Butt rub orgasms, week-long sexting, and a love of blowjobs—Lady C shares how open communication transformed her long-term relationship into a kinky, pleasure-filled partnership.

📈 STATS | 30 straight female, she/her pronouns, in a relationship of 7 years, production planner, from Tennessee, into: giving blowjobs, anal, sending her significant other sexy photos and naughty videos, getting choked, being held down, days-long foreplay, and is curious about bondage.

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Luna Robbie 0:00

Our guest today is a 30 year old, straight female who is in a relationship of seven years. She loves giving blow jobs, anal sending her significant other sexy photos and naughty videos, and she is into things like getting choked being held down. Is very curious about bondage, and has a very exciting story about her, but getting rub to share with us also, sometimes she and her partner have foreplay that lasts for days, and she's gonna tell us why. A production planner with us today from Tennessee, welcome, Lady C, hello. Thanks for having me. I am so excited to have you here, getting these types of personal details and like being honored by hearing your specifics is absolutely one of my favorite things in the whole wide world. So first, could you start off by telling us if you had to rate yourself today on a sexual shame o meter, with 10 being the most full of shame and zero being like, I don't have any where do you fall today and when, if ever, over the years, has your shamo coaster squiggled up and or down?

Lady C 1:01

I'm probably maybe, like a three. Maybe I'm giving myself a little bit more credit.

Luna Robbie 1:06

That's okay. It's hard to measure three.

Lady C 1:09

But um, as far as, like, past experiences shame, I've been at a 10 when I had like a one night stand in my in my brother's balcony closet and got walked in.

Luna Robbie 1:25

Oh, that's I could understand that spike, yep. Wait, got walked in on by your

Lady C 1:33

brother. No, his boyfriend, actually. Oh, okay. Well,

Luna Robbie 1:37

still, okay, still

Lady C 1:42

burn out. Party, and me and the guy, you know, we had walked out on the balcony, and then we made our way into their little storage closet that they converted into like a smoking area. And so, yeah, we were going down, and it lasted maybe like three minutes before we got walked in. Oh no.

Luna Robbie 2:05

Okay, I actually think that's a great reason to have a shame spike, like to be like, Oh, not what we meant, but it sounds like, in general, day to day, you're pretty chill. Or do you want to tell us the texture of your three

Lady C 2:18

I just, I think it comes more with like, the comfortability between me and my partner, like we we talk to each other about, like, you know, things that we're willing to explore, or maybe things we do. I don't know. It's just like, you just talk really, and so I don't really have any shame when it comes to him, my work environment, I don't really talk to anyone there, because I feel like it's like, where do they stand with this type of conversation type of thing? So I just try not

Luna Robbie 2:49

to Fair, fair. I know I it's so funny because I hear from a lot of people who do have co workers where they share all kinds of naughty stories in various environments. And then I hear from some people that are like, I could never share any of this at work. And so it's yeah, you know. And it's like, how do you what you don't know until you know? So unless you, like, stumble onto someone else sharing something first, it's like, yeah, how do you ever know? Okay, well, I'm so excited that you're here today to share with us. Could you tell us what is sexy to you, like in general, and or what's your personal definition.

Lady C 3:21

It's so broad. I feel like because someone that may not be attractive to you I may find sexy because of their demeanor, you know what I mean, and just their personality, and that's that's a really big one for me, like just personality and humor is, then all that stuff, but, you know, just the overall, I guess, effect they have over people around them, you know, just like how they treat other people, though.

Luna Robbie 3:50

Okay, this is kind of a step back, but I'm putting, attempting to put puzzle pieces together without very much information. So I'm making up a story in my head that you and your partner, if you're good at, I mean, it sounds like you have a really open communication and that you're like, connected to, you know, I think of them as energetic or character qualities of a person is talking about sex, sexy to you and like, is that part of your like, connection with your partner? Yeah, yes,

Lady C 4:15

for sure. Absolutely. We both do. It just depends. Like, you know, sometimes for foreplay, we're just like, talking, like, so, like, how do you want this to go? Like, if they're going to be like this, like, soft, or is it going to like, we want to go hard? Like, how do you want it, kind of thing. And then it goes, it turns into the conversations, like, Well, how would you feel like me and another girl were like, seven days? Or how would it feel like for you to have a dick in your mouth and while I'm like, you know, in your pussy kind of thing, and so it just and we go everywhere. I every day.

Luna Robbie 4:56

Love that so much. Did that evolve? Naturally between you two.

Lady C 5:02

I think so. And honestly, I want to say that it was after listening to your podcast. And so, so I like, babe. I'm like, I'm listening to this podcast, and it's like, it's about sex, but like, not, like, how you think it'd be like, you know, I'm like, let's, like, deep dive more into those like conversations, because I really want to know, like, I want to know what you like. I want you to know what I like. So, you know, we can kind of like, build on that.

Luna Robbie 5:32

Oh, my gosh, yes. Oh, I love that so much. And I love when the partner is able to meet you there, like, and it sounds like doing it in a really hot way? Oh, we're gonna have so much fun. Okay, okay, before we dive into all of those details, it sounds like there's a lot of wonderful stuff there. How did you learn about love, sex, connection and pleasure, growing up like did you ever get a sex talk? Tell us what you remember from your early years, starting with wherever makes sense. As early as you remember hearing about sex,

Lady C 6:04

okay, I'll start with like we had the elementary school conversations, but that was more about like they separated the boys and the girls, and then like they were talking about, you know, our cycles and things like that with us. Don't know what they were talking about with the police, but they didn't really cover specs there. I think the first memory I have of like, what specs was, I remember going trying to find a VHS tape, and I seen one that was blank, so I just, like, threw it in the VCR to see what it was, and it was actually one of my dad's porno.

Luna Robbie 6:46

Wait, wait, when you see your dad's pornos,

Lady C 6:50

it was his like stat collection recorded, yes, okay, so

he's not in a would have been

permanently start forever. But no, it was one of his. And it was like, one of those. I was like, whoa. And this, I turned it off real fast and put it back where it was. Didn't even think about it. And my hands are divorced, so I was over his on the weekend, and my mom's during the weekdays. And so I want to say, like, sometime between, you know, my God, went to my mom's, and I remember her watching, you remember that movie, Gia with Angelina, Jolie?

I vaguely, yeah, there was like,

a sex scene in there, and I had walked out of my room to use the restroom, and I was just kind of like, Oh, what is going on here? And so then I was just like, I need to look more into Oh, back to my dad's. I had found my tape. He was out. I popped it in and I watched it, and I was just like, wow. Like, what is this, this looks like fun. And so then that was, like, my first idea of, like, what sex was?

Luna Robbie 8:08

Wow. Okay, so it sounds like you got, like, the reproductive stuff in school, but then and you knew that this was sex that you were watching. But like, what did you do with that information? Like, at what point did you start exploring yourself and or exploring with partners?

