A New Daddy: Neptune's Update
- Luna Robbie
- Dec 18, 2023
- 40 min read
24 transmasc queer latino, he/they pronouns, tattoo artist, Los Angeles-based.
🔗 NEPTUNE LINKS | @cm.codex
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Luna
An update from a lovely past guest who is here to talk about playing again after a long break and self-love baby. He is a 24 year old trans mask queer Latino who is partnered and dating separately. They have a day job at a museum or a tattoo printers, and he helps out at a queer leather party cruise L.A. that, while has been meaning to go to but has been consistently out of town for once a month, they are into praise, edging exhibitionism, and has a daddy kink.
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Luna
We met him in episode 198, recently retitled to be More appropriate sucking, begging and Everything Inside Me. Welcome back. Neptune. Hey, how are you doing? Good. How are you? I am amazing, I'm very. I'm always excited when we are able to record in person, especially since our first one was not in person. But also, I have seen you in person since then.
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Luna
And I wonder if you could start out by telling us today, if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shaming meter with ten being so full of shame and one being not shame? First of all, do you remember what you rated yourself last time and where do you feel now?
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Neptune
Oh, I might have been at like 3 or 4 last time.
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Luna
Okay.
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Neptune
And I'm definitely a one. Maybe even a zero.
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Luna
Okay. Tell us about it. And has it fluctuated? I mean, it's fluctuated since we saw you, but like, has it gone up these dances or like, what's it been like since we talked?
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Neptune
It went up a little bit and then right back down today thanks to Civic League because I just came from a date.
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Luna
Oh. So I'm like, feeling good. Oh, we got a fresh fruit. Neptune. Oh, I'm so excited. I will have. Yeah. Yeah, it was really sweet.
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Neptune
It was cute. We just kissed a little bit at the end but we like had a nice gay day date. Wandered around in Highland Park.
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Luna
Did you say gay day date? That's so cute. Who initiated the kiss?
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Neptune
They did.
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Luna
Okay, because if.
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Neptune
I wanted a kiss, you said yes, please.
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Luna
Oh, that's exactly what I was gonna ask next. Okay. Yeah, okay. It was a nice kiss. Yeah. Oh, my gosh. Like a masochist or like a peck or like it was a we.
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Neptune
Could have gone into, like, fully making out. Yeah, but we also like saying goodbye. That sounds like a good start. Now, I don't want to stop.
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Luna
I, I got it. Damn. Okay. What does kissing mean to you? Like, is it like a liking or is it just like a fun thing or like, how do you feel about it?
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Neptune
It's a liking, but not in like. It doesn't necessarily have to be fully romantic. Like, I'll kiss my friends who we're platonic, but we just are friends who kiss. But if I kiss you, I like you. Yeah, that's a person.
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Luna
Don't kiss hate people. Yeah, okay. What about. Okay, I know we're going to get to your stories, but I'm also like, I've been noodling so much on what does make connection? What does make dates? If anyone has listened recently, we know that I've been obsessed with creating irresistible invitations that get really specific about the who, the what, and the why, and then like, what are the next steps.
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Luna
So like, what makes a date juicy for you?
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Neptune
I think the initial like connection is important to me. Like within the first maybe without a half an hour, I feel like I can tell what our vibe is and like see if it's going to be more on the, the tonic side or going more towards romantic. But that also can change like throughout I think today I was a little nervous at the beginning, so I was like, oh no, what if it's just like, no, no, no.
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Neptune
It's nice to be honest, but I'd like it to be more to I think. Yeah. Is the connection. Being able to laugh together is really important, like having a silly and goofy time, which is good for like walking around, like going to different shops and stuff.
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Luna
It's easier the related from the pickup artists and my days of working with pickup artists, moving locations on a date creates the feeling of an adventure that you, you know, the only way to can share. And I'm not you. You know, whoever your wife is, it creates this sort of, like, special feeling. You know? I know some people have their same dates, but they go one, two, three home.
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Luna
But like, I love that you do that. Okay, so segue into your updates. Is dating a part of your play you're returning to play. Tell us about.
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Neptune
That. I took a big break, and last time I talked about when I was assaulted and that was like really intense. I took a sort of break to only be with people that I was already super comfortable with.
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Luna
Yeah.
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Neptune
And then that kind of died down as well, just because we kind of feel like it anymore.
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Luna
I feel that.
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Neptune
And then recently I just decided, like, I want to have sex again. I miss it and I want that connection and that fun. So I downloaded an app in two days. I was having sex.
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Luna
How has that been for you? Do you feel comfy saying what app and like, what's your app strategy? What's your profile like?
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Neptune
It was field.
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Luna
Okay, not.
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Neptune
Like bad mouth the app, but it is outdated. It has a lot of problems.
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Luna
Field has always had problems in my using it. And you know what? I'm just going to share a little secret here. A few years ago, field was supposed to sponsor several episodes of sex stories and do an interview with us and the person that was handling our ads at time got very upset when I asked to be paid on time within 90 days, or communicated with better.
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Luna
And so thousands of our dollars of podcast ads, including The Field Connection, got canceled. So I'm still on field, but like I do feel crinkly toward them. And that's the part where I'm like, oh, maybe that's why am I, like, autistic self didn't know about business stuff like the like it's taken me so many years to be like, oh, my brain works different.
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Luna
And that has affected both my business and pleasure life. Okay, so yes, field has always been glitchy. I'm down to plug stuff and bad mouth stuff. I'm down to talk about our real experiences.
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Neptune
Okay, cool. Yeah, it's always glitchy. You're right. But, like, this time now it's like not even giving notifications for messages. So I feel like a dick because I'm like, I'm sorry, I just didn't.
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Luna
Oh, Milly.
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Neptune
Responded, I don't have to, like, open it every two seconds. Okay, so now I'm just telling people like, hey, don't talk somewhere else. So like meeting on there, being able to see people so many like fun, like kinky and neurodivergent people who, like, we can all get it and get along. Yeah. And then be like, okay. Like doing a text.
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Neptune
You want to go on Instagram somewhere else? It's more reliable for messaging itself.
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Luna
What's your preference.
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Neptune
Personally? Instagram. Okay. Because it helps to put like the photos to the person. Because if not, if it's just a text, it's harder for me to.
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Luna
Like remember.
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Neptune
I them in my brain like visualize them and like the energy.
