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Luna

Our guest today is the filmmaker behind Queer crush.com, where you can find authentic, unscripted, super hot lesbian porn directed and produced by real queer women. She is 26 years old, bisexual, poly and partnered in a six year relationship, and they are on their first year of marriage and she's into pigging, has a beautiful collection of dildos, is a big sex toy nerd, and her most popular video is a gang bang creampie.

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Luna

Not only does she also perform for camera as well as directing tons of sexy scenes. She's a legal courtesan, which means full service sex worker at Sheri's Ranch brothel. Welcome. Elektra. Rayne.

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Electra

Hello. Thank you for that wonderful intro.

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Luna

Oh my God. Well, thank you for having so many wonderful things that we're about to get details on. I'm very excited to dive in. Can you start off by telling us if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shaming meter, with ten being the most full of shame and one being not so shame, it all right now, where do you fall today?

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Electra

Three.

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Luna

Okay. And does your three ever fluctuate and if so, when and also why?

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Electra

You know, I'm not actually sure. It certainly has fluctuated over the course of my life. Like I think I probably started more like an 8 or 9 and then had a really clear, specific moment around maybe 12 years old that almost cut that in half. And that's so actually when you lower that a three. Ooh, I made maybe I want to change that.

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Electra

Maybe I want now I don't know, I'm so bad at like numerical rating scales. Because here's the thing. I do feel like any shame actually around being a sexual person. I'll talk about anything like I'll do pretty much anything with anyone. There's just like a handful of kinky fantasies that I will talk about. It just takes me a minute to get there through some of the embarrassment that I know that that, like, bring it.

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Luna

On. That's cool. Okay, so it sounds like maybe out in the world around regular people, it's not you're sort of like, I'm fine, but maybe one on one with private things. Is it like with your partners or does it come up for work?

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Electra

It doesn't come up for work when I'm performing. I'm lucky if I enjoy the things we're doing that day. Like, I don't typically have a choice in what we're doing. I mean, like, I could turn down the shoot, but it's not like, oh, what are all of your fantasies to do today? And then there's a director, the type of stuff I create, even if I'm performing in my own scene, doesn't even begin to like border on the type of kinky fetishes stuff that I just have, like a little bit of embarrassment about these days.

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Electra

But it's also gotten much easier for me to talk about. I also can point to a really specific moment where that started. Like in college. It used to be like, I can talk about sex, but I don't want to talk about my kinks very much. And I actually had a friend of mine got me. I'm so like open about sex and things in general that we were playing.

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Electra

It had to be like truth or Dare or something. And I was like, oh, truth, like what? Like, have you even get me? And she's like, all right, well, Elektra, you're really open about like, sex and desire and the things you want and fantasies, but what's a fantasy that you are not so open about? I was like, oh, shit.

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Electra

Like, that's actually a really good truth or dare question, a.

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Luna

Really good one.

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Electra

And so I panicked, and I ultimately ended up divulging my lactation kink that day, which at the time was very terrifying and hard to say, but now is sort of built in as my like when someone pushes you to talk about embarrassing sexual things, go to that one, and then we don't have to talk about the stuff anymore that's actually there.

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Luna

I think you checked off that box. Wait, will you share details? Also, I stumbled into experiencing lactation with a partner who was breastfeeding recently.

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Electra

That's so cool. Congratulations.

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Luna

Thank you. It was very hot. But would you share the origin or like texture of it?

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Electra

Probably by the time I figured out that that weird wiggling thing was masturbating. So like 12 or 13 by then, but probably. But it's very specific for me too. It's not like just like, oh, lactation that sort of ties into this, like pretty intense, like almost like objectification, Bdsm type of things. And like I'm really into, like, toys and gear and machines and like loss of control.

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Electra

So the idea of like, oh, like you are strapped down and you're on the milking machine and like, all you're good for is making milk and making people come like the whole, like, cow thing. It's not just like, oh, boobie milk, but it is a little more and oh.

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Luna

Amazing. I want to circle back to something you said earlier. What if there were a day where you showed up for work, or maybe ahead of time someone was like, hey Electra, what are your fantasies that you'd want to do with me on camera? What might you say?

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Electra

Yeah, so that one's been tricky. I have been in that situation a couple of times, and it kind of depends on the context, because there's still going to be some sort of theme going into it, like the most recent one I can think of is I showed up to do kink VR for Wkyc.com, and I figured they'd already know exactly what they were doing, and they didn't.

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Electra

Exactly. And I'm really into electro sex. And as it turned out, this producer. So kink VR is not actually made by kink. It's produced by a company called Bitcoin that licenses to kink but doing shoots, other VR stuff. It's mostly like vanilla VR stuff. Okay. But then even then but doing is it out there like making it themselves.

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Electra

They just like tap directors and they're like, hey, make this BRC. And for us. So the person I was working with and their names, Five Star, absolutely incredible director was one of the like, main people running the armory back when Wkyc.com was still in the armory. And when kink went through its changes, motivated in large part by some people being shitty, five Star was one of the first people to be like no.

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Electra

So all that is to say, five Star had all of the gear from electro slots, kink, dot, electro sex website, which is absolutely where I learned about electro sex and how I ended up with this fantasy. So we were able to work in like one of my favorite. I love the tens unit. I love how it feels. I've known actually since I was pretty young and I was in physical therapy, and at the end of the sessions they would put the tens unit pads on my back, and then after a few sessions, they were like, do you think it helps?

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Electra

Like, do you want to do the tens unit pads? And I was like, honestly, I'm not sure if it makes that much of a difference, but I really like it. So yeah, it's just like relaxing and nice. I have and mine aren't even that nice. They have. Wait, I saw ones in circles that connect to the tens unit, so I ended up getting fucked with the tens unit, but plug inside of me as well, which was like pretty exciting to get to work into the scene.

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Electra

Yeah. Wow.

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Luna

That's so cool. Oh my gosh, I'm so excited for more details. But first tell us, did you ever get any sort of sex talk, sex ed or consent education growing up?

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Electra

Kind of. But not really. Not really. Which is a little surprising because I came from like, extremely progressive parents. Like my parents know what I do. My mom and my sister wear the crop tops. My dad has helped me edit like demo reels that don't include my performing, but stuff that I've directed. So like very supportive family and like, they don't mind my career.

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Electra

They don't mind that I like married. Let's be like very supportive and progressive. I never worried about like coming out or anything like that. But so like sex ed in school sex ed was literally just anatomy. That's it for like years. I think in eighth grade we maybe talked about STIs and birth control, but they still didn't even say, like to make a baby.

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Electra

A penis goes inside of the giant. Like that was never actually explicitly said. My parents did give me a sex talk that did include consent and like centering other people's pleasure and things like that, but also did not say to make a baby a penis goes inside a vagina or anything like that. I think that they sort of thought, this is the intro sex talk.