Lady C 8:25

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 17. So as far as that, like, I don't really know when I started like touching myself, but I would remember vaguely that I would get like, at the corner of the bed and kind of like, rub my vagina on the car the bed, just because I, like, love the sensation it was given me. And I was doing that for like, a while, I want to say, and then, like I said, I wasn't really sexually active with other people until I was in high school, 17. Okay,

Luna Robbie 9:03

wait, so, so that was your like, main form of self pleasure was the bed corner rubbing? Okay, okay. Did you fool around with anyone before the virginity debut?

Lady C 9:16

No, I like, I want to say quote, unquote, boyfriends. We just really kind of made out. And then, um, even the guy I lost my virginity too, he wasn't really like my boyfriend. It was just nobody like I had met. And I was just like, you know what like it is, what it is. And so I ended up, um, giving him a blow job one night, and then had to go to a basketball game because I was on the dance team. Dance that's awesome.

Luna Robbie 9:52

Okay, so, so that was your first like part. Did you, did you continue to see him? Or was it like a, like a blow and go to type situation? Yeah, I continue. You

Lady C 10:00

to see him, and then, you know, we eventually had, you know, actual sex, like, with penetration, and it wasn't anything spectacular. I remember walking away from it like, is this what sex is? Yes, I was like, this is the this one that wasn't, like, really pleasurable for me, you know, and thought like it is what it is. But I guess, like the, I guess, like, the connection for me is what made me continue to go see him more, yeah, and so, but yeah, that was pretty much it on that one.

Luna Robbie 10:38

Wow, interesting, okay, but some part of you at least knew that you deserved pleasure, even if, like, I know that I experience a lot of pleasure in, like you said, connection or just touching someone. And also, of course, I crave the heights of sexual pleasure. You know, like, I want all of it. Did you do you remember, if you ever explicitly got the message that you, like, deserve pleasure, or did you just know it? I

Lady C 11:03

just, I felt like I knew it, like I was like, there's, there's no way that this is it. I mean, it was not trying to like dog him or anything, but it was just like it wasn't anything spectacular. It's not what I've thought it would be. And I was just like, it's got to be more. I think that's what I was kind of after, after that, okay, just want to feel like, more Yeah, get more pleasure out of it. I

Luna Robbie 11:24

love that. So okay, I guess I always associate Tennessee with being very conservative, but it sounds like you weren't in judgmental environments, or if you were that it didn't stick to you. What? What is that kind of texture been like? Like, what were friendships like in school and stuff. Like, what was that, like, social vibe? Like, um, so,

Lady C 11:44

you know, I was in a lot of clubs. I was in marching band. I was on the day as teen, you know, drama club and all that. And so I didn't really, I want to say I didn't really have a group. I was just kind of, like, friendly with everybody. And I, I kind of think that's because I'm a cancer or just like, with sweet people, yeah, and, you know? And it's just like I treated others how I wanted to be treated. And so, you know, I was kind of just like, all around nice person, you know, if you were nice to me, I was nice to you, you know. So that's just how it was.

Luna Robbie 12:17

But it sounds like, overall, like, was it explicitly sex positive? Was it neutral? Like, did you ever talk about sex with any of your friends? Oh, yeah.

Lady C 12:25

So most of my friends were sexually active, okay, and so, you know, they would tell me, you know, about their sexual experiences as well. And I guess that's where, kind of, where I got the idea, like, there's gotta be more, you know, like this. This is there's something going on. So I was actually, like, the last person to lose my virginity in like a little brain group. I did have, like, three girls

Luna Robbie 12:48

I totally relate to that. It took me a couple years longer than you, not for lack of trying, but just just wasn't choosing the right targets, I guess. But okay, so when you realized that you were like, Oh, I'm maybe ready to find something different. Like, what was kind of the next partnered learning, like, Did you actively seek stuff where you just kind of, like letting it come to you? Like, What? What? How did you grow from there? I

Lady C 13:11

was definitely, like, a letting it come to me kind of girl, and now I would dabble on, like, the date and I've but, you know, you can really, you can't really take those seriously ever, because you get so many weird messages, but, but, like, I think I really came out of my showing in college, like I was, you know, messing around in college. That's, that's when I had the one night stand in my era. Okay, yes, and I actually, you know, had a boyfriend, quote, unquote, like I said, we just made out from high school that had moved away, and I had actually went to college, you know, where he had moved, and so we kind of hooked up, and I actually got pregnant with my son, And that, yeah, and that kind of just bolted everything, okay, as far as by, you know, having sex and kind of just being out there, I guess, yeah,

Luna Robbie 14:09

yeah. Can I ask what your body felt like in terms of erotic desire, like when you were pregnant? Did? Were you one of those pregnant ladies that's like, fuck me a lot. Or were you, like, this is over, like, let me go have this baby. Like, what was it like for you? For

Lady C 14:25

me, it was kind of, it was kind of a little different because of the circumstances, you know, I was basically on my own as far as, like, you know, he wasn't in the picture, so it was just me. But I definitely felt very horny majority of the time, like I wanted to, but it was just not available, because it's like, you know, you're not, you're not really here with me, and I didn't want to, you know, go date while I was pregnant. So it was just kind of like, it was miserable. My my mom and brother said I was really bitchy. And that's probably why I'm

Luna Robbie 15:01

gonna say, Yeah, well, frustrate, frustrating. And I like, Did you masturbate at all? Can you even reach once your belly bit gets big? How have I not asked any of my pregnant friends this I think they didn't have desire. But like, What do you remember?

Lady C 15:13

I don't think I did okay, just because, like, it was, it was kind of like a not so great time, you know? I mean, yeah, and so it was kind of just like a, let's, let's get this baby out. We'll go from there kind of thing. Okay, yeah,

Luna Robbie 15:28

okay, so you did, I imagine that was a lot of energy having a newborn, you know what? What was kind of the next unfolding in your own intimate life, and, like, what was your connection to your own body? Like, going at that point,

Lady C 15:43

oh gosh, it was. It was very hard, because I had gained like, over 70 pounds, and it was just like, I didn't know my body anymore. Like I didn't, I didn't look at the mirror and seeing, like, what I used to see. And so that was really hard for me. And so I feel like I kind of developed a complex around my body around that time. And so I didn't really go looking for, you know, any anybody. It was just kind of like saying to myself, and, you know, I had, like, friendly, you know, conversations with people, but none that I was ready to actually jump in with. It was, like, almost a year and a half after I had my son, before I was sexually active again. Okay,

Luna Robbie 16:32

what was that like? Was it was there pressure? Or was it just like the right? You don't seem like someone who puts a lot of pressure on herself, but I don't know what, what's it like for

Lady C 16:41

you? No, it was, it was, it was co worker, which I do, not I do and don't, you know, recommend, but I say that because my boyfriend was my co worker. Okay,

Luna Robbie 16:56

I've always tried to fuck people at work, like, my entire life, every job, like, maybe not my high school job, but like, every job after that, like, I always was like, I was like, also, it's a great place to meet people. It's kind of our, you know, right? Yeah, it's a social group for a lot of people. And it is,

Lady C 17:11

I mean, what's where you are most of the time, you know? And there's just, you develop these relationships. And that's really kind of what happened and and so after like, a year and a half, you know, I was talking to this guy I worked with, and he asked me for my number, and I gave it to him, and then, like, I want to say we were texting about 34 months, and then we started having sex. We weren't in a relationship. It was just kind of like a situationship.