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Luna
Okay. Yeah. I'm so glad you're telling me that, because lately I finally started going back on Instagram just to check things, and I have gotten a plethora of messages from strangers who don't introduce themselves and don't say anything specific and seem to want a free Los Angeles tour guide. And maybe they're just making a connection and I don't know.
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Luna
But like, they have found me on field, I haven't been on the app in a while and they're like, hi, I'd love to talk to you on Instagram. And I'm like, but I didn't swipe on you. Yeah, but I guess that's maybe the norm since the app is glitchy, is it? Not sure. Do you feel about that?
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Neptune
If someone were to message me out of the blue on Instagram? Well, I also don't have it listed on there, but if I did.
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Luna
Smart, I.
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Neptune
Wouldn't. I would still be like, oh, like, we didn't even connect. I don't know who you are.
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Luna
That's how I feel most of the time. Like most of the time, I'm hearing from strangers who don't even introduce them to okay, okay, okay, so you are connecting with people there. You're moving to some. What are the kind of like or what do you want to tell us? What feels the most exciting about dating? I don't need to give you a degree about the process, but I am curious.
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Neptune
And I like I just, I love having a crush of any kind of friend crush, a sexy crush. This is a fully romantic like let's please date and get married. Crush I think it's fun. Yeah, this all started because at work I have a friend who has like, well, everyone has work crushes and I don't have one. And I've been like, I need like, it makes work more fun.
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Neptune
I want to have a crush. And I think there's just not someone for me there. And so I was like, let me branch out. And actually, like, if I was having so much, I should do something about it.
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Luna
Oh my God, you're so right. Okay. Work crushes. I've always had a work crush. I have always fucked people at work or through work. You know, it's a little bit different once you get into independent contracting, especially when all the work has to do with sex as a photographer. Oh, no. I did still end up with clients. I do still end up with clients.
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Luna
But that's a different context. Yeah. Okay. So do you feel like you will fit in at work even if your crush is not from work? Or like, oh yeah.
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Neptune
Honestly, it's a little more fun because I no one knows who it is.
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Luna
Okay. You know.
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Neptune
You don't work there, but when friends have a crush, it's like, but don't tell anyone of my guests to be very like, oh, we know the secret now, which is also the fun aspect of having a work crushes by a little secretive I like energy.
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Luna
I've been thinking a lot about humans and secrets, and I think everyone has some kind of secrecy kink in some way, shape or form. And I've been noodling on that because it's not so much about like the lying aspect of secrecy. Whereas like having a secret I think. Would love to hear your noodle reflection on this creates that like boundary container of privacy that allows for like true intimacy.
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Luna
Yeah, I.
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Neptune
Agree, I think when you say we're saying the government has the secret like secret kink, it really is like privacy in a way. Is that to me at least. Yeah. Like it feels like a little secret thing we're doing because we're behind closed doors having sex and doing fun things no one else are doing right now. It's cute.
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Luna
Okay, so you're on field two days, you get laid. What's that process like? What makes it satisfying for you? Like, what are the funnest parts? And like, what is it like getting laid right now?
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Neptune
That's it's really great. Yeah. I've only ever had sex. The one time. This was like a week ago.
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Luna
This is very recent. What great timing. But Kimberly was like, we need to do past guest update. So I was like, I know I miss everybody. And it was.
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Neptune
Maybe two days after that I got the email about the updates and I was like, well, what's.
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Luna
A good time to chat? What good fortune.
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Neptune
The universe knew the.
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Luna
Universe was like, yeah, Neptune needs to share these stories. Okay, so who's in your orbit? And it was it a daddy you have a daddy thing, but like, oh, it was okay. Yeah.
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Neptune
Oh, is it a okay? I could talk about it forever. I to give you a full play by play because I was like this is the best intro back into it.
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Luna
I would love to hear as whatever details you feel comfy sharing, you know, per their privacy, per your agreements, respecting all of our secrecy.
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Neptune
Kinks, of course. Yeah, we start talking on field, talked about, you know, limits. We're kind of negotiating a little bit. And then we were sexting a little bit. And I have been wanting to try edging if only ever tried it like in masturbation. And it's not the same.
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Luna
It's not the same.
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Neptune
I know some folks love it, but.
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Luna
No, it's great both ways, but it's not the same.
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Neptune
Yeah, it's not the same. So with then we were like talking and like over texts and they even set photos, which I like rarely do that. I was like just feeling so like sexy and ready that I did. And it'll sound great to do. And it made me feel even more sexy. So I will continue to do that.
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Luna
So yeah. Were they like, do you feel comfy saying, what kind of photos? And do you also feel comfy saying how you shared your limits or like kind of what they were?
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Neptune
Yeah, we just talked about certain language, especially because I'm trans. Like they asked about language for like genitalia. Some folks I know are into like misgendering. Some of my friends are like super into that. It's not for me like degradation, the kind of thing like talking about language first and then for when we meet up, talking about like what fantasy we're wanting, what kind of our goal is, and then we're like, okay, that sounds fun.
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Neptune
I'll see you at this time. And then it just turned into like, but like, what if we were there? Now I'm like, man. And like into that. And when we start talking about aging and I wanted to try and that's kind of how we got into our like sexting time. And I mentioned that I like taking orders. And he took full advantage of that.
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Neptune
And it was the best.
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Luna
Yummy.
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Neptune
Yeah I like that too for like a nerdy Bridget brain being like, I don't know what to do next or like what the like, quote unquote natural flow of this should be.
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Luna
Right? Right.
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Neptune
So having someone else kind of help take the reins within the limits is like, it makes it so much easier.
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Luna
I feel you. Yeah. Oh my gosh, I love that. And I think it's so beautiful to to have that kind of like preview. I think of it as a preview in sexting to see if language is going to line up, to slow my line up. And I know that a text conversation is always very different from an in-person physical situation, but I like that.
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Luna
It kind of like creates the tone, can create those expectations. And it sounds like you were excited enough to exchange pictures. Did you already have them on hand or did you take fresh ones?
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Neptune
I took freshman's.
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Luna
Amuse. The chatty muse was.
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Neptune
Even like, I feel even like sexier because like, oh, you're like telling me what to do, and I want to, like, do it. I want to listen to what you're saying. He was like, are you alone? And I said, yes. So he's like, telling me, like what to do. And then I was edging and then but again, with his sort of guidance, it was a lot sexier.