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Electra

Okay? And there will be more of a sex talk later. And there was not more of a sex talk later. So it was just pretty much my dad sitting me down and being like, yeah. So and it wasn't like sex is between a man and a woman when they're married. It was like when two or more people care about each other.

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Electra

Texas a thing they can do. And basically what you do is play with each other's bodies and try to make each other feel good. And it was framed like that, which is great. But it did not go over the mechanics. And I remember after this conversation had already happened, hearing about how sperm fertilizes an egg, the sperm live in semen and blah blah blah.

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Electra

And I'm like, okay, so when you're playing with each other's bodies, like, how does the sperm get to the egg? Like, yeah, does it just it just like wiggles through the sheets to get like how that doesn't make any sense. So I don't even remember how I ultimately figured out the answer to that conundrum. There. Okay. Yeah. The actual, like, literal mechanics were not really ever gonna work with me.

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Luna

That's very funny. And it's this is a terrible leap of logic. But does that have anything to do with you being a lesbian?

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Electra

No.

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Luna

I mean, I know you're bisexual, but, like. Right.

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Electra

No, I actually think a bigger contributing factor to my view of sex and interest in sex the way it is, which involves a lot of queer sex in the way I also see, like, I can be fucking someone who has a dick, whether he's a man or they're not a man. But it's still I still sort of see it in this, like very queer, open ended way is because I am secondary and orgasmic, so I can give myself an orgasm in a very, very, very specific way that is extraordinarily challenging to make happen anyway, but nobody else can.

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Electra

And I am thankful that I am not primary and orgasmic. So like I have experienced orgasms. But that also means that, like, sex is not about orgasms for me. Like at all. Because literally it's not going to happen no matter what we do, unless it involves me lying down a masturbate. And granted, one of my favorite sex things is masturbating.

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Electra

When someone plays with pineapples and talks. But that also just means that, like a lot of sex I have doesn't involve me coming. And that's perfectly fine. It doesn't mean I don't enjoy it. And so that has pushed me, I think, to sort of always think of sex in this like different way that other people have. And it's also been kind of neat that like over time, I've had a significant number of partners who are similar in some way, or at least like even male partners.

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Electra

We're like, yeah, I don't always come from sex either, and it doesn't mean I don't enjoy it, but it allows for this. Like, I don't know, like free form exploration and things, which is been really neat.

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Luna

That's awesome. Also, I can similarly relate. I can come with partners now sometimes, but it's like it's not what I aim for and I just really enjoy the whole process. And kind of like you said, it gets more interesting if we're not racing to orgasm.

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Electra

Yes.

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Luna

Can you tell us what is sexy to you?

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Electra

Confidence is going to be my number one thing 100%. I don't know that I could just give besides confidence. Like one clear answer because like I'm a bisexual, for which I am both an exhibitionist and a voyeur. Like my tastes are so varied of interests, there is no one clear answer for me.

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Luna

Totally. Okay, but when do you feel sexiest?

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Electra

When do I feel sexiest? Oh, that's also a tricky one, because I think if we're talking about sexiest these days, it's probably in a lot of work contexts, like maybe even at the ranch, because I am making a clear distinction between what I feel sexiest and when I feel the most turned on. Like being sexy is very powerful.

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Electra

Like I've always loved virgins because number one, it's like fun and exciting to explore and try new things. But also, no matter what you do, it's going to be amazing to them, right? Like there's this sense of magic and wonder that it's like an intoxicating amount of power. And I think that type of power is what makes me feel the sexiest.

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Luna

Oh, I love that. And just to clarify for our listeners, the ranch is the brothel where you work.

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Electra

That is correct. Yes. The brothel.

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Luna

Okay. But I would also like to hear, like when you do feel the most turned on yourself, if that is different or distinct for you. And if there's overlap, I imagine there's also overlap.

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Electra

Sometimes there absolutely is. But also, to be perfectly honest, when I feel the most turn on has been kind of a complicated project for the last couple of years. I had hip surgery in 2019 and then almost immediately had shoulder surgery and then pelvic surgery. So it was a big year. That didn't leave a lot of space for sex.

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Electra

Like physically, I was literally like, stop it. Do not have sex. No matter how creative you're going to get, there's very few sexy things you can do with that combination since then. That and some like mental health stuff and then like ongoing physical health stuff, like I'm having a hysterectomy in eight days because of chronic pelvic pain. So I have been in this really weird place with my own sexuality for a while where, like, I almost kind of feel like a fraud, actually.

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Electra

Like here I am publicly being like la la la sex and authentic sex and like, it's actually part of why I haven't performed for my own website since season one. We're currently in season five, and I haven't performed for my own site since season one, because I know that I will not deliver the type of scene that my website says, which is this.

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Electra

Like, you're not performing, you're just having sex on camera. And I don't know that I could really do that. There's like maybe 1 or 2 people that I could do that with right now. So what I'm turned on is kind of a crapshoot. These days. I like watching, I like being watched. I like things that feel inherently queer.

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Electra

I like group sex because you're watching and you're being watched and something is going to be inherently queer. But beyond that, like, I'm trying to figure out what turns me on the most as an adult now, too, because I also still have all these leftover kinks and fantasies from growing up that, like, are still accurate. But it's not all I want.

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Electra

And like, I was in sex therapy for like a year trying to figure out, like, how to grow past these things and be like, what is it as an adult that I actually like truly desire? And the answer is, I'm still.

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Luna

I mean, I think it's an ongoing, lifelong thing for me. And I know that the more that I've gotten, like curious about my own sexuality and what's sexy, the more it's like chasing a moving target because I'm growing and changing and learning and touching and feeling different. Here's a question for you as I have gotten into my own explorations of the hierarchy, because I'm kind of working my way through all these different iterations, I have become more honest with myself and others about the fact that I have a money kink.

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Luna

Do you have money kink? Does that turn you on?

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Electra

I didn't think I did, and then just recently on my most recent brothel trip, I was like, actually, maybe we.

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Luna

Wait, how many trips have you had there? How long did this take? Three. Oh three trips. Oh.

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Electra

Okay. But I was no stranger to sex with a financial component.

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Luna

I know, that's why it's so impressive that it. Because I'm like. So even in all your years of content creation, like sexy content creation, you were just like, wow.

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Electra

Yes. Because I think it comes back to that same idea of like sexiness and being desired as power. Right? And so if it's like, well, I am so strongly desired that this person is willing to pay the sometimes very large sum of money, and then I get to rock that world, like there is so much power in that.

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Electra

And that's.

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Luna

Hot. I love the clarity. I think clarity is so hot. And I think spaces where people love my full enthusiasm instead of getting terrified by it. Like I feel like in the regular world. Well, I wonder since you are so powerful, you're literally electric. Do you feel like you overpower people in the regular world a lot? Like, yes.

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Electra

All the time. Do you find that you scare the boners off people a lot? Because I certainly scare the boners off people.