Luna Robbie 17:39

Do you like that, or are you more like title? I mean, it sounds like it was working, and tell us what the sex was like. What did you learn about it?

Lady C 17:46

I'm definitely a title type of girl, but I was honestly trying to go with the flow, because that was actually the first time I had an orgasm, user, like, with penetration. And so that was, you know, like a eye opener for me. And I'm like, okay, so this is what sex is supposed to feel like. Thank you more please about you there, yeah, and, but yeah, it was, like, Great stack. We were just, I would start by, you know, like stacking a stick. And he'd like that. There was, like, fingering involved, as far is, you know that, and then we would just kind of experiment. He's the first guy I was a, you know, I get we did anal though, oh, yeah. And in that experience, that was a pretty decent anal experience, I have to say,

Luna Robbie 18:41

your first time with anal was a decent one. Can you tell us the details of what you remember? Yes,

Lady C 18:47

okay, so bear with me. It's been a while. It's been like a relationship, but, but yeah, you know, we had talked about it like, you know, I was like, I think I'm gonna try anal. And he was like, Well, okay, you know. And he asked me if I was sure, and I was like, Yeah. And I was just like, you know, cool. So we planned it. He came over. I think what made it a decent experience for me was that he was very patient. Like, if I said, Okay, keep going, he would push it in. When I told him to stop, he stopped. You know what? I mean, it wasn't like a forced thing, and it was actually to the point where, you know, he was all all the way in, and I was just like, Okay, now go. And he, he was like, he was hitting all the spots. And I actually did have him ask at them,

Luna Robbie 19:41

amazing. Oh, amazing. That is so that is such a big win on a number of levels. First of all, like, I am just applauding you for the communication for, you know, being like, I want this, and then initiating it and the and waiting until that moment, because that's, that's the smartest thing before. First few times I had anal, I didn't know that there was a point where it would, like, feel good and safe and yummy, and then, like, go. And so the fact that you, like, got there, found it, and then, I mean, not to be so outcome oriented, but like, that's so cool that you had an ask Adam first time, okay? And it was, right, yeah, yeah. Oh, that's awesome. Okay, so is that something that's regularly on the menu for you now, or, like, I'm jumping ahead, but just tell us, just now, maybe tell us a little bit about anal first. Let's just pause and take a chance to talk about anal.

Lady C 20:32

Oh, me and my current partner have tried anal. Okay, the issue we've come across this. He's very girthy. That

Luna Robbie 20:42

is a thing. Yeah, that that's real.

Lady C 20:45

Oh, it's, um, you know, I've, I've gotten anal plugs, you know, like the different variation in sizes. So hopefully, you know, that would help. Okay, but the biggest one I have is, like, nothing compared, totally. That. We try. Then I'm like, Okay, I'm scared.

Luna Robbie 21:05

I mean, that's very fair, and I definitely would recommend I just got a set of dilators that are glass that I haven't used yet, but, like, they're a little bit bigger, but I definitely love that you're using plugs and Yeah, well, if you get there, I will be curious. Just go slow and stay gentle. Wait till you guys have tried and you're like, No, no, abort mission. Or like, what's Yeah,

Lady C 21:26

we've, I mean, we've tried multiple times. Like, it's kind of like, fewer and far in between. But I want to say, um, during the span of our seven year relationship, we've tried maybe, like, four times. Okay to have it. It'll just like, I'm not there yet that's okay.

Luna Robbie 21:43

I mean a fun alternative that I like if I'm because for me, it takes I love anal, and I don't want to do anal with just anyone like they have to be really into it. They have to know what they're doing. I don't usually, unless certain circumstances, I don't usually want to be a teacher around it. And I do also love wearing a butt plug while fucking. So have, is that something that you're into, like, just, is it like anal stimulation in general, or is it specifically, like the fucking, like, what do you love about it the most?

Lady C 22:10

I think it's the penetration, like, the, like, the actual fucking, okay, yeah, it's, it's like the fucking and then reaching around and playing with, you know, my clit, like, I like, you know, all this stations, I guess. Yeah,

Luna Robbie 22:25

okay, oh, are you open to a brainstorm? Because this just popped into my head. I don't know if you're like, partner. Okay. I was just talking to someone off pod who was telling me that their partner, who has a penis, wore a strap on so that he could double penetrate them, so you could get a skinnier, like, astile, though, and maybe try both. I don't know that could be interesting. Oh, it could. Or even, even if it's not on a strap, like, maybe there's, like, you know, the hand version, because, like, having, just saying, I also got a strap that was like on a leg. I don't know there's, there are many different ways to strap things, so just just spitballing. And if you do try it, would love to, you know, it goes,

Lady C 23:11

definitely bringing that up. I would not be willing to try.

Luna Robbie 23:16

I love that. Okay, so do your anal proclivities, or and or partners, if lines up to like, do you like other people's assholes? Is what I'm trying to ask. Does it go both ways? Like, do you want to play with another asshole? Or do you just like having yours

Lady C 23:29

played with? I like having mine played with I've never played with another asshole.

Luna Robbie 23:34

Okay. Okay. So far, not yet. Okay. Honestly,

Lady C 23:37

I don't think,

Luna Robbie 23:41

okay. Totally fair.

Lady C 23:44

But okay, and when it's kind of like a two sided thing, okay, so I'm like, I feel like I'm open sexually, as far as like, I'm willing to try like anything. I feel like if it was like a woman, I would, but not with a man, if that makes any sense.

Luna Robbie 24:00

I mean, everyone has their things. And also, I think for me, at the i I definitely have had some man partners that were like, do not touch it. And I'm like, Okay, so the so the turn off, like, for me, goes away if that happens. But with one of my early, like, one of my partners early on, it was one of the first things that, like, I didn't even know, like, what a kink or a special turn on was, but I do remember he, like, asked for it, and it was while he was inside me, and I remember being, like, shockingly turned on, because I felt like we had created an energetic, like, a full loop. And there was something about that that, just like, really was happy for my brain. I was like, I'm fucking him. He's fucking me. It's a loop, you know. So, okay, okay, so that's that's all unfolding. Did I hear correctly? In general, you're pretty open to trying stuff, if a partner wants to try stuff. Is that what you Okay, yeah, yeah. Is there anything else to say about anal like, anything else you'd like want to try or have experienced or do like or like, do you masturbate using your butthole ever, or like, anything like that. Now,

Lady C 24:59

as far as. Be masturbating. I don't really do it often, okay, if so, it's pretty much like clitoral stimulation. It's just kind of like, just kind of like the rubbing of it will act like, activate all the good stuff. Then, yeah,

Luna Robbie 25:17

okay, okay, so diving back into your timeline, that was a first coworker experience, or an early coworker experience. Was there anyone between that and your like, how did we get to your current partner? It sounds like you are a monogamous pair. Did I get that right?