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Neptune
Yeah. And he was really excited about like photos. And he was really excited about like speaking with me. And that helped to like kind of amp me up and make me want to like give back.
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Luna
Yeah, yeah. When you say speaking like voice memos or like texting, speaking texting okay, okay. And like when you say he was guiding you, was it like specific instructions of how to touch yourself for comfort, sharing details?
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Neptune
Yeah. He was saying like, you know, touch your clit first and then like start fingers off but don't come. Yeah. And I was like, yes daddy. Like I will not be doing that. And then he asked for like a video. So as I was like fingering myself and saying like, please fuck me, daddy, please come fuck me daddy.
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Neptune
And I was like, okay, I did it. And it felt so hot. And then immediately after he said that he sent a video of himself, like jerking off and like saying, like, that was so hot, like, you know, praising me. And I was like, fuck, this is so good. And then that made me like, you know, obviously keep wanting to masturbate.
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Neptune
And I watched that video a couple times. It was really nice, not so hot.
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Luna
And so then how long between this like sexting session and in-person? Two days. Okay.
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Neptune
I think okay. Yeah, it was great. And we met up. Yeah, a couple nights later and immediately like so making out and then we're inside and like as soon as we were like inside the bedroom I got on my knees and I started second. It was great.
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Luna
Yeah. Question because I am Mrs. Safety I am single forever but married to safety. Did you already cover the health and safety stuff. Yes we.
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Neptune
Did. We covered that in the very like the initial conversation when we were talking about limits what we wanted from it. Yeah. To cover our bases.
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Luna
So can I ask, did you blow him with or without a condom with that? Okay. Yeah.
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Neptune
That's great. And I probably will still have him come in my mouth. But I was like, I need you to also come inside me, please. I've missed that a lot. On my favorite parts. The sex is like that ending makes me very happy.
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Luna
Damn, it's so good. Okay. And you had talked about that. So you, like, knew what you were building towards. Okay. What else were your favorite parts.
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Neptune
Before we met up? He was like on his way to me. He's only like, I'm on my way. I'll be there in like, I think like maybe 40 minutes. And he said, I want you to add to the whole time.
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Luna
That's really hot. I love looking forward to things, but that kind of lead up is so fucking hot.
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Neptune
He's and also like logistically that way I was like, also that way you can fuck me pretty much as soon as you get here because I'll be like, lube. Definitely.
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Luna
Yeah. Oh my god. Yeah.
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Neptune
So when you got there? Yeah, I talked him off for a while. He was already hard as soon as he walked in, I remember I was like sucking dick. And then I kind of looked up at him and looked at me and he was like, get on the bed. And I was like, yes, okay. And like, I got up and he was like, I have not come that many times, like ever in like one sitting.
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Neptune
I've totally lost count. It could be more than 20. I have no idea.
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Luna
Holy shit. Congratulations. Is that like, have you? Is that a lot by a long shot or like what? Like was, I.
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Neptune
Think a long shot. I think before that the most was with a partner and that was like six maybe or seven. But he just like he kept going and it was amazing.
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Luna
Wow. Do you feel like it was like the long time of build up? Do you feel like it was the connection that you had to feel like it was a combination? Of all I know it's an impossible question, but like how unusual and amazing it was.
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Neptune
It was the best. I think it was just because I haven't been that hard before. And it was like. And he had told me like, by the way, like after I come, I stay hard. So he came in me and then kept fucking me. And we also took breaks and I between like, we just.
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Luna
Like.
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Neptune
Just happened to sync up and be like, okay, break time. And it's like later, like catching our breath.
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Luna
Okay. That's because I was wondering, you know, because sometimes for me, the downside to being like, I'm fast, right? Like my whole life, I'm too fast for most people in almost all contexts. And so my whole life I'm like, okay, I'll wait, I'll wait, I'll wait. You know what? I'm also in this femme body. And so then it's like I scare the penis owners because they're like, oh my God, it's so much.
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Luna
And then the ones that like it, they're like, okay. And then I'm like, no, it's dumb shit, I want more. And so it sounds like you had just such a good rhythm of, like, continued play. Yeah. Like, yeah, it sounds like it lasted. And I love those resting breaks too. Yeah.
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Neptune
And then that's also when we can talk and like, be like, so what's your family like? Like what do you do for work immediately. No. All that.
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Luna
Yeah. Yeah.
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Neptune
And then for me that helps build the connection. And then I'm like okay let's get my get it out. Yeah. And then there's also was because like for certain like orgasms that were really really strong that I was like needing a break. I would have told him if I needed to, I didn't have to. He just was like, okay, let's take a break, drink some water.
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Neptune
You know, like catch your breath.
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Luna
Daddy. You he knows how to pay attention. Yeah. He's great. Oh my gosh. Okay. Other like physical sensations moments that are standout for you. Like what were some of the back and forth or even just like specific ways you like to get touched. Something like it was a lot of fucking.
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Neptune
Yeah, yeah. One of them that I hadn't done before, as I hadn't really like ridden anyone before. I'm only a little bit. Yeah. But it wasn't like, like logistically like I couldn't get the right leverage to actually ride them and like, towards the end he, like, pulled me on top of him to ride him. And that's when I was like, oh fuck.
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Neptune
Like your whole penis is all the way up there. I hadn't ever been that deep and it felt amazing. It was like screaming with like each thrust. It felt.
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Luna
Insane. Wow. Yeah. Wow. Can you come on top. Okay. How'd you do. But you hadn't done.
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Neptune
Actually I don't think I even touch myself the entire time. I think I really just came was like the whole time.
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Luna
Wow. Yeah. Now that we're prizing that above anything else, all ways of coming are great. But it is so hot and cool to find new things.
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Neptune
And it was totally new.
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Luna
Yeah. Do you. Okay, so sometimes when I'm on top, I get like, so I don't actually even know what this is. It's almost like I told someone this and they're like, you're like a goat that freezes, but like like it like hits a spot in me. And it like, like it does cause my whole body to freeze and sometimes it will fall over.
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Luna
Do you have any of that sort of intensity or do you. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Neptune
That's a great way.
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Luna
To show spine kind of.
00:18:02:23 - 00:18:18:12
Neptune
Yeah, yeah. The flick. Like when I got on top we kind of went slowly at first and then he like snapped his hips up and I really went like my back like arched. I was like oh fucking like. And then he kept doing that and I appreciated that. He was like helping to stabilize me. So I started to kind of go one way or the other.