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Luna

My personal origin story, the whole reason I started getting curious about sex and got into kink and then started talking to everybody I could about their sex lives is because I got rejected left and right by dudes, by horny dudes as a young, early 20s like horny girl thing. So it was that backwards ness that also now when I'm like, oh, extreme clarity, oh, you have this fantasy, oh, we're going to talk on the phone for this long and say, this kind of dirty things and play this kind of game.

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Luna

I love it, you know. Was there a specific moment in your recent trip where you were like, Or was it just sort of like an unfolding understanding during.

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Electra

I think there was, and I can't remember, to be perfectly honest with you. It's like ringing a bell in my head when because like, I remember having the realization, but I don't remember what it was. I don't remember the details. And that leads me to believe I may have been stoned when this happened. If I don't have such a clear memory.

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Luna

Maybe you were just getting deeply fucked or something, I don't know. And you're like, oh, okay, I actually this is hot.

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Electra

That is possible. Who does it? Well, I did real quick. I want to touch on you just said like that clarity. Like someone knowing what they want, knowing what they're into is so hot for you. Yes. I just did an interview for ESPN.com about the brothel, and they actually wanted to talk to me, and they wanted to talk to a client of mine who, when he came to see me, it was his first time, like ever seeing an escort at all.

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Electra

And thankfully I actually had, like the perfect client and he was happy to do it. But one of the things that they had asked me is like, what should first timers know? And what makes a good client? And the thing I emphasized the most, and actually Alex had said something similar, which was cool because I didn't tell him what to say.

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Electra

We didn't interview at the same time. They sent us each questionnaires, something that I stressed is communication, like above all else, because so often you get people who, especially if they have a particular idea of fantasy in mind, but even if not, they're so nervous to just tell you what they want. And I think part of that is talking about sex is hard anyway, with stigma and shame surrounding it.

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Electra

Part of that is this actually feels like your chance to make it happen. You don't want to get rejected, so that becomes hard. And part of it is sex work is typically criminalized, so it does feel weird to be able to walk in a room and say like, yes, I would like you to perform these sexual services for me and to have her then go, yes, I will do that for this sum of money.

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Electra

Like it's just like an open conversation with no secret code. Like, I often have to remind people like it is completely legal. Like you can just tell me. Just tell me what you want. You don't have to use special words like, let's just talk about it. But it is really hard when someone is nervous and so they like, can't quite or like won't quite share.

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Electra

But you can tell there's something that they want. And then it's so hard for me to be able to give them that level of a fulfilling experience. Right? Whereas if you come in and they're like, yeah, I've never tried reverse cowgirl and I've always wanted to and actually I have a fetish for girls push ping pong balls out of their buttholes.

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Electra

I am not making that up. That is a party I did on my last trip and it was awesome. Wow. Yeah, like, it is so much easier for me to then be like, actually, yeah, I totally can't do that. I don't have any ping pong balls, but Walmart is 20 minutes down the street. So let's get your party booked and then I'll chill out.

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Electra

Like I'll start prepping and getting ready. And by the time you get back from Walmart, oh, you already in. And we did it. And it was great.

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Luna

That so hot. Did you have to worry about the ping pong ball getting sucked up? I've definitely talked to er doctors who were like, we found beer bottles in there.

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Electra

Great question. I told him I was like, man, I wish I knew about this because I actually have some toys that are like an oval shaped vibrator on a physical cord to the remote, which would be perfect. So I'm like, let me know if you're coming in again, I will hack that for you. I told him I would only do it if I could use internal condoms for safety.

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Electra

So there was a secret retrieval string, and it was totally fine with that. And the party went off without a hitch. No issues. The end of the condom stayed on the outside. I should have said that so that nobody is listening and just being like, I'll just put a ping pong ball up my ass.

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Luna

That's why I always ask, oh, that's my job.

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Electra

Yes. Great question. There was a harm reduction safety protocol in place.

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Luna

Damn, that's such a hot party. Oh my God. Okay, tell us in general, you touched on this earlier, but how do you define sex? What counts as sex for you?

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Electra

Wow, that is such a good question. And I actually don't know how to answer it because sex is an energy. It's not an act. My wife and I have had a couple of sexual experiences. Okay, for both of these, there may or may not have been psychedelics involved, but one of them was like really intense tongue kissing. But like, we weren't kissing, our tongues were having sex.

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Electra

And one of them was, and I know this is going to be like crazy. We were on acid and we were camping. We were in our tent and I went to get a condom because I love condoms. They're so great for everything, including like, we're camping and our hands are dirty, and I'm going to put my hand in here, whatever.

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Electra

And I don't know exactly how we ended up like this, but I was on my back and she was kind of on top of me, and all we were doing in the real physical world was holding the condom together like my fingers were on the inside of the condom, and her fingers were on the outside of the condom.

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Electra

We were like, rubbing our fingers together. But I promise you it was some of the filthiest, dirtiest, most incredible sex I have ever had. That. So I did have sex, isn't it? Sex is a state of mind. Yeah, I fucking love.

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Luna

I think that's a perfect answer. Also, what a cool, delicious, weird story I love. Right?

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Electra

So fun.

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Luna

Oh, wow. Okay, tell us now, what are you loving the most about your work at this moment?

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Electra

I absolutely love getting to create content that looks like the sex I have often had in my personal life, and I love getting to fill a niche that wasn't really there and make something that I'm actually truly proud of, like Queer crush.com is the only lesbian site created entirely by actual sapphic folks, and as much as I look at a person know, I am so excited that like, I get to fill that need you.

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Electra

Shouldn't it be that I do that no one like a community? No. Fucking weird that we launched last year in 2022 and the position was open? That feels a little inappropriate. But on a personal note, I absolutely love getting to be a part of that. And just any time I get like any kind of positive feedback, it's really, really meaningful.

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Luna

Amazing. Okay. What would you say makes you excellent at what you do?

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Electra

I'm sincerely into it. In fact, I actually like had to go through this reckoning while we were working on season one. Which season one of the 12 seasons we filmed before we went live. So as we were working on season one, I had this reckoning where I was like, is it inappropriate for me as simply the director? I am not performing or sexually involved in these scenes to be a little turned on, on set, watching this, because I'm someone who likes to watch, right?

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Electra

Yeah. And I like wrestled with like all of this and ultimately I subtle and I would talk to some performers and I talked to some producers and I talked to some performer producers. And I ultimately settled on like, no, it's a good thing for your director to be interested in the content they're making. I am not hitting on my performers.

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Electra

I am not trying to get them to have sex with me. I am not asking them to perform alongside me. I am not taking my clothes off. I am not touching myself on set. Like it's not that I am very doing my pictures and the things that I need to do, but it is really fun and hot and I think that like, I have a lot of experience in the porn industry and I have a lot of experience having creative queer sex.

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Electra

And so I think I am very well suited to be sort of in charge of this creative queer porn site.

