication levels, like, that's been the best part of it. Like, even where we falter in communication with each other, like we're constantly like growing and learning and checking in with each other. And if there's ever a thing where I'm like, oh, I didn't actually communicate in the way that I wanted to or didn't come across in the way I thought I did.
00:18:15:21 - 00:18:36:12
Kimberly
We talk about it afterwards. So it is like a lot of talking, but it's all good talking that results in like really fun, hot sex, especially when we're having sex. And I get to like, talk out a fantasy while we're having sex. And a thing I want to explore in the future is.
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Luna
My next question.
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Kimberly
Is like a full, like, full role play, like in character and like, do you know what you want it to be? Stems I don't know, no, I'm pretty open. I mean, like, I might be fun to do something like a Renaissance fair theme since I was.
00:18:54:12 - 00:19:06:13
Luna
Just going to. So what if we got all the bells on turns making. I mean, people at Renaissance fairs fuck to the people that work there. Obviously you can't. Like, she'll be like, hey, can I borrow your tent? But like, maybe if you meet the right people, you can. I don't know.
00:19:06:15 - 00:19:07:09
Kimberly
Maybe working.
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Luna
The Los Angeles Ren Faire, do you want to hook us up with a tent or something? Tell us the secret place. I don't know. Anything else you want to explore and or anything else you want to say about sex?
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Kimberly
I mean, I want to explore anything that feels good in the moment. And I also, I guess the only other thing I would want to like that I can, like noodle on about sex right now is like, it's so good, it's so nice to have and it's so like, it's nice to be with someone who has a similar level of like turn on and desire as me, where it's like it is very connected to, like the actions that we do or like we can kind of turn each other on, which is really fun and like, not something I have thought about.
00:19:53:20 - 00:20:04:13
Kimberly
Like, that makes sense. Like it's called it turn on. It's like literally an instruction. But you know, being able to turn someone else on and be turned on by someone else is, oh, it's so hot.
00:20:04:15 - 00:20:08:20
Luna
Fuck yeah. Kimberly, where can people connect with you on the internet?
00:20:08:22 - 00:20:22:16
Kimberly
Well, I'm on Instagram at Kimber Loft. Kimbrough loft, and I'm also in the Patreon exclusive community discord if you want to come hang out and chat.
00:20:22:18 - 00:20:39:08
Luna
Yeah, Kimberly's using their excellent powers of control to be an excellent moderator to keep a safe space. So lovers, thank you Kimberly. Thank you everyone for listening. Kimberly, thank you so much for giving us your sexiest, sexy updates.
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Kimberly
My pleasure.
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