Lady C 25:34

Yes, after the first coworker, I think there was like, maybe three other like, hookups, okay, Mun, work, not worth mentioning. That sounds so bad.

Luna Robbie 25:53

I don't know, honorable lack of mention. It's okay.

Lady C 25:56

Yeah, they were just kind of like, I want to say, kind of fill a void of something within myself, just wanting, like, you know, like, connection, wanting, like, some sort of something. And they were just all like, Nah, it was the No, it was like a one and done kind of thing, like, maybe texted a couple days after, like, the initial, like, spec, but then it was just like, not for me. I

Luna Robbie 26:21

feel you sometimes we don't know until we know you know, sometimes it's just an information gathering mission. Okay, so you were exploring, though, were those things that just kind of came your way? Like, it sounds like you're pretty open, opportunistic, but not, yeah, yeah. How did you meet those people? I would

Lady C 26:39

say I didn't really pursue but, like, I said, I was like, mingling on, like, the dating apps and then so those were the dating app guys that actually made it past the day. I

Luna Robbie 26:53

get it. No, it's funny, because I have about one handful of hookups that were the dating app attempts before I was like, I'm done here. I'm done here. We gotta meet some other way. I'm not doing this. Okay, okay, so how can we hear about sex with your partner? Like, what is it like to be with the same person seven years it sounds like you have a really beautiful connection. Oh, I feel like we do.

Lady C 27:17

I'm sorry. I'm I'm blushing because he's, really, I feel like we're very entangled when it comes to, like, our sex. He was the only guy that had made me squirt. Didn't know that was the thing until it was happening amazing, and then, um, but just all around, I feel like he's more of a giver, and so, like, my pleasure, like, excites him, and vice versa. Like, I love fucking his dick. And he the first uncircumcised guy I've had, okay, and so I love playing with his foreskin. It's so

Luna Robbie 27:57

fun. Wait, how do you play with it? Tell us, what do you

Lady C 28:01

do? Okay, so, you know, like, at first I T, I like to tease the tip. That's my thing with him. And he just, he hates it, but that's where he's sensitive at it first. And so I like, take his skin and maybe go over his head, and then, like, I'll put my mouth on it, and then, like, as I'm sucking the tip, I pull, like, the skin, like down, like up and down, like, over his tip. And he just, he loves that. And then, but yeah, sometimes I, like, pull it all to the top, and then, like, I'll suck on it that way. And then sometimes, you know, like, pull it down, and then like, right up underneath his penis, like, there's like, a little sense of a spot there that he likes, so I'll pay attention to that. And then once I get it all lubed up, is when I start going deeper. And, you know, yeah,

Luna Robbie 28:59

oh my gosh.

What is it like to have such a girthy cock to play with on the regular? Like, does it, like, fill up your mouth? Like, like, do you choke? Can you Deep Throat? Like, what's what's it like I can

Lady C 29:15

when I'm high.

Luna Robbie 29:22

I thought you were gonna say when he's not fully hard, because, like, when I've had partners with bigger Cox, I'm like, okay, okay,

Lady C 29:29

yeah, it's like, it's like, night and day. I'm telling you something about, you know, being under the influence that really helps a lot. I think, just like the relaxation of it, you know, the relaxation, not really, yeah, you're not really thinking about it. So it's just like, you go, you're going to town. And,

Luna Robbie 29:47

yeah, I also feel like the angle makes a huge difference. And every Dick has its own angle for deep throating. In my personal experience, like, because it's not, it's not always. Size related. Like, some of them, I just can't, and I'm not, I'm really not sure why, yet figuring it out. But I, I love, I love that you're like, yep, give me a little stoned. And there we go. Is he the? It sounds like he is the partner that you've had the most explorations with, right? Like, it sounds like you have really good trust built up. Okay, do you want to tell us? Yeah, tell us about, like, the over the seven years. Like, what was your sex life like at the beginning? How has it grown? Where is it now? Bondage is maybe in your future. But, like, give us the mini Timeline of this relationship, because it sounds sexy, awesome. Okay,

Lady C 30:37

so though, at the beginning it was kind of like, I guess we're about to turn like vanilla. You know, you just kind of like, I guess, learning about what each other likes. And he has very big hands, and so I love when he fingers me is like the best. But wait, wait, give

Luna Robbie 31:00

us details. How do you like for him to touch you with those fingers? And hands? First,

Lady C 31:04

he'll start with, like, his pointer and middle finger, and then he'll kind of go in there, and it's kind of like a come here motion. And then, as you know, I'm worked up, and, you know, I'm a little wetter down there. It's kind of like a pushing it all the way in. Okay, yeah, sorry,

Luna Robbie 31:21

no, I'm doing, I'm mirroring you, if you're not watching the video, I'm doing a come hither, because I'm on video. And then so it's like, it's like a longer internal stroke, yes,

Lady C 31:31

okay, yes. And that's actually, I guess, what he does to get into a squirt.

Luna Robbie 31:38

You gotta find the squishy. Yeah.

Lady C 31:43

But sorry, what were we talking about? I totally got mine.

Luna Robbie 31:46

You're, you're doing a great job of telling us how you like him to touch you with his hands.

Lady C 31:50

Oh, yeah. So most of the time while he's doing that, I'll, I want him to choke me, and not necessarily, like, choke me as, like, grabbing my throat, but just, I guess, like the pressure of his hand, like his big hand on my throat. It's just kind of like a it gets me hot every time, like, oh yeah,

Luna Robbie 32:11

I feel that. And for anyone listening who's brand new to choking when we choke when we're doing breath play, first of all, we know that it's dangerous. Second of all, we learn how to do it safely. Third of all, we make sure that arteries are still getting blood and that wind pipes are not getting crushed, but creating pressure. You can put your hand on your like clavicle and just slide up the neck and go under the jaw and push up to create that pressure so it can be nice and tight while being the most safe. We don't want to crush any trachea. So I just see the little PSA because I'm the same way. It's so especially with a trusted partner, where it's been discussed, I don't do choking surprises. That's not a thing. But how does it make you? I know that it makes me feel totally relaxed. What does it do for you, especially talking about his he's holding your neck and finger. You

Lady C 33:00

why it definitely, it gives me that relaxation, but also it, it turns me on. It makes me, like, want to do more, I guess it, it's definitely only the things that it's like, my favorite foreplay is just like, you know, just him, like, just applying pressure, and I don't know, because, you know, he's like a bigger guy. He's like six three, you know, close to 250 pounds. And so it's just like his build itself is kind of like a term totally, oh, but yeah, I'm, I don't know. I love this amazing Okay,

Luna Robbie 33:41

so, yeah, when did you start exploring things like that? Like, sounds like you talk about everything you do. At what point in your relationship, did you start bringing in elements like choking and intensity? Was that early on? Was it medium? Like, where are you at with that? It was kind

Lady C 33:56

of like, Midway, I want to stay through a relationship, and then I think, because I know, like, the first couple years we were together, we were fucking like rabbits, and then it was just like, to the point where I was just like, Okay, I Need a breakdown,

Luna Robbie 34:16

the best, worst, soreness.