00:23:14:00 - 00:23:24:00

Luna

Mazing, I love that. Yeah, it's just about holding the boundary. What if they hit on you though? Does that or does that just not happen? Or are you also professional or what? If you have chemistry though.

00:23:24:02 - 00:23:38:09

Electra

It does happen. It is a situational thing, right? So like if someone's like no, but like I'd love to do my next thing with you or whatever. Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I'll consider it if I think like it's going to be good for the psyche that I'm tested and all those things. But like, I'm not offended. It does happen from time to time.

00:23:38:11 - 00:24:00:00

Electra

People also hit on my wife a lot because the studio is in our house and she is not really involved. She's not industry. She has like a very separate businessy type job, but she's like real sexy, like real like super dorky. And she's got like really nice arms and she wears a lot of tank tops. And sometimes, like, if I'm not around, sometimes she will do the photos for me.

00:24:00:00 - 00:24:17:14

Electra

Or if my main videographer is performing that I am the videographer, but she will do sort of the PR stuff. And so we do get a lot of people hitting on her. I guess there was one, even while I was at the ranch where someone had said something about like, yeah, Khloe, like, your arms are really helping us get into the scene, right?

00:24:17:16 - 00:24:32:04

Electra

And my videographer was like, oh yeah, everyone hits on Khloe. Don't worry about it. So I've also had there was one day where, like, I don't wear a lot of hats. I only got a hat recently because I live in Las Vegas and I have a horse, like I have a baseball cap that I sometimes wear at the barn for functional reason.

00:24:32:09 - 00:24:48:05

Electra

Yeah. And I came home from the barn and immediately needed to, like, start setting up the set and blah, blah, blah, and my performers and my producers show up and they're all like, whoa, oh, like we love you with a hat. Like I'm the cause of the hat. I'm like, okay, guys, I get it. Like, the hat will stay today.

00:24:48:07 - 00:25:04:22

Electra

And it's nice because a lot of the performers are my friends or have become my friends through this. Like, the Vegas adult community is not that small, but it is very tight knit. And so it kind of varies where it's like, well, are you my friend and I know you outside of this, and we're going to be kind of flirty and silly in a mutual way, then that's fine.

00:25:05:00 - 00:25:18:11

Electra

But someone I've never met before who is just stepping foot on set, I would never, you know, I might say that that outfit looks so good on you or something like that, but not anything beyond that. If they want to hit on me, then that's fine. It doesn't bother me or anybody.

00:25:18:17 - 00:25:39:18

Luna

Totally. I feel that way a lot when I do photography stuff. I used to do regular stuff. Now I do more erotic stuff and I totally relate. Also, when you feel the vibe and it seems to be both ways, I mean, oof yum. I would love to hear the whole origin story of your career. Like you've kind of like hit on some stuff, but like fill us in start to finish.

00:25:39:19 - 00:26:06:00

Electra

All right? You're going to like this one. So when I was in fifth grade, a friend and I thought that it would be really funny to go to boobs.com. We did not know anything about porn or whatever. We were just like, what is it? Boobs. Dot com like I but that's so hilarious. So we went to boobs.com and it used to be it's not anymore, but it used to be an affiliate directory of porn site.

00:26:06:05 - 00:26:23:18

Electra

It like talked about a bunch of different porn sites. And if you clicked on one of the porn sites from there, then that web host got commission, they got a kickback from. Okay. And what happened to be on the homepage that day was hogtied king dot coms, rope bondage site. So we go to boobs.com and my friend is like, oh my God, you gross.

00:26:23:18 - 00:26:47:11

Electra

And I'm like, oh my God, you froze and went back to it later privately and was like, wow, this looks a lot like what goes on in my head when I do that weird wiggling thing that I'm only just now starting to piece together. Might be masturbation, but like, I'm 11. So like all oh, so that was really interesting for me.

00:26:47:11 - 00:27:09:20

Electra

And I ended up returning to it and similar things again and again and again. And I was like, oh my God, is there something wrong with me? Like number one, do I have a porn addiction? No, I simply had porn interest. Number two, I must be some kind of evil misogynist because I am so into seeing these women that are like being tied up and tortured and whatever.

00:27:09:23 - 00:27:29:09

Electra

Of course I'm imagining myself in their position, not as the one doing those things, although I have, as an adult, realized how fun it can be to be the one to do it. But at the time, that's not where I was. I was just like, oh, you guys need these things. And then one day, I finally saw one of the exit interviews where they talk about, like, I like this part, this part I didn't like so much.

00:27:29:12 - 00:27:47:13

Electra

And the two, two, five seven compliance statement about like all models being over the age of 18, blah, blah, blah. And I was like, wait, these are just like paid models. Who would want to do it? Think like that. Wait, I'm someone who would want to do a thing like that. And this means that there must be more people out there like me.

00:27:47:13 - 00:28:05:01

Electra

I remember this moment very clearly. I was probably about 12 years old, and that moment was hugely important for me accepting myself sexually. This is the moment I alluded to about cutting the shame in half. And then accepting myself sexually had, like, much more broad implications for accepting myself as like who I am and who I always will be.

00:28:05:01 - 00:28:17:13

Electra

So that moment was absolutely huge for me, and I knew I wanted to give back to that. So I applied to become on my 18th birthday and every six months afterwards until I finally got to shoot for them last year.

00:28:17:15 - 00:28:19:13

Luna

Oh, congratulations.

00:28:19:15 - 00:28:35:02

Electra

That's. Thank you. I have done a pretty significant number of scenes for them now, which is so cool, but I never in a million years thought that I would be a porn star. It was more just like a bucket list thing. Like I went to school to be a forensic scientist, you know? And like, I was like, my whole everything.

00:28:35:06 - 00:28:52:22

Electra

Oh, yeah. Yeah. I studied physics and linguistics at northwestern with the intent of being a forensic scientist. I interned doing interview and interrogation and then as a cold case investigator. And then I decided I couldn't work with cops anymore. But that was my, like, plan. So by the time I was 19, I finally got a site to hire me.

00:28:52:22 - 00:29:09:05

Electra

The company is called intersect. They were actually the first fetish porn site before Cancun, but it's much more intense. It's like they kind of just tie you up and beat you at a warehouse for a long time. But they flew me out to do two scenes in 2015. I ended up doing another one for them in 2016. And then I lived in Chicago.

00:29:09:05 - 00:29:29:14

Electra

I already had tattoos. I wasn't as like fit as I am now, and I wasn't getting more work. And I was like, let's cool. Like, I did it, I did porn. I also threw porn. Met this woman. Her name's Karen McAlpine. She's so cool. My boyfriend from high school went to UC Berkeley, so I was out in the Bay area all the time visiting him.

00:29:29:16 - 00:29:49:07

Electra

And UC Berkeley has a column for their student newspaper called Sex on Tuesday. And every semester a different student write sex on Tuesday. And so back then, it happened to be this incredible woman who was a Berkeley student and also a stripper in San Francisco. And I was a northwestern student and also was doing porn, and she wrote these incredible articles.