00:18:18:12 - 00:18:22:23
Neptune
She would like grab me harder, which is hot, but also helping me, like, not fall off his body.
00:18:22:23 - 00:18:33:02
Luna
Yeah, yeah. It's great. It's very helpful if someone grabs and because like otherwise I get kind of like paralyze a dish temporarily, you know, but. Oh that's amazing. Yeah. He knew what he was doing.
00:18:33:04 - 00:18:36:02
Neptune
We kept joking that he was winning at sex, which is obviously fake, but.
00:18:36:07 - 00:18:38:13
Luna
Well, I was like, winning. You're winning. We're all winning.
00:18:38:13 - 00:18:47:02
Neptune
Yeah, cause I told him, like I haven't. He just made a joke. Like, did you lose count? He was like, yeah, I have never done all of that before. So he just kept joking like, you win.
00:18:47:04 - 00:19:08:02
Luna
I love that. I've been thinking about this a lot because I have recently been with a couple partners who were like, every time I was moaning, they're like, yeah, come for me, baby. And I'm like, well, okay. I'm enjoying myself a lot. I wasn't coming. There's no way for me to communicate that during sex without dissing you right now and being like, actually, I'm not.
00:19:08:05 - 00:19:25:23
Luna
You know what I've learned? I've learned that saying a negative at someone is not a sexy, helpful thing, you know? But I also love accuracy. And so, you know, to have someone who's kind of like checking in in that way and also making you come and reading the body in those specific ways was really hot. What was your communication like?
00:19:25:23 - 00:19:36:07
Luna
You know, it sounds like you were connecting as humans in between, but what was your communication like during that session? Was it more like physical, was a mixture of physical and verbal? And were you dirty talking and like, what kind of dirty talk were you into?
00:19:36:07 - 00:19:45:00
Neptune
Yeah, you dirty talking. That was most a communication. Okay. I mean, also towards the end I was like becoming like nonverbal. That's like all I can do is like screaming.
00:19:45:02 - 00:19:45:20
Luna
So many times.
00:19:46:00 - 00:20:04:12
Neptune
Yeah, exactly. All the words are just leaving my brain. I get that he was a little more silent than I was. I was moaning a lot, talking a lot, but like really classic of like, oh fuck, like that feel so good. And like calling him daddy because I know that turns it on. But I think it's more of why I like that.
00:20:04:12 - 00:20:21:12
Neptune
It's a little less for me, although I do like to say it and it's like fun now. Like, I know we both know your daddy. I think it was last time too. Like, we both know your daddy. But from messaging him, knowing how much he like that, I was like, I'm of course I'm going to say it. I want you to also be feeling sexy and want to keep fucking me.
00:20:21:14 - 00:20:34:15
Neptune
And then he would only be like, yeah, come for me if I would start to say, like, I'm close. Or if it was like, you know, constant screaming. He was like, come for me. Yeah. And at the beginning I would ask him, where can I come? And he was like, yes.
00:20:34:15 - 00:20:38:18
Luna
Yes, okay. Did he say yes all the time or did he ever tell you? No. Like he.
00:20:38:18 - 00:20:39:04
Neptune
Told me no.
00:20:39:04 - 00:21:07:03
Luna
Twice. Okay, okay. That's hot. I love getting told now in terms of orgasms and edging and stuff, I do have some partners that are incredibly permissive and that's hot too. But I'm also just like I can only, you know, kind of like you were saying, edging yourself is one thing. There's a very specific like experience of sublimation I have in my brain and physical body when I'm like literally about to come, my dominant or whoever I'm with is like, no.
00:21:07:03 - 00:21:18:12
Luna
And I'm like, oh shit. Especially if they keep doing whatever they're doing. Yeah. And so I love that. That's so hot that you got some nos and it's so have you got to come so much. Is it okay if I ask would you want to see him again.
00:21:18:12 - 00:21:27:07
Neptune
Yeah for sure I know I'm definitely going to see him later in the month. Well hopefully at some point in between too because I, I want that again for sure I love that.
00:21:27:07 - 00:21:46:20
Luna
So here's a question for you. This kind of goes back to the dating and maybe the selection process, especially as a neurodivergent human you identify as such it what selection criteria do you look for in a concrete way? It sounds like you chose a really good fit. It sounds like there were some verbal cues. It sounds like you've tested it out with dirty talk.
00:21:46:22 - 00:21:54:11
Luna
And then of course, we just have to test people in real life. But are there any specific like green flags you look for?
00:21:54:13 - 00:22:17:18
Neptune
Definitely. If I speaking to is very clear and up for communication, like right off the bat, that's also difficult because like, I mean, I guess on the field it's easier to be like here for pretty specific reasons. Yeah. Want to hang out and have sex, but if I meet someone somewhere else, it's harder to gauge, like what level we're going for, to know what level of communication I want to go for it.
00:22:17:18 - 00:22:38:11
Neptune
Like, are we going to talk about sex immediately? Do not talk about like or like more personal stuff and like like personal life things and family and that cancer before we get to that point. But again with this guy specifically, he was immediately communicative about what he wanted from the app. Ask me what I was looking for. So he got right on it.
00:22:38:11 - 00:22:41:03
Neptune
Like we saw that our goals matched up, so.
00:22:41:03 - 00:22:47:17
Luna
We went for it. Okay. Were your goals specifically sex oriented or was it like, I want sex and connection with this person?
00:22:47:23 - 00:22:52:12
Neptune
Yeah, sex and connection. It's hard for me to do sex without any connection.
00:22:52:12 - 00:23:14:05
Luna
I can't do kinky things without connection. I mean, I can definitely, like, I'll always experience connection through physical touch. And even when I've gone for the most, like, casual of things, people are like, you're amazing and they want to tell me. But their whole story depending on the time we have together and I love that. Like I love connecting with people, especially through information, you know, talking and physical touch.
00:23:14:07 - 00:23:32:17
Luna
And I think what I'm maybe going to veer more into asking people about dating, even though I'm very good at giving other people dating advice, is that kind of like very specific mix of like, well, how can I get straight to fucking? And because for me, it's like, I want to go on three dates with someone and not fuck them personally.