Lady C 34:21

But then, like towards the middle, I think that's when we started kind of introducing toys, like we've tried the vibrating Dick ring, which was a lot, a lot, a lot. Okay, almost too much.

Luna Robbie 34:36

Okay, okay, yeah, so

Lady C 34:38

we had tried that, you know, and I have clitoral stimulant vibrators that he like uses on me. As far as that, he's used that like, while he's fingering me. He's used that like, like he's fucking me, and then got the anal plugs to try to, you know, get ready for. Him, though, but, yeah, it's just later on in the relationship. And I guess this is where, like, the the week long foreplays Come in. So I'm a first shifter, so I work days, he works night. So the only time we really interact with each other, like, on, like, a sexy level, is the weekend, okay? And so throughout the work week, like, while he's at work, I'll send him, like, sexy videos and sexy pictures, you know, just to kind of get him like, Hey, this is waiting for you this weekend, just so, you know, kind of thing, um, we sext. And then likewise, while I'm at work, I'll, I'll be like, Hey, can you, like, send me a video of you, like, jerking off and, like, climax in he's like, why? Boom in it. And so he will, and I always tell him to warn me, because working enough, yeah, I don't want anybody to, like, walk past me, you just see a Jacob phone. So

Luna Robbie 36:05

although that could be the missing piece to have the conversation, but it's a very dicey move.

Lady C 36:13

It's hit or miss all that, right?

Luna Robbie 36:14

Real hit or miss. Real high stakes, hit or miss, that lab, okay, oh, I love that. So you're asking for it as well as sharing. Okay, that's awesome. How is it for you, connection wise, to have that opposite schedule? It sounds like you've really made the most of it, but how is that for you connection wise? Like, do you just need to spend the entire weekend fucking to reconnect?

Lady C 36:39

Yeah. I mean, yeah. Like, honestly, um, it's, it's really, it's been complicated. It hasn't been easy, by no means. Because, you know, I was on third shift before I had moved to my other job on the day shift, and so at first it was kind of, it was hard. I feel like not seeing each other kind of started new, like arguments, you know, just because I feel like we missed each other and and then it's just kind of like we're not getting that connection we we're not feeling that connection from each other because we're on opposite shifts and on opposite sleep schedules. And so it was hard for a second, but I think, you know, starting to send kind of like the sexy pictures and the sexy videos kind of made up for that, if that makes any sense, or just kind of like, filled the void, I guess, for when you know I'm at work or when he's at work.

Luna Robbie 37:31

So, yeah, yeah, when you do get to see each other on the weekends, how do you like to spend your time? Like, and I know that it's probably not a one size fits all answer, and it probably depends on what else you're doing. But like, in an ideal world where you have the whole weekend, like, do you spend all of it fucking? What sort of breaks Do you have? Like, what sort of balance of connection feels good and or what sort of connection do you need first, depending on where you need it, you know, to want to fuck. So, you know,

Lady C 37:57

we have kids and, you know, so the weekends we have the kids, like all the kids. You know, our son stays with, you know me primarily, but you know his kids come on the weekends. And so it's like, we kind of have to work around the kids schedule, depending on if we can have, like a full pledge, like, weekend or not. But I want to say, like, maybe every other week we designate, like a day, like no kids, and so, you know, we'll either, like, go to the movies or go out to eat. And, you know, kind of just talk about our work week and whatnot, and then we'll come back home watch a movie, and then we just kind of, like, segue into, like, the conversation of, okay, like, I'm bored with this movie. Like, can we like, can we like, fuck now, yeah. Like, okay, you know I'm ready. If you're ready, you ready? Okay, cool, let's go. And so we love started, uh, breaking in our couch. We got a new couch, and so we've had sex on that couch, and it, it's pretty good christening the couch. I love it. Yes, couch, it's gonna be gonna be with us for a while.

Luna Robbie 39:18

Oh, that's so, so good. Um, I would love to hear a little bit more about your butt. We talked about anal, but we didn't talk about the other thing that you wrote me about, the interesting like, so you like your butt to be rubbed.

Lady C 39:36

Okay? So again, I was under the influence it, when it when it was kind of like a, it was an after sex. We were just kind of laying there, and he started rubbing my butt but the way he was rubbing it, it was, he was kind of like going in and under my butt cheeks, yeah, kind of like rubbing it outwards. And it was doing something. Into me and actually orgasm from him doing that. That

Luna Robbie 40:05

was so cool. Like, that's, I mean, we have so many nerve bundles down there. That's, I know, the first person to tell me that I'm, like, I gotta go get someone to rub my butt that way right now. Because, like, How close was he getting, like, around the crack, but, like, not necessarily touching the asshole, like underneath. He was

Lady C 40:24

like, in there, yeah, like underneath the butt, yeah, and then kind of like, going out. But, um, it was crazy, because I was like, keep doing that, and I'm gonna, I'm gonna come, like, keep doing that. And so that was just like, getting him, like, really excited. And so, you know, he was doing it, doing it, and then I just like, come he's just like, that is so fucking hot. I was just like, don't even know how that happened.

Luna Robbie 40:51

Wow, that's amazing. So you're like, face down, where you just, like, totally melted

Lady C 40:57

on the stomach. I was just kind of like, laying down, and he was going to work back there without even really doing anything except for a mask.

Luna Robbie 41:07

Good man, we like that. What are some other ways that you have loved being touched? So we heard like, it sounds like hands are definitely a thing for you. Are there, you know, other spot? Yeah. Tell us more about how you like to get touched, where, when.

Lady C 41:20

Okay, so he also, he'll, like, give me full body mustaches, like, with oil, yeah. And so which kind of is another way before play, which he'll just rub me all over. I like when he he's rubbing my boobs, like, the oil into my boobs, and he like, pulls on my nipples, like, I like that, and then just kind of like, like I said he's like a bigger man. So I think it's just really like the pressure he applies, mixed with a big hand, mixed with like, just like the pressure points on me. And I think it's like my neck, definitely my boobs, definitely my ass, inner thighs, my feet. And it's just it all just kind of couples into, like, I don't know, just like this the relaxation, like the relaxation of his touch, just like I don't know, I can't explain it.