00:29:49:07 - 00:30:06:06

Electra

They're still out there. I think she was going by Trixie or like American Name when she published them. So she look them up. And I wrote to her when I was coming out there to film another scene, I was like, hey, like, I am a student and I do porn. But a lot of what you wrote really resonated with me as like a student slash sex worker.

00:30:06:06 - 00:30:24:21

Electra

And I would love to take you for lunch or coffee or something. And she was like, not only what? I'd love to meet you. My roommates and I have a spare bedroom if you'd like. So I stayed with her for 2 or 3 weeks. She did my makeup to go audition at her club. I like, took the part by myself in like lashes, and I had never worn top eyeliner before.

00:30:24:21 - 00:30:42:11

Electra

I had only ever done like, emo waterline makeup, never worn foundation. I literally didn't recognize myself, did not get hired at her club, but realized I loved it. That was all kind of a tangent. I started dancing in college. I absolutely fell in love, so I was like, cool. Like I don't need like I did porn. I did what I set out to do, and then I graduated college.

00:30:42:11 - 00:30:59:08

Electra

I did the cold case thing for a while. Then I switched to working in localization, which is kind of like translation for documents used in clinical drug trials. And I was still dancing. And then in 2019, I had the three surgeries, I was back in the strip and I racked up 10-K and medical debt from the three surgeries.

00:30:59:10 - 00:31:18:10

Electra

In 2020, I was back in the strip club for one week, and then Covid happened. And fortunately, like I was already working remotely for my day job and it was enough to live off of, but it was not enough to pay off the medical debt. So I hopped on the OnlyFans train like everybody else. Yeah, and made a friend who connected me to her agent.

00:31:18:10 - 00:31:32:13

Electra

And then I kind of bounced around between agents before I settled online, whom I actually sincerely really love. I was like, I'm only going to be with an agent as long as I need to to make the connections. And then I'm going to love my agent. I will be with my agent the entire time I am an adult.

00:31:32:13 - 00:31:49:00

Electra

And then in March of 21, I quit my day job to do adult full time. In October of 21, I moved to Vegas for my career. Just about a year ago, I started directing and we launched the website last September. So there it all is.

00:31:49:01 - 00:32:04:16

Luna

That's so fucking cool. Is it even possible for you to tell us what a day or week or month in the life is like for you? Or kind of maybe give us the different snippets if you're at the brothel versus if you're on set, versus if you're just like, doing life.

00:32:04:18 - 00:32:22:17

Electra

Yeah, I can try it because it does. You're right. It does change a lot. And that's actually one of the things it's one of my favorite parts about my job. Overall, I am not someone who can have every day look the same. Even if it's a really good day. Copy and paste. I can't do it. I need the right, I need diversity, I need to feel like I have control over my life.

00:32:22:17 - 00:32:42:17

Electra

Like because of childhood things, I am very like like I need. So I don't handle like a regular schedule very well. So the fact that like my days and my weeks are always completely different, it's very fun and exciting to me. When I'm at the brothel, I typically wake up around like eight ish normally, like I don't set an alarm.

00:32:42:17 - 00:33:10:11

Electra

I get up when I get up because we are on call 24 over seven. So it's very interesting because in some ways going to the brothel is like going on vacation. I have significantly fewer responsibilities and I can just order whatever I want from the kitchen. Whenever there's a 24 hour gorgeous pool and hot tub with a waterfall that's like topless allowed, like anytime you want, surrounded by professionally beautiful women who all want to be your friend for the most part.

00:33:10:11 - 00:33:30:13

Electra

Like you're getting like tons of free champagne and like some incredible vacation. But in other ways, you're working the most you ever do because you are on call 24/7. Like this past tour, six times I had two nights where I was woken up for requests twice in the night and another two nights where it happened once. It's very interesting, so I typically get up like around eight.

00:33:30:18 - 00:33:47:06

Electra

I'd like to try to be in the bar. Sherry is one of the only questionmark brothels that has like a bar hustle where you can, like, hang out in the bar and talk to clients somewhat like a strip club and see if they're interested in you, and then go back to your room. A lot of the houses don't have that.

00:33:47:06 - 00:34:04:10

Electra

A lot of them. The clients have to just like request a lineup and they pick based off of looks. But we have a bar hustle, so I like to be in the bar by like 9 a.m.. Not a lot of people come in that early, but the people that come in during the day almost always end up booking with the first or second girl they talk to.

00:34:04:12 - 00:34:22:01

Electra

So I like to be like right in the bar, right? Available. And oftentimes I'll get a really good booking like before 1 p.m., just because I happen to be in the right place at the right time. And then I personally spend a lot of time in the bar while I'm there. I like bring books or I have a tablet and I like get work done, and I just hang out in the bar and talk to people.

00:34:22:04 - 00:34:38:21

Electra

If I do get a really good booking, then I get a lot more chill with the rest of my day and we'll spend a lot more time by the pool. I also typically have like a list of custom videos I need to get filmed. While I'm there. I set up a little like recurring to do list. My routine list that is like stuff I try to do every day.

00:34:39:00 - 00:35:04:15

Electra

This is true whether I'm at the brothel or not, but I need the reminder on my phone whenever I start every day by meditating and having what I call power juice. Power juice is a scoop of Metamucil fiber and a scoop of electrolytes in a tall glass of water. And sometimes, like when I do conventions or I'm traveling, anytime I'm along a lot of strangers, I turn it into power juice Plus, which is Power juice that also has an emergency packet in it.

00:35:04:17 - 00:35:23:21

Electra

On my list I have every day like, okay, meditate, have power juice, make sure you take all of your meds. I do this like nervous system work that basically amounts to just like thinking about your body parts a lot. So I try to do 20 minutes of that every day. I try to read a certain amount and then I have like all my social media accounts that need to be updated.

00:35:24:00 - 00:35:45:11

Electra

And so like many of these things I can do while I'm in the bar, but I just try to like get my to do list done. I usually go to bed between ten and midnight, depending on how the day has gone. Sometimes I end up later, but it really does vary because you never know. Like when you might have an appointment, when someone might come in and request you, when there might suddenly be a line up and you need to race to get in line with everyone because you only have a certain amount of time to make a line up.

00:35:45:16 - 00:36:02:23

Electra

But it's really fun, and I try to spend time with like the other girls that are so cool, like they're so cool. You think because it is more competitive than like a strip club? Like just very literally because like at a strip club, just because a guy gets two dances from you doesn't mean he's like done. He very well may get two dances from everybody.

00:36:02:23 - 00:36:23:06

Electra

He might even do two different VIP rooms. That happens all the time. Or he might do ten dances with somebody and then a VIP with somebody else, typically at the brothel. Once a client parties like has a booking, they're not likely to party again, at least not that day. Sometimes we get like hotel guests and they'll do multiple ones, but typically they just do like one party a day.