00:23:32:17 - 00:23:49:04
Luna
Yeah. I'm like, could you fuck me right away so we can see how that works? And also still treat me like a whole human being and get to know me at the same time. Like, you know, I want those dedications. So did you ask for that or were you just feeling that out in the conversation that you were having with him?
00:23:49:08 - 00:23:58:06
Neptune
I was feeling it out. I did tell him, like, I'm looking for sex and for something that's like preferably recurring.
00:23:58:06 - 00:24:00:19
Luna
Yeah. Recurring sex. I want that too.
00:24:00:19 - 00:24:17:05
Neptune
Yeah, I want to, like, in an ideal world, I would be like, I'm seeing this person this day of the week every week, and then this other person that this time I want to like. Obviously the spontaneity is fun and like, meeting someone, really, I want to fuck you right now is really fun. But also having that like guaranteed sex is good.
00:24:17:07 - 00:24:17:22
Neptune
It's nice.
00:24:18:00 - 00:24:47:13
Luna
It's something to look forward. If I could have a Monday, Wednesday, Friday and then even if they could only do every other week, that'd be okay. Then I could have multiple Mondays, multiple ones, and multiple Friday and then weekends are wild cards. Yeah, I would be so fucking productive during the week because literally most of my life, well, actually my entire life has truly become a distraction trying to get laid and figure out sex and like, you know, I've I've really achieved certain things in certain ways, and I really have made a mess of other things in other ways.
00:24:47:13 - 00:25:01:15
Luna
So it's like I'm always so curious. I mean, that's the thing. I'm endlessly curious about how it's going. So that feels exciting and satisfying. Maybe even if you don't assign him a day of the week, because I know most people don't like that feeling if I were to say it out loud. But it sure is nice when it just works out.
00:25:01:15 - 00:25:20:07
Neptune
Yeah, especially for like I haven't really busy schedule right now. So also knowing like I can count on this thing and I can plan around it because it has happened. One of the reasons why the people that I had been having sex with before, like my little break or big break now, was our schedules aren't matching up like, ever.
00:25:20:08 - 00:25:27:17
Neptune
Oh, I was, I was working at the time. I just stopped to work in one of my jobs. But before I was working like four jobs, technically.
00:25:27:19 - 00:25:34:09
Luna
That was a lot. Yeah. Also, in this day and age, I get it. Oh, gosh. I don't want to get my jobs right now. Yeah. No, that's a lot. Yeah.
00:25:34:09 - 00:25:41:16
Neptune
And like, the one that I just stopped doing was always evenings. So like oh my evenings are always work. So a lot of people can actually do them.
00:25:41:16 - 00:26:04:10
Luna
So that is the one thing like I fucking love erotic photography way more than headshots. I mean, I love headshots for so long, but also, the more I got into sex, the more I'm like, I want to take pictures of sex, I want to film sex. But it's like my sleep schedule is so fucked up and for so long I had a great 9 p.m. to 5 a.m. thing going, but like that doesn't work for a fucking life.
00:26:04:12 - 00:26:10:12
Luna
Yeah, until I get my daytime sex parties going. But so remind us to how long of a break you had had.
00:26:10:16 - 00:26:16:07
Neptune
I think it's before this. A couple weeks ago. Maybe since March.
00:26:16:10 - 00:26:32:19
Luna
Okay. Yeah. And if we were, like, designing Neptune's new era of fabulous fuckery, you know, so this daddy kind of connection is sold. What would your ideal dance card, full dance card look like?
00:26:32:21 - 00:26:56:20
Neptune
Yeah. Daddy card is filled. I'm definitely right now. Like the process I just went on a date with is closer to my age and like another trans person and queer because as much as I like the daddy, I also want that connection. Like that community of like we get it. We both trans and with that, with people who are again close to my age and also like similar identities.
00:26:56:20 - 00:27:07:17
Neptune
Yeah, it's easier, I think, to be like friends and like giggly and that kind of cute, like sweet sex. Yeah. And also like, we'll be kicking, you know? Yeah, yeah. Sexy and.
00:27:07:17 - 00:27:14:16
Luna
Intense. Oh, hot. When, like, hardcore crush sex turns into kinky sex. And then you can cuddle, fuck and then you can get nasty and all.
00:27:14:19 - 00:27:23:12
Neptune
Exactly. Yeah. I think it's a little bit easier for me to explore and, like, I'll feel comfy being more swishy.
00:27:23:13 - 00:27:23:21
Luna
With.
00:27:24:00 - 00:27:27:16
Neptune
Someone like that. But if it's a daddy, I'm going to want you to be my daddy. Of course I don't want it.
00:27:27:17 - 00:27:42:23
Luna
That makes sense. Yeah, I get that. I really get that, yeah. Oh, okay. And what is your ideal, like, fucking partner number right now? Like, do you want to have like two consistent and then room for wild cards or are you looking for more consistent like or does it are you just open.
00:27:43:01 - 00:27:52:02
Neptune
I'm open. I think two would be nice and then have wild cards. Yeah. But if I have more I'm happy with that. And if I was like, I'm happy with that too. Yeah. I just want to have sex.
00:27:52:04 - 00:28:11:19
Luna
Do you get distracted by, like, the flirt energy? Yeah. Oh, this was my question. I was gonna ask you because, like, you know, because, like, how you balance your life and sexting, like, do you still like to sext in between, or is that something kind of like, because you had that, like, hotness the first night and you let it simmer, like, do create conscious balance for yourself or do you just kind of go with the flow?
00:28:11:21 - 00:28:28:20
Neptune
I think I definitely want to keep sexting in between, and that kind of comes up in the flow anyway, once I've had that connection with the person and obviously when when you're both on the same page, if you're going to want to keep that up, keep it going, because I, I liked it. I would love to continue to do that.
00:28:28:22 - 00:28:51:14
Neptune
I think it's nice to warm up in between for like keeping the energy like fresh and new and like more present in my brain. And like it's also fun to like think about when I'm not speaking to the person just like out and about in the world. Just remember like I'll be so flirty like today when I walked away from kissing this person when I said goodbye, I was like, he like smiley and happy and like as I got into my car.
00:28:51:16 - 00:29:06:21
Luna
Okay, so in this swirl of new era of flirtation and hotness, how does your self-love fit in? I imagine it both supports the dates, also supports yourself, maybe grounds you like. Tell us about your self-love moment.