Luna Robbie 42:21

It's body chemistry magic. Sometimes it just happens you mentioned that you like getting held down. What style of getting held down like? Is it because you mentioned pressure with him? Is that different? Is that distinct? Do you like your wrists held like? What your bondage? Curious. Tell us a little bit about those

Lady C 42:39

feelings. Um, so I definitely like when he's holding, like, when he's on top and like, my hands are above my head, and he's, like, holding my hands down. I like that when he's hitting it from the back. I'll put my hands behind my back, and I'd want him to, like, you know, hold my hand and so, but with the whole bondage thing, we've kind of hit a roadblock on that, because he doesn't feel comfortable doing it to me, because I guess he's not educated in that. But I'm just like, you know, you know you gotta learn these things, you know, if you're willing to, but yeah, hopefully he's willing to, okay, okay, because I would love to be tied up. Yeah, I feel like that was trying to accentuate, like, how I feel with him. And then it's just like, I don't know it's, it seems like very like, a lot of fun. So I

Luna Robbie 43:30

totally hear that I do. If anyone's, like, new and curious, I recommend, especially if you have kids, you're trying to hide things from there's like, a bondage bed kit that's like, Velcro straps, so it's, it's, there's no rope ties you have to learn. And it just goes between the box spring and the mattress. And then you can make an X or you can start with one wrist at a time, like, I've definitely used that with people before starting out, because it's like, when it's a cuff or a wristlet thing, you can't really unless you're pulling so strong you can't really hurt yourself. And then I always just recommend people playing with safe words, you know, and just if you need to get out. Because I never had any claustrophobic sort of reactions. But I definitely have had, I've known people who were like, and then I just had to get out. So it's like, that's, that's always a concern for bondage. But I'm like, I am the person that gets a little bit of that feeling, and then I surrender to it. That's kind of the fun of just feeling like, Oh, I couldn't possibly what, what sort of bondage fantasies Do you have? Like, what has kind of, like wandered through your mind as, um, enticing

Lady C 44:28

for me, I'm kind of a runner. When I say a runner, I mean, like, when I'm close to orgasming, I try to, like, run away. You know what? I mean? Like, yeah,

Luna Robbie 44:37

like, back off. Like, physically, back off. Yeah. Yes. And

Lady C 44:42

so I think, I think if I were to have that bondage, like, it would be like, No, you're gonna, like, feel every bit of it kind of thing. And I think that's that is the enticing feeling for me, just like having to follow through. With it and not trying to, like, run away from it. Yeah,

Luna Robbie 45:04

I totally hear that. Or, I mean, I have my own version of I know that when I was, like, overwhelmed with pleasure, it was easier for me to take it, because it didn't feel like trying or like trying to achieve something. It felt like I had no choice. When you're having that experience of running. Is it like, psychologically, backing off? I know that I can fully interrupt my own orgasms by getting in my head, even if it's just like, oh, wow, this feels so good. I'm about to cup ding it, you know, like, I can totally do that. What's your version? Like, like, do you notice it as it's happening?

Lady C 45:37

Yes, and I try to prevent it from happening. Like, sometimes I'll try to clam up and close my legs, but he like, opens the back up. Like, no kind of thing and but, like, I try. I try so hard, but I guess either, like, the feeling is just like a lot, and I'm just like, okay, yeah, trying to, like, back off from it. I don't know. I don't know why I do it, but I I try, I try to just like, okay, just chill out, just let it happen.

Luna Robbie 46:04

Yeah, yeah. But I mean, it's so first of all, understandable, and I can totally relate. I even just the other day, I was with someone, and like, things were feeling so good, and I literally couldn't handle how good it was, so I, like, threw myself off of the situation, and I was like, well, I need a minute. You know it because for me, it was borderline over stimulating, like it was so cool. It was like, but it was like, my brain, I have kind of a I get a lot of, like, visuals of fracture, like, my brain will, like, explode into fireworks or and it was so much also in my body. So then I needed, like, pussy slaps to kind of reset, because I can get over stimulated. And then there's other times where I'm just like, I don't know, maybe it's a receiving thing. I mean, we don't need to figure out the why. We just need to figure out the explorations that get us to other, other sides of things. Because also, I, you know, I know my body is very different every day. I imagine yours also has its its changes. Are you able to notice any patterns or relationships to times where it's been easy for you to take it like it sounds like the compression, the getting held down, kind of causes relaxation. But do it sounds like maybe you have some evidence of that? And hence, hence, the curiosities I'm trying

Lady C 47:20

to think back. I don't really think so. I think it was maybe more or less watching porn and seeing it in porn that I thought it was, like, an intriguing thing. Okay, I like them, something I would want to try. Yeah,

Luna Robbie 47:36

do you guys watch porn together? Or is it something you do yourself? Like, what kind of porn Are you into? We've

Lady C 47:41

tried, and I think, I think that's where he holds back on me. I don't, I don't really, I don't know what kind of porn she watches, okay, but most of the time when I'm watching porn, it's like, Girl on Girl, okay? Like, but, or like, you know, like, Grump stacks. I like rough sex, yeah, rough sex is dead. But as far as watching porn together, we've tried, but it's not like a, I don't know. It's just like a weird thing. It's just kind of like, what is the point of us watching this kind of thing together? I guess. Okay, it's not doing anything,

Luna Robbie 48:18

yeah? Okay, well, it Well, it sounds like you also have other ways that you are already connecting really sensually and sexually. And so maybe it's extra, I don't know, yeah,

Lady C 48:30

but it's just like, I don't, I don't want it to, like, pull my attention away from, like, what's what we're doing, you know what I mean? And so I'm not, I don't even really watch it this kind of, like, background noise at some point for me, but then he's like, you're not watching and I'm like, Are we supposed to

Luna Robbie 48:48

you're like, what's the assignment?

Oh, that's such a good point. Yeah, that's that's so funny. I do remember the very first time that I was with my first dominant partner, he, like, made me air quotes, you know. He was like, watch this, you know, don't look away. And I took the prompt so seriously. So then when I actually started to get distracted, which he was doing on purpose, I was like, No, I'm supposed to follow the rule, you know. So I need really clear rules like that. Otherwise, I'm like, I will, I will, for sure, get distracted, especially if touching is happening. Have you guys made porn together? You've sent him naughty pics and vids, but like, have you dabbled in stuff for you together? Is that something you'd be interested

Lady C 49:32

in? Yeah, I've definitely. I've, like, we have a video of niece back in his dick. I think what we would need is some kind of like at home setup. Because he was just kind of, like, recording me as it was happening. But, um, we would need, like a home setup. And I think that it's a great idea. Like I've told him I was like, we just need to come out with, like, our own little cameo or something. Yes. Fun, and he's just like, No. And I was just like, Ah, whatever. Oh,

Luna Robbie 50:05

man, I get a lot of people are really shy, but also, you know, a lot of what is a popular and only fans I hear from creators is that amateur look of just like it's happening right there. But I do remember early on, like filming stuff with partners. I'm like, but I want to, I want to, like, watching it later. And then there was a point where I just, like, would love seeing sloppy. Like, getting sloppy. What sort of stuff do you send him if you're by yourself, like, if you're trying to entice him while he's at work or whatever?