00:36:23:09 - 00:36:48:13

Electra

So it is competitive in the sense that, like, whomever gets the client gets the client, okay. But it doesn't feel that way. Like talking and hanging out with the other girls does not feel competitive at all. Everybody is like very supportive and fun and cares about each other. Like recently I had a friend come out there for her first week and I told her in advance I was like, yeah, everybody I met there, all the other ladies have range from fine to amazing.

00:36:48:17 - 00:37:01:22

Electra

Like the worst end of the spectrum, the like worst girl you're going to meet there is absolutely fine. Like no qualms at all. Just don't know her. Kind of keeps to herself up to like oh my god. Incredible. Like want to hang out with them all the time type of people.

00:37:02:00 - 00:37:09:21

Luna

Wow. Okay, so what about when you're not at Shari's like, do you have a schedule? Do you keep a schedule? Do let it be crazy. Do you kind of like.

00:37:09:23 - 00:37:10:17

Electra

To be crazy?

00:37:10:18 - 00:37:11:20

Luna

You like to be crazy?

00:37:12:02 - 00:37:39:23

Electra

Yeah I do, it's different every day. In a perfect world, we would be shooting three days a month for queer crush. Two scenes each of those days. So we'd be producing sex scenes, but releasing four scenes. But in reality, we get a lot of cancellations and reschedules like a lot of cancellations and reschedules. And then we also go through these weird periods where it's like, it's the holidays and then it's convention season, so we're not shooting for five weeks, or I am about to have a hysterectomy.

00:37:39:23 - 00:37:58:17

Electra

And they said, like, don't get out of bed too much for two weeks, so we have to take some time off or whatever. So I kind of just try to shoot like as much as people are available around the holidays, we almost ran out of content. I took one week off for Christmas. I figured, like if there's no new release right on Christmas, nobody's going to be bad at us.

00:37:58:22 - 00:38:15:18

Electra

And we like just made it that way. So I don't I don't want to end up in that place again. We probably have like ten scenes sitting in the queue right now. We released one a week. I would like to, you know, continue growing that. It's also hard because I don't necessarily know when I'm going to have a shoot as a performer.

00:38:15:22 - 00:38:37:13

Electra

The porn industry moves really quickly. It is rare that a shoot is booked more than two weeks in advance. Sometimes you find out the day before, so there is an amount of craziness there. Normally I try to do Pilates four days a week, so a lot of days I will like get up at eight, meditate, have power juice, respond to emails and then make either like a 9:00 am or a 10 a.m. class.

00:38:37:18 - 00:38:59:21

Electra

And then it really just depends. I try to see my horse at least six days a week. He's like most of my life outside of work, and then otherwise it really just depends like work wise, what's going on. I definitely am one of those people that like, you see the memes go around. It's like, I didn't want to work a 9 to 5 job, so now I work 24 seven and that's like kind of relatable.

00:38:59:23 - 00:39:00:05

Luna

Yeah.

00:39:00:05 - 00:39:25:17

Electra

Although I will say my wife has much more of a normal people schedule, like a 8 to 4 type of thing. And that has been really good for me because it has encouraged me to take a lot more evenings off than I otherwise would have. But it's really interesting. Last summer she went home to Chicago for like ten days when I was still here, and that was the first time I had been home alone that long since we moved in together, because she doesn't do a lot of solo traveling.

00:39:25:17 - 00:39:38:16

Electra

Usually either I am solo traveling or we're traveling together, and that week was really great, but it was also like, I get up and I do a bunch of work, and then I take a nap, and then I go see my horse, and then I do a bunch more work, and then I eat a snack, and then I do a bunch more work.

00:39:38:20 - 00:39:46:17

Electra

And so I am like, there's breaks in there, but there's work in my schedule from getting up until going to bed. Is this your schedule? Is that the face I'm seeing?

00:39:46:23 - 00:40:03:12

Luna

Yes. I'm literally like a few days ago I was thinking, oh, maybe I should get a relationship so that I take more breaks from work. But I literally fluctuate between like, oh, that person's taking my time. And actually I have a wonderful lover, I guess is the way to say it. But yeah, I feel you.

00:40:03:14 - 00:40:18:02

Electra

Yeah, yeah. So the whole evening was like having evenings free to be with her, I think has been really good to me. Every once in a while I do get frustrated, which is so silly because if I was like, hey, you know what? I'm really busy. Like, I'll be home, but I don't really know if I'm going to see you.

00:40:18:02 - 00:40:30:13

Electra

I need to just like, work tonight. Yeah. She'd be like, oh, okay, bummed I won't see you, but let me know if there's anything I can do to help. But for some reason, inside I'm still like, So, like, I try not to have that happen too much.

00:40:30:15 - 00:40:47:00

Luna

I really feel that way. When I used to be in relationships back in my early 20s, I definitely would, like, feel like I was like, you know, getting to the end of the day. And I earned the reward of seeing the person. And now I actually really like knowing that I'm going to see someone every week or so.

00:40:47:00 - 00:41:00:05

Luna

You know, I think that's really juicy. Although I'm not like bonded to a person. I don't have that kind of like, right, daily thing. How is it to be with someone who it sounds like is wildly supportive, but also is living in the regular world?

00:41:00:07 - 00:41:21:07

Electra

That is extremely accurate. She is wildly supportive and like, not at all involved. It's interesting. I don't know, it feels really special because I don't know a lot of people who aren't involved and could be this level of supportive. Like, I know people online love to hate on like guys who are like, I could never data girl with an only fan.

00:41:21:12 - 00:41:42:06

Electra

I don't really understand the hate. I think like if you know that dating a sex worker isn't going to work for you, that's super valid and actually like super healthy to know versus like trying to make it work and it just not like that's one of the reasons my last relationship ended. We're actually still pretty good friends. I'm going to see him in August and then we're going camping next year.

00:41:42:07 - 00:41:57:15

Electra

But it didn't work out because I knew we started dating when I was 17 and I was like, when I turn 18, I'm applying to do porn. And he was like, I don't really like that. Like, I mean, do what you want to do. He didn't try to like, stop me, but it was pretty clear that it made him unhappy.

00:41:57:20 - 00:42:11:15

Electra

And then he went to UC Berkeley and I was like, guess what? I finally got booked to do porn, and they're flying me to Oakland, and they're putting me up in a hotel in Emeryville. And they said that you can come stay at the hotel with me, and so I'll get paid, and then I'll come stay with you through the weekend.

00:42:11:15 - 00:42:28:21

Electra

And he's like, well, I'm really glad that I'm going to get to see you. And he's like trying his damnedest to be supportive. He really, truly did. But it was just not a good fit for him. And like, that's okay. Actually, he was as good of a partner as he possibly could have been considering it wasn't a good fit for him.