00:29:06:23 - 00:29:28:05
Neptune
Self-love was one of the factors had me realize, like, I want to start doing this again. I want so many people again. Because also like at the beginning of the year, I had that top surgery in January and it's super exciting and that has really like boosted everything. But I was still dealing with like stuff from being assaulted.
00:29:28:05 - 00:29:33:21
Neptune
So like dealing with that. And then I always get seasonal depression in summer.
00:29:33:23 - 00:29:34:19
Luna
Oh yeah.
00:29:34:19 - 00:29:42:08
Neptune
Well I just I don't want to be hot. It doesn't feel good. I have asthma so my skin gets all like shitty during. Sorry.
00:29:42:10 - 00:29:42:23
Luna
Yeah.
00:29:43:04 - 00:29:51:05
Neptune
And also like just things historically have happened in summer that are bad once like fall sort of happening I was starting to feel better.
00:29:51:07 - 00:29:53:02
Luna
Like give me some cuffing season.
00:29:53:02 - 00:30:16:13
Neptune
Yeah, exactly. And like, and I also just like, made one specific friend that I met at work who, like, doesn't necessarily like, I mean, obviously like she compliments me and we help each other up, but she's a very confident person that being around her is kind of rubbing off on me in a really, really positive way. And she's always like, she's always just like making jokes and like being comments about like, oh, we're just we're so hot and sexy, like we're the hottest bitches at work, that kind of stuff.
00:30:16:14 - 00:30:17:16
Luna
I love that. Yeah.
00:30:17:16 - 00:30:40:08
Neptune
And it's like, even when it's like just in jest and we're just being silly together. It also is like in the back of my head like, yeah, we are hot and sexy. So yeah, I've been feeling really great about myself. And then when I noticed it was really strong was when I was 16, this person and sending photos, which again, I used to never like do and I was like looking at my own photos on my own videos and being like, oh yeah, I am hot.
00:30:40:09 - 00:30:44:08
Neptune
This is awesome. Like really like fully acknowledging it and like feeling it.
00:30:44:08 - 00:31:04:17
Luna
I love that, I love that so much. That was a big part of my own personal process to write. Like, obviously I love taking pictures of other people, but yeah, and I haven't taken as many of myself lately. Maybe there's something to consider there, but I definitely feel I feel that. What does it take for you to want to send someone a photo?
00:31:04:19 - 00:31:21:00
Luna
We heard the specific of the daddy where it's like you were getting turned on. It was in the flow. But if you had to zoom out outside of a specific situation, like what level of trust needs to be met, what level of care, what sort of reactions do you prefer to get from sending hot stories.
00:31:21:02 - 00:31:43:12
Neptune
For the reaction? If they're just like expecting it, I don't like that. But when you're talking about like he mentioned, like, do you want to receive photos that you send photos? And I'm really I told him, like, I'm usually iffy about sending photos, honestly, just because I want them to be good and I'm just me trying to do a selfie of my crotch, like it doesn't feel like it's going to be like good lighting or whatever, he said.
00:31:43:12 - 00:32:00:00
Neptune
Obviously no pressure. You don't have to send photos, but essentially said, I don't care about the lighting, I just want to see you because it's high and it's like, oh, in that case, like just getting that reassure that, like, it doesn't have to be a professional photo of your pussy. I just want to see it and enjoy it.
00:32:00:02 - 00:32:06:20
Luna
But also, if you would like a professional photo of your pussy, I'm here for glitter here.
00:32:06:22 - 00:32:31:17
Luna
I think that's so hot. I think for me, the underlying message of as a pussy cat comes out to join us on the couch is the underlying message of I want to see you. And expressing that I think is is a really beautiful, you know, foundation for connection that can get even hotter, that can create that container of safety where I know that I've felt the largest permission for desire.
00:32:31:17 - 00:32:46:07
Neptune
Yeah, yeah, feeling that desire and like hearing it from the other person. Yeah. Mikey. Okay. And now I want to do it because that feels sexy and that feel. I feel like wanted and like. And I know that you think I'm sexy. Yeah. I'll share it with you.
00:32:46:09 - 00:33:07:05
Luna
And I know for me, getting whatever version of a thing feels like a specific response from that person, you know, rather than like a top back hurt or like a sexy babe or, you know, like, whatever. Like, I really, really love feeling like I am actually being seen after I have been asked to be seen. Yeah, that's so cool.
00:33:07:06 - 00:33:22:12
Luna
Anything else to say about your self-love? Or kind of like your noodles on self-love or what? Or can you articulate the specific part of your self-love process that sounds like maybe like as your own best friend, you're like, you need to get laid or like, what was it like for you?
00:33:22:14 - 00:33:24:13
Neptune
I don't think I can fully articulate it.
00:33:24:14 - 00:33:25:19
Luna
Yeah, it is impossible.
00:33:25:22 - 00:33:26:13
Neptune
Yeah. It's hard.
00:33:26:13 - 00:33:30:23
Luna
Words are so not enough is what I've learned over five years of asking people about sex.
00:33:31:01 - 00:33:53:13
Neptune
Yeah, there's so much more to do and say about it. But I think my self-love journey really did start with top surgery, because all of a sudden I was like, I don't want to my it off 24 seven. I had my first like day at the beach without my shirt on. I felt like amazing the whole time. So being able to actually fully be free with my body because it's like the last thing for me at least outwardly presenting as someone to get a hysterectomy.
00:33:53:13 - 00:34:21:10
Neptune
But that's like, no one's saying that. Yeah, people are actually perceiving my chest, so it's nice to have that done. And after having that, it's been nice for me to feel comfortable exploring how a dress to. So it's changed a lot, how I express myself to the world and how I feel like within my own body and in sexy times like I as soon as I got some surgery, I got a harness like an H harness that was around my chest.
00:34:21:10 - 00:34:39:15
Neptune
And I love how it looks and feels like flat against my skin. Like when I'm at cruise at the door, like I feel more comfortable wearing a tight shirt or having that harness on. Or one of the last few months I wore like a sheer long sleeve shirt, and I felt so hot and sexy in it because I was like, look at my scars.
00:34:39:15 - 00:34:40:15
Neptune
I have a flat chest.
00:34:40:15 - 00:34:44:21
Luna
Down that's hot. Do you like your chest being touched?