Lady C 50:31

Oh, definitely. Like, you know, Baby Cakes. He loves foods. He does. But I guess after being with me, he's also an ass, man, yeah, oh my god. But I definitely sent him pictures, you know, from that angle, or, you know, like, the cleavage angle. And then every now and again, I'll throw in a video of me playing with one of my clit toys, and I'm getting off that way, and then sending it to him at work. And then he's like, why do you do this?

Luna Robbie 51:03

What a lucky guy.

Lady C 51:06

And I'm like, Just letting you know what's there. You know you want to just leave work.

Luna Robbie 51:13

I'm waiting. That's

all right. I love that. It sounds like you really have a sparks being together seven years. I mean, they say that's usually when you get itchy. But it get itchy, but it sounds like you really have a lot of desire. I love that. Yeah, I want to hear about blow jobs. We talked about them peripherally, but what do you love about them? Ah,

Lady C 51:35

see, okay, I don't even know, like, where it came from, because, like, out of the partners I've had in the past, I've only given, besides my partner now, to other blow jobs and those, yeah, so those weren't really, like, I don't know, as enjoyable as it is with him, I don't know if it's because of his, you Know, his biggest Bell, yeah. Oh, connection. But I get so infatuated, yeah, with it. And it's like, it's so fun to play with. I love making them come from them. And then, like, after, you know, I was, like, very sensitive. I love teasing them, like, when it's at its most sensitive, oh my

Luna Robbie 52:19

gosh, wow. And

Lady C 52:21

then he just like, okay, okay, okay,

yeah, I think it's like, my torture. My torture to him. I love that,

Luna Robbie 52:30

yeah, that's, maybe there's a switch in there yet, yeah, yeah. But

Lady C 52:34

like, the noises he makes, you know, like the, I guess the sounds of satisfaction, yeah, are really what get me off of that? It really gets me wet, like, just, just stuck in his dick. I don't know, crazy. Do you also play

Luna Robbie 52:46

with the ball? You talked about playing with the foreskin a lot, but do you play with the balls or the thigh? Like, what other parts of him do you fuck with?

Lady C 52:55

I have not tried the balls, um, only because you know, beginning of the relationship, he wasn't really like, you know, I guess a fan of having his balls played with. But, um, I've actually brought it up to him again, like, you know, like, do you want to try? You know, me playing with your balls more? And he's just like, yeah, we can give it a try. But it hasn't really happened yet, but we'll see from there.

Luna Robbie 53:19

Some testicles are extremely sensitive, and I respect that. And when I'm allowed to play with them, I am amazed by balls, the way that they change shape and size and texture, like all in such a short span of time, like I feel like they are my favorite accessory, and just kind of like grabbing, grabbing all of that. What about do you like receiving oral on you, like we talked about hands, but yeah, yeah, tell us details.

Lady C 53:48

Oh yes, yes. So

his oral? Oh, gosh, okay. So, like I said, I think I'm more of like a click girl. I love when my click gets attention. And so he'll start out by like, kind of, like licking it. And I love how I can give him instructions on, like, how to play with it. So, like, sometimes I'm like, okay, like a firmer tongue, you know what I mean? And sometimes he does this humming thing where he just, like, he's he's on it, and he's just, I mean, like, just like, and so that'll get me every time. And the oral, with the fingering that that's, that's great, but, yeah, I think the more attention he, like, he pays to my clit is, like, definitely the way to go with me. So,

Luna Robbie 54:43

okay, are you the type of, like, I know some clits can handle, like, single pointed pressure. Like, can you take that intensity, or is it more like, more fingers? Like, what do you what is she like

Lady C 54:56

for me, it's more fingers, okay, and it's kind of like. Like, and then, like I said, the pressure on the Clid while with the rubbing, yeah, that'll, yeah, that'll do it.

Luna Robbie 55:08

And it sounds like, it sounds like you're pro lube and saliva like it sounds like you two are fluid bonded. That's okay, okay. I love that. Oh yes. What about Has Has he gone down on your asshole? Are you into anal Lingus receiving he had

Lady C 55:24

didn't, didn't think it was, didn't think I'd like it as much as I did. Right,

Luna Robbie 55:30

right, relatable.

Lady C 55:34

I was just like,

but, um, yeah, he was like, eating me out from behind, and then all of a sudden, I just felt like both to the butt, and I was just like, Yeah, and it felt really nice, like I liked it a lot, yeah. Oh, good.

Luna Robbie 55:54

Okay, so his cock is really girthy, maybe a little too much for your asshole. Do you ever like it? If he like fingers, you in your ass and or, like, Are you into double penetration finger shockers? Like, any of the multiple hole stimulation from manual stuff?

Lady C 56:10

We've never tried penetration with the finger, okay, but we have, like, the, like the butt hole rubs, yeah. Would that be kind of like considered rimming, but with no tongue. I don't know. That's a great

Luna Robbie 56:23

question. Manual rimming, as

Lady C 56:31

far as like finger fish, I don't even know why. I don't know why we haven't shot that. That's

Luna Robbie 56:36

sometimes you just got to think of it. You know? I mean, one step at a time, one figure at a time.

Okay, so you definitely take a note. I was

gonna say you we've got some things to possibly explore. I'm also like, I'm like, laughing at myself because I'm like, hilarious that earlier, I was like, get an extra dildo and strap it onto him. Like, instead of like, the finger, seems like the more obvious first choice, but

that's okay. We love creative ideas. Here is, are there any other things, like from your sex life that we need to like, any other parts of your body that love getting touched, any sensations, kinks, fetishes, like, what else do we need to know about what you've already experienced?

Lady C 57:22

Hmm, I think that's pretty much it for me. Like, you know, yeah. I mean, we've talked about, like, maybe exploring more as Okay, okay, maybe other people, okay,

Luna Robbie 57:37

yeah, I was gonna say, so, yeah, what? What is you have a lot of conversations. What are you talking about? And, like, answer the questions that you asked at the beginning of like, Babe, would there, what if there was another dick in your mouth? You know? Like, yeah. Like, tell us about those conversations. So,

Lady C 57:50

kind of like, one of his fantasies is getting a double blow job. And I would definitely love to like fulfill that for him, just because, like, I think we're comfortable enough in our like relationship to like have that happen. And then, as I brought that up, it's kind of like, it's more of like a, how do you even approach somebody else to be like, Hey, would you want to let my boyfriend stick with me? So it's just that's kind of what put a pause on that. And then likewise, he had asked me about, like, how would I feel, like, if he had, if I had basically fucked somebody else, like, with him there. I don't know if that would necessarily include him or not, but he has brought that up as well, like, you know, one in the mouth, one in the one in the back, and kind of thing. And I would be down for that. Yeah, I think what gave us pause there is he doesn't think I'm interested, but I've tried to relay to him that, just because it's not something that I brought up, your pleasure matters to me as well, and so I would be willing to try. Like, oh yeah. I would be willing to try for sure. Okay,