00:42:29:01 - 00:42:45:01

Electra

He tried to be supportive. He, like, mentally understood that it was working, not cheating and all of these things, and even then, like it was still really, really hard. And not to say that it's 100% easy 100% of the time with my current partner, but I feel really lucky. I'm really, really, really fortunate.

00:42:45:06 - 00:43:05:20

Luna

That's amazing. I mean, to be fair, I don't hear of any relationships that are 100% perfect. Just so far, I haven't come across those, but it sounds like you got a good set up. I would love to hear a little bit about what it's like to work on set for other people as a performer, like what are your favorite and or most challenging parts of those shoots?

00:43:05:22 - 00:43:24:18

Electra

Like everything else, it's super varied. Sometimes it's great and sometimes it's awful, but I always have in my head, like, if I can make my performers feel the way I feel when I step on it in start set, I'm succeeding. Like that is my goal is to make my performers feel like I feel when I shoot for it and star in star is a performer turned director.

00:43:24:20 - 00:43:48:09

Electra

She directs for evil Angel, but she's been around for many, many, many, many years. Both performing and producing does a lot of like, fandom stuff, but not exclusively. She also runs the evil imprint pansexual X, which shoots a lot of like five threesomes and trans scenes and all kinds of things. And she's just so cool. She makes you feel so safe, and yet it's so much fun.

00:43:48:09 - 00:44:15:06

Electra

And she, like, I'll never forget the amount of care I was working for this other guy. It's how I first met her. I was working for this other guy, but he was. It was doing camera for him. He was directing, but also kind of performing in these fetish clips. And I remember this one scene. I had been tied sort of doggy style on like a spanking bench, and the director performer ended up like coming all down my back, which sort of ran, like down my butt towards my vulva and legs.

00:44:15:08 - 00:44:32:19

Electra

And right after we cut it and comes over with baby wipes. And since I'm tied the grip and the director are working on untied me, but she comes over and she's got baby wipes and she's like, would you like me to wipe the come off of you? And I was like, yes, thank you for asking. And she starts wiping the cum and then she's like, is it all right if I wipe your vulva area?

00:44:32:19 - 00:44:53:07

Electra

And I was like, yes, thank you for asking. And just like that level of care and consent is like unfortunately not found on every like first of all, many people wouldn't have even thought to be like, oh, she's tied up and covered in cum, maybe I should step in and help. But then even if someone does have that thought, I don't know how many people would have thought like once they'd already gotten consent to touch that.

00:44:53:07 - 00:45:20:06

Electra

Like also there's going to be a wipe on. You're like, yeah, so nice of her. And everything she does is that way and is so considerate and so great. So sometimes it's really nice and sometimes it's a lot more like, well, you're on your own out there type of vibe. Like, I wouldn't say I've necessarily worked for any legitimate professional directors who themselves feel like scary and unsafe, but there is a distinction between like, often it feels like if there were a problem, it's kind of on you to take care of it.

00:45:20:06 - 00:45:42:15

Electra

They're not necessarily looking out for you the same way that someone like Aidan is. Or I would like to think someone like me is. But one thing we do is there's like a prescreening survey that everybody fills out to shoot for Queer Crush, which number one captures things like their social media handles and exactly how they want their name spelled and what's going to go in the bio and how they want their gender listed on the website, and pronouns and things like language they do or don't want you.

00:45:42:17 - 00:46:00:17

Electra

That type of thing also collects their testing requirements. There's been like a lot of weirdness in the industry lately, and the testing centers are sort of fragmented right now. So I always like to ask people like, which of the testing centers are you comfortable with, your partner testing out things like that? And then also I asked for preliminary boundaries and things.

00:46:00:17 - 00:46:21:20

Electra

So we have those in advance of the shoot. But then there is a point in my shoot checklist, like as we're going through the day where I say to the talent, if you guys could please go over limits and check each other's test and they don't need to literally show me, like, here is my test. But I do make sure that both me and my videographer Dolev and my business partner with whom I could not function like thank you Dolly.

00:46:21:20 - 00:46:39:11

Electra

I could not do what I do without her. I make sure that we are both in the room while this happens, and that we both hear the limits that they are discussing. And that means should there be an issue, even if maybe one of the performers is a little nervous to say on camera, like, hey, you just did that thing I say not to do?

00:46:39:13 - 00:47:01:22

Electra

Me and Dalia both know to be like, hang on, we need to hold or cut for a second. I noticed that this happened. I want to check in with everybody, which actually, fortunately has not happened thus far. In our 50 oh. Today was our 50th scene and I was in Argentina. Thank you. In our 50 scenes, I have not yet actually had to stop the action because someone did something violating a limit.

00:47:02:00 - 00:47:17:10

Electra

But I make sure that we all have the knowledge so that we would know if that happened. And that is not a lot of times a director isn't even like. And did you guys go over tests? It's just like kind of on you to make sure that that's happening.

00:47:17:12 - 00:47:31:12

Luna

Wow. Okay. So it sounds like you really have to advocate for yourself no matter what, but just, you know, okay, can you share with us what you have noticed or learned about sex related shame through your work?

00:47:31:14 - 00:47:53:19

Electra

Shame can be such a block that is so impactful on More Than sex. Like, I think this is one of the coolest things I've experienced. I'm very queer. I'm very loudly queer. I love other people who are queer. I do a lot of work with like men who are bisexual and even like, I absolutely love shooting by threesomes.

00:47:53:21 - 00:48:03:02

Electra

A by threesome in porn means two guys and a girl. But the guys actually have sex with each other too. They're not just sharing the girl, it's everybody fucks up.

00:48:03:02 - 00:48:03:21

Luna

So super.

00:48:03:21 - 00:48:23:15

Electra

Hot. Love them very much. I shoot a lot of those and all kinds of things, and I try not to make it to fetishizing either. Like the industry loves to fetishize things, but for me it's just like I'm queer. They're queer like world. It doesn't feel any different to me than a threesome, where it's one guy and two girls and the two girls are fooling around with each other, but porn likes to make it different.

00:48:23:19 - 00:48:40:03

Electra

Whatever it is, I have had a lot of people, a lot of men or people who thought that they were men come to me and say, you know what? Thank you so much. I never would have realized I was bi if it weren't for you. Because like where they come from, that would mean there's something wrong with them.

00:48:40:08 - 00:48:58:00

Electra

And because it's not like they are completely 100% homosexual. So maybe they just were like, I do like women don't need to think about it any more than that. And then through seeing like, oh yes, I am attracted to this porn star Electra Rain. Oh, what she's doing this threesome or she's talking about her experience in this threesome.

00:48:58:00 - 00:49:16:05

Electra

Wait, this interests me. Wait, what? And so that has been so rewarding and exciting to hearing, like, those stories in the way that I have impacted people's lives directly. But also goes to show, I think, just how much shame can cause people to leave unexplored.