00:34:44:23 - 00:35:00:05
Neptune
Yeah, I like that someone can touch it. Yeah. It's not like sensitive. I don't have nipples, I don't hold on to them. Yeah. So it's just kind of like any part of my body. Yeah. I didn't want nipples. I was like I want to be smooth. It's fine I don't I don't care for them. They weren't sensitive to begin with.
00:35:00:05 - 00:35:09:05
Luna
So yeah. Yeah, yeah. Well and I mean whatever you want is awesome, right? You get to design the package. Yeah, yeah. So yeah, it's it's great.
00:35:09:05 - 00:35:24:18
Neptune
So it gives me like a gender dysphoria to have someone, like, put your hand on my chest. Or when I was having sex with this person, he was, like, biting my chest. Like, kind of up towards my collarbones. And I, like, I could still kind of feel it. I don't, I don't bruise easily, which makes me very sad.
00:35:24:19 - 00:35:25:01
Neptune
And I.
00:35:25:01 - 00:35:25:15
Luna
Want.
00:35:25:17 - 00:35:33:11
Neptune
To be marked. Yeah, but I did like it didn't look like a bruise, but it's not like a bruise. So I'd be like at work and it's kind of like pressing on my chest, like right up here.
00:35:33:11 - 00:35:34:03
Luna
That is. So it.
00:35:34:03 - 00:35:36:23
Neptune
Was. Yeah. I told him, like, I can still feel it and it's really hot.
00:35:36:23 - 00:35:44:03
Luna
I love that so much. Is it is it okay if I reveal to you that I am sitting on a very bruised ass right now?
00:35:44:05 - 00:35:45:07
Neptune
That makes me happy for you.
00:35:45:08 - 00:36:01:04
Luna
Three days bruised. Thank you. I love having the like aftermath feelings. Of course I have to time it specifically depending on like work stuff and shoots and all of that. But I fucking love getting bruises beat into me. Yeah, by the right people who I can trust, of course.
00:36:01:04 - 00:36:13:15
Neptune
Yeah, I love marks and they really are just like happy reminders of like, oh, I just did this in day and it's evidence on my body that I can look at and admire, and I think they're pretty. Yeah. I just, I like them a lot. I just wish my body would do it a little bit more.
00:36:13:17 - 00:36:26:14
Luna
Really. Well, I mean, that's why you got to put tattoos on it or something, right? Yeah. Would you ever get like a tattoo or a brand from a partner, like, obviously if they were serious and they were going to stay in your life or I mean, maybe not everyone has a different relationship marks.
00:36:26:16 - 00:36:45:23
Neptune
Absolutely. I love tattoos. Have many of them. Yeah. I want to get many more. A lot of my tattoos are significant to people. I have one that I haven't gotten yet, but I still want to get that a person drew for me, intended as a tattoo. And I had told them I want to get puzzle pieces like I have seen the puzzle pieces of significant people in my life.
00:36:45:23 - 00:36:46:10
Luna
Yeah.
00:36:46:12 - 00:37:05:02
Neptune
And they drew their little one from me and we don't speak anymore. We had a falling out, but it was still a really important, like relationship for me. And I learned a lot through our like falling out and the aftermath of that. So I still want to get it. I think it's so important to me to have that permanently with me, even if it ends badly.
00:37:05:03 - 00:37:22:22
Luna
I love that. I think that's so beautiful and I'm so glad you said that out loud, because I have many relationships, more than I would like. You know, where it's like, just because the relationship, the way it was, came to an end, the growth I had with that person, the joy I had with that person, the appreciation I had with that person.
00:37:22:22 - 00:37:42:03
Luna
I mean, look, I would not be here today right now if it were not for my former master. He chose to remove himself from my life in meaningful ways. But I don't hate him. I think fondly of him. Yeah, I hope that he is well, you know, and and I love kind of that keeping those important tokens. I'm, I'm a keeper of like the important parts, you know.
00:37:42:03 - 00:37:47:20
Luna
Yeah. And I let go of the parts where I'm like, well, we can't be with everyone forever and always.
00:37:47:22 - 00:37:49:14
Neptune
Yeah, unfortunately.
00:37:49:16 - 00:37:54:15
Luna
Well, here's the question. Okay, so you were a tattoo artist. Can we tell people where you work? Yeah.
00:37:54:18 - 00:37:57:02
Neptune
Common Ground Studio in Cypress Park.
00:37:57:02 - 00:38:03:18
Luna
Okay. So have you gotten to tattoo anything naughty or dirty on people yet?
00:38:03:20 - 00:38:20:22
Neptune
No. Not yet. It's my first day, like a couple days ago. So it was hearts and stars and smiley faces this last time. But I would love to. I'm like, already planning in my brain like different flash sheets to cater to different aspects of my life and people that I want to share them with.
00:38:20:22 - 00:38:22:01
Luna
I love, I would.
00:38:22:01 - 00:38:22:12
Neptune
Love to hear.
00:38:22:13 - 00:38:26:16
Luna
Oh my gosh, if you put naughty things on the flash sheets will have to tell the sex stories.
00:38:26:16 - 00:38:48:04
Neptune
Of course. Yes, please I definitely I want to I'm again, I'm just starting out, but I really want to specialize in lettering. It's always been an interest of mine and I do calligraphy. I love to design fonts. I definitely want to have like it's a bunch of like words that are like slight like, you know, daddy get really creative, like sloppy bottom, whatever, whatever you desire.
00:38:48:04 - 00:38:50:17
Neptune
You could build your own word and then I'll put it on you.
00:38:50:19 - 00:39:00:16
Luna
Yeah. Oh my God, I love that. Are there any other, like, updates about your sex life or just like, sexy noodles that you have in your brain right now, or your heart or your loins?
00:39:00:18 - 00:39:10:20
Neptune
I'm just excited to keep doing what I'm doing. I sent my brain to it again within two days I was doing it. I'm excited to, like, be going back out there and meeting really fun and hot new.
00:39:10:20 - 00:39:26:01
Luna
People to connect with. Well, Neptune is the planet of dreams and clearly you are a powerful manifester in that aspect. Okay, so here's what I would like to know currently. What are your hopes for your sex life going forward?
00:39:26:03 - 00:39:48:18
Neptune
I want to really explore the kinks that I haven't like, can't ever continue to. I want to find out, like ways that are comfy for me to explore, like exhibitionism. I guess that kind of goes hand-in-hand in my brain for like, voyeurism, like people watching. I haven't had sex with more than two people at a time. So I want to branch out and, like, make friends and have them on me.