Luna Robbie 59:09

I love that. Okay, so willing to try. But, but you're not, like, dying for a second cock. But, like, curious,

Lady C 59:17

yeah, moral curiosity not really dying. Okay,

Luna Robbie 59:21

okay, yeah. I'm like, I'm like, I think because I love the feeling of, like, air quotes, forced surrender, you know, the like, Oh, I just have to relax. And so I for me the fantasies that I have about like having someone in my mouth, maybe down my throat, and like fucking me and my pussy, I feel like I would have no choice but to be like, I don't know. I give up. I'm surrendered. So, like, that's, that's like, like, the sensation part of me is just like, I'm so curious. Why haven't I? I mean, I know why I haven't brought it to the forefront of my priorities, like you said, finding the right people is an important ingredient. But yeah, I also think I might be hyper curious. What else are you curious about? Oh my

Lady C 1:00:01

gosh. I kind of feel like, boring. I don't really just bondage in maybe possibly three sponge and, oh, that's all you know. Whether that, whether that be like another girl, or that be another job, I would be down, okay,

Luna Robbie 1:00:14

but I don't know why. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Would you be interested in different types of bondage? Because I'm like, Hmm, well, if we're gonna explore bondage, would bondage, we need a sampler, you know, because I'm like, maybe, like, the the, like, iron, you know, like, changed to a wall situation, um, strapped to the bed situation. I know, the first bondage exploration I did was just with a simple necktie, you know, because that's something that's long and skinny and often around. But, um, like, are you particularly into rope, is there a particular type of bondage that is, uh, most exciting to you, because latex also counts too. You could be in a full vac bed. It just gets squished. That

Lady C 1:00:48

sounds scary to me, honestly, the latex i i think that's where I would probably get the most, this

Luna Robbie 1:00:55

little hole for your nose and mouth. But, okay, it's I did a little test one, and there was a moment I was like, do I then I was like, No, I think I like, getting mummy. I mean, I felt very safe. The people there were, like, giving, you know, they were like, letting new people try it. But, yeah, I will say that was cool because they put a cold spoon on me, and I had no idea what was happening. So, like, from a sensation standpoint. But like, definitely, definitely hear you on that. Okay, so more looking at for you, like, wrists, cuffs, etc,

Lady C 1:01:24

yeah. Okay, I would, I would want to do ropes. Okay, that seems like it's fun, yeah, but that, that would be, like, its own little course on how to do that. So, yeah,

Luna Robbie 1:01:35

I mean, that could be fun, fun couples activity found, like, in person workshop or something to do. But, like, that's, that's definitely the one where you gotta

study up. But fun.

How do you understand the like, intersection or overlap of love and sex? Like, do those, it sounds like those go pretty hand in hand for you?

Lady C 1:01:56

Yeah, they do go hand in hand for me, for sure. I mean, in the past, it definitely didn't. I feel like I was always the one that caught feelings, and then it was kind of like, like it was love for me, but it was just sex for them and and crazy enough, I always knew it, like I always knew, but it's just kind of something like I cling to just just to have the connection. But like I would say, Now, I think I'm enjoying the sex more because I can also feel the love behind it as well. Oh

Luna Robbie 1:02:31

yeah, that's beautiful. So, so you don't masturbate very much. Are there other ways that you show yourself, self love, non sexual doesn't have to be sexual. Just like, what do you do? A

Lady C 1:02:44

dance in the mirror, naked. Ooh. I love looking in, looking at myself in there, just dancing. Love that. Like,

Luna Robbie 1:02:53

yeah, yeah,

Lady C 1:02:55

journal music and I'll just be in the mirror. Just dance to my also. God, that's amazing. I love

Luna Robbie 1:03:02

that so much. Oof loved him that I love that.

Okay, if you had an unlimited budget to build your perfect pleasure palace, playroom, whatever, somewhere where the kids don't go, but it had all of the, you know, all of the sexiest sensations, tools, implements, toys, things you want to try. What would it look like? I

Lady C 1:03:24

would want, like the drippy candles. I think I would like that. Like the hot wax, the whips. I would love whips, because not to keep my horn, but Baby Got Back. I like that. I would like that. Just kind of like, your ideal, I want to say a chamber, just kind of like, you know, little stations where I can be tied up, like little x's, yeah, and a pole. I would love, I would love a pole,

Luna Robbie 1:04:00

oh, yeah, and I'm guessing some mirrors,

Lady C 1:04:02

yes, for sure. Yeah, I would love to hold it. I think they're so fascinating. It's like its own art, like it's so cool, but definitely mirrors everywhere, yeah, everywhere,

Luna Robbie 1:04:21

I know I have yet to fuck in a ceiling mirror place, and that's gotta happen. Like, that's for sure. On my list,

Lady C 1:04:29

I feel like, just watch yourself, like, in every position. Like, how to pull up this way? How do I look this way? Yeah,

Luna Robbie 1:04:37

oh my gosh. Okay, so no pressure to answer this question, or have all the answers, but we're making it up together as we go along. What do you think that we collectively need to co create a sexier, more loving world?

Lady C 1:04:49

Oh, that's a good question. I think it's just like acceptance. You know, maybe, does that make sense? Like acceptance? Of other people, like, in their, you know, their life, not to be so, like, judgmental and just kind of, like, letting people be great. That's my motto. Actually, I let a lot of you know, like, as far as, like, if I don't agree with something, I'm like, I'm gonna let you be great, because that's you. That's not me. You know what? I mean. Wow. So, yeah, I'm gonna let you be great. I just feel like everybody should let everybody be great.

Luna Robbie 1:05:29

How did you come up with that that is amazing,

Lady C 1:05:33

I don't know, but it's, it's become a thing like my mom, my dad, my brother, they've all picked it up, my sisters, and they're like, I'm gonna let you be great.

Luna Robbie 1:05:42

That's fantastic. I mean, okay, well, that kind of preempts my last question, but I still gonna ask it anyway. How else do you like to spread ripples of love? I mean, letting people be great, I think is, is a fantastic one. But how do you like to spread ripples of love

Lady C 1:06:00

positivity? I love complimenting people. You know, I feel like I'm the type of person that can see beauty in everyone, and so, like, I'm that person that tries to make you smile that day. You know what? I mean? Just just to have, like, a good feeling, like, maybe you're, you're having a shit day, and just need, like, somebody to come along and just be like, Hey, how are you? Oh, my God, your hair looks amazing. Like just, just spreading love. I don't know. I just, I love to love. I feel you love to love. Well,

Luna Robbie 1:06:31

thank you for coming here and spreading your positivity through sharing your sexiest stories. Like, what a fucking treat. Now I have to go find someone to rub my ass like that, to see if I can be like you. Thank you so much, Lady C, I appreciate you so much. Thank

Lady C 1:06:48

you so much for having me.