00:39:48:18 - 00:39:50:22
Neptune
And then we can all have sex together. Have a fun time.
00:39:50:22 - 00:39:51:13
Luna
Absolutely.
00:39:51:19 - 00:40:07:23
Neptune
Yeah. Only once. Like, I had a nice, like, makeout and touching and like a cuddle puddle with like five other people. But that was so long ago. And I want that again. And I want to go all the way like all of us in our, you know, comfort level of nudity, having a fun time. Yeah.
00:40:08:00 - 00:40:32:22
Luna
Yeah, I want that too. I think I want my first like, well there's two there's two branches right? I guess. So a recent fantasy is about measuring cocks and I'm like, If I'm going to get a bunch of cocks together to like, measure them in, line them up, I might as well do my gangbang. Right. Yeah. You know, and like but then I'm like, well, maybe I should just start with three and get the like, what's it called?
00:40:32:22 - 00:41:06:17
Luna
Let's see. With a spit roast. Plus another spit roast plus DP. What's that called? Dynamite. You know what I mean? Like a triple penetration basically. Yeah. I'm like, a fourth one, maybe I'll get a double double virginal and then maybe my asshole. But anyway, you know, so I have gangbang fantasies. I have like multiple holes fantasies. However, for my first like true orgy, I do think I would want that to be all like queer, fluid people, you know, and have a situation where, like, everyone there would want to touch everyone there, you know, and just and really curate the experience.
00:41:06:19 - 00:41:28:18
Luna
Because I think probably the most practical reason aside from money, aside from the fact that I'm barely home in terms of holding off on planning the sex parties, is I hear from so many different people. I am friends with so many different types of people. I have enough lived experience, but like not all of my friends, like my other friends in ways I don't really understand.
00:41:28:19 - 00:41:48:09
Luna
So like curating that social experience I don't really know about. But I feel like when I get other queer lovers together, it's usually like a higher percentage of yes. Yeah. So, you know, and I'm trying to figure out how to do that in ways that are like inviting and also figuring out the problematic nature of what is often described as gatekeeping.
00:41:48:11 - 00:41:59:23
Luna
Like, what's the difference between gatekeeping and curating, right? Like the goal as a host is to create the best event possible. So I think I might start with like sensual dinners, I don't know. Anyway, those are kind of like my rules for the.
00:41:59:23 - 00:42:03:00
Neptune
Future, but I feel like it's hard to plan that. Like it also.
00:42:03:00 - 00:42:03:19
Luna
Just takes effort.
00:42:03:19 - 00:42:08:16
Neptune
And person who doesn't like, understand all of like the social norms.
00:42:08:16 - 00:42:09:12
Luna
Or most of how.
00:42:09:12 - 00:42:27:18
Neptune
It works. Yeah, like yeah, it's hard. I feel like I would have to dedicate so much time, like if I were to find my own, like finding those specific people, having them kind of me. Like I want them to meet in smaller batches before. So like like, how am I going to facilitate, like everyone that I want to have sex with, meeting each other.
00:42:28:00 - 00:42:28:05
Luna
And.
00:42:28:05 - 00:42:34:02
Neptune
Liking each other and then like making space for all of us to be together on planet and then all of us to be together and do it.
00:42:34:02 - 00:42:51:14
Luna
And I'm curating the right groups with the right people. I mean, I am a big fan of Priya Parker's book, the Art of gathering. Like reading that, I'm like, okay, okay, you know, and I'm just totally applying it to sex. And so I've also taken the long research route of, you know, meeting people, meeting people from all different backgrounds, meeting from all different types.
00:42:51:16 - 00:43:18:10
Luna
And, you know, my big noodle is like, all right, I think for my birthday party, this year, there'll be some sort of, like, art oriented gallery, you know, like the evening before, safe for work. Family could come. It's not weird. Yeah. And then the next day is the daytime play party. Or maybe swap it. Maybe swap it. I'm like, if we fucked all day from like, noon to five and then had an hour to clean up and then set up the gallery, would anyone show up for the nighttime part?
00:43:18:10 - 00:43:32:18
Luna
I don't know, you know. Yeah. So I think that the stuff all the time, any other like kinks or stuff that you want to explore in the near future, I think it's just, you know, as a person that like, I have a huge long bucket list and I'm always figuring out how to organize it, and happenstance has a way of happening.
00:43:32:21 - 00:43:37:10
Luna
Yeah, I like speaking it out loud just to see what I can make happen. But like, what else is top of mind for you?
00:43:37:12 - 00:43:39:23
Neptune
I really want to do free use.
00:43:40:01 - 00:43:43:05
Luna
Like, yeah, it's so hot to me.
00:43:43:07 - 00:44:01:20
Neptune
A while ago someone had invited me to go on a cruise with them. I said no because they were weird. Yeah, it didn't work out. I didn't feel like it'd be like a comfy space, but that in theory, with someone I'm actually comfortable with. Yeah, would be a fun place to like, explore that. I think obviously within like the limits of like, not fucking in front of people.
00:44:01:20 - 00:44:02:18
Neptune
What if it's like a.
00:44:02:20 - 00:44:03:11
Luna
Unless the.
00:44:03:13 - 00:44:04:12
Neptune
Only thing I.
00:44:04:13 - 00:44:05:03
Luna
Totally.
00:44:05:05 - 00:44:09:03
Neptune
I'm sure like on the adults, on the cruises people get a little tricky.
00:44:09:03 - 00:44:10:18
Luna
And I have heard stories.
00:44:10:20 - 00:44:26:07
Neptune
Of having like an extended amount of time, even if it's not that to somewhere where we have like a little vacation, we're like, I can step away from whatever I'm doing or like have a work from home type of thing so I can just be at home at their disposal all day for whatever.
00:44:26:07 - 00:44:32:15
Luna
So it would be amazing. Oh my god, Neptune, I thank you so much for coming back and sharing your update on Sex Story.
00:44:32:16 - 00:44:33:16
Neptune
Thank you for having me.
00:44:33:16 - 00:44:35:21
Luna
Remind people where they can find you on the internet.
00:44:35:23 - 00:44:46:23
Neptune
Yeah, you can find me on Instagram. My personal Instagram is CM Codex and today you'll find tattooing and fun stuff. Just come, come say hi.
00:44:47:01 - 00:44:47:11
Luna
Awesome.
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