00:49:16:07 - 00:49:29:14

Luna

Yeah, it can freeze people in their tracks. It could stop them from exploring. Totally. Okay. Can you tell us, like, how your work has this going to be shame related or not? Can you tell us how your work has influenced or informed your own sex life?

00:49:29:16 - 00:49:53:19

Electra

Well, there are some things that are like pretty direct and to the point. I had never used a cattle prod before. JP be with a cattle prod a few times on set and I was like, wow, that's actually pretty fun. There's obvious direct things like that. And then also, I think it's really motivated me actually to do a lot of this, like re self-exploration because I did so much self exploration in college on that.

00:49:53:19 - 00:50:16:18

Electra

I told you like after my surgery, there's all these things I've sort of been like stuck for a while in my own sexuality. And I think without my work, I wouldn't have had the same level of motivation to like, push and get this figured out. And I do feel like not only do I owe it to myself, I owe it to the audience of my website, and I owe it to my performers and things to like, figure out how to reconnect with my own sexuality, if that's what I'm asking them to do on my site.

00:50:16:18 - 00:50:36:07

Electra

So that's been really cool. Also, it is so fun getting to do. I mean, I guess I kind of touched on this with the first thing, but like, I think of porn a lot of the times, like stunts, it's sex stuff. It is often not a guide for how any average person should be having sex. It's stunts and that's just so cool and fun getting to do that.

00:50:36:07 - 00:50:55:09

Electra

And also just getting to try like a little bit of everything. Just yesterday I filmed an Inflate Ophelia video, which is like inflatables, like big inflatables. So I was like pegging this guy on the various inflatables. At the end of each position, I would pop them and they were much harder to pop off. Yeah, yeah, it was very cool.

00:50:55:09 - 00:51:09:19

Electra

But I had a nail like you hit with the hammer and I was holding it like against my finger so I could claw it because my nails aren't that long, but like, I'd pop it with the nail and we would get a hole, but it didn't make the type of noise I was thinking. It didn't like all pop at once, even with us.

00:51:09:19 - 00:51:29:03

Electra

Like bouncing on it. Yeah, which is beside the point. It is very cool getting to like, Microdose try all of these different things and I'm sure I'm trying to think because I know there are a couple other things where I was like, wow, I had no idea I was into XYZ until I tried it for work. And unfortunately nothing is coming to my right now, but it will probably come back to me.

00:51:29:03 - 00:51:31:07

Electra

I'll be like, oh, this one.

00:51:31:09 - 00:51:42:00

Luna

You can tell us when it does. What about the boundaries between your work life and your personal life? How do you kind of hold them, think about them, keep them? What's it look like for you?

00:51:42:02 - 00:51:46:20

Electra

Really good question. This is something I've actually talked a lot about in my most recent two therapy sessions.

00:51:47:01 - 00:51:48:00

Luna

Yes.

00:51:48:02 - 00:52:09:02

Electra

So important note my partner always has been like very monogamous, and I have known that I was poly since I was 16 and I had two boyfriends who knew about each other, are still friends, are both going on that camping trip next year? Actually, my two serious ex-boyfriends, plus my best friend's buddy from college like I was fucking until I met my wife.

00:52:09:07 - 00:52:28:14

Electra

I have a book club. Three of them, like, literally, they like in sci fi books and talk about it together. They like, know each other because of me. So I think that's like, cool and so cute. Yeah, right. But so I've known I was poly for a really long time and so we were largely monogamous for most of our relationship, and we just kind of like did a lot of group stuff.

00:52:28:16 - 00:52:51:14

Electra

That was great for a really long time. And then I realized I was starting to feel very like stifled. And I also struggle. I grew up in effectively an abusive relationship, but it wasn't a romantic relationship. It was my best friends who were twins. I wasn't allowed to have feelings. I wasn't allowed to have other friends. Like, even like there were a couple times where, like, they were out sick.

00:52:51:14 - 00:53:11:05

Electra

And when they found out I had hung out with someone else at recess when they were out of school, I was completely shut out. Like literally silent treatment ignored for the rest of the week afterwards. Yeah, but like, I didn't really have other friends to turn to because I wasn't. Yeah. And it would be like if I so much was expressed like, hey, that thing one of you did upset me a little bit.

00:53:11:09 - 00:53:32:03

Electra

Both of them are suddenly very mad at me, like it was a whole thing. So that has left me with like lasting issues surrounding boundaries in relationships and things. For a long time. I would simply feel guilty having fun without my partner present, even though, like the actual actions I may be taking were not at all problematic even for a monogamous relationship.

00:53:32:06 - 00:53:51:23

Electra

Like I remember once calling my now wife from San Francisco. I was out there with a friend, and she'd introduced me to a bunch of her friends, and we were having this very cool, like fire circle and doing like, all this painting with glitter paints and they, like, decorated my jeans. And it was all very fun. And none of it was problematic from a like relationship monogamy standpoint.

00:53:52:01 - 00:54:12:13

Electra

And I ended up having a panic attack. And I had to call her and she was like, it's okay. Like I am also at a party with our friend. Like, I am also having fun. I'm not mad at you. So it's been this public process. What that means is being a sex worker in an otherwise pretty much monogamous relationship has been really tricky, and I don't like to fuck off camera.

00:54:12:15 - 00:54:26:07

Electra

Like, I don't mean like in general. I never, ever have sex on camera. I mean, like on set. There are some people like, I've seen it happen, even like I've been in group scenes where two of the people have this connection, where it's like they're just going to fuck the whole time and great when the cameras rolling, great.

00:54:26:07 - 00:54:44:06

Electra

And the director might call cut, but they're just going to keep fucking because they're having a great time. Really? Yes. And when I've seen it, it's clearly been like we are on the same page. We are mutually enjoying this. We're having fun. And I was like, that is great for you guys. Wow. For me, I'm like, I need to save my energy for a scene.

00:54:44:06 - 00:55:04:23

Electra

Like even if I was into it. And then also somewhat of an emotional boundary, definitely a relationship boundary. And just pretty recently, my wife and I, like officially for real, opened our relationship up after last year doing a little experiment where I was dating this guy, and then I ended up being a disaster because he sucked and got like hard core dumped.

00:55:05:05 - 00:55:21:12

Electra

But it was great for my relationship with my wife. It went so much better than we thought from a US standpoint. And so much worse than I expected from a me in that guy's standpoint. But that was all him. So pretty recently, we're like, no, okay, we're going to like do the open relationship thing, which is really exciting for me.

00:55:21:15 - 00:55:43:04

Electra

The timing is a little not excellent because again, I have a hysterectomy in eight days, but it's going to lead to like at least two weeks of not leaving the house and another two weeks of like the doctor specifically said, like you could go to the store, but, you know, park really close to the store and maybe you're running the one errands, not three, which doesn't lend itself super well to like, meeting and fucking and dating new people.

00:55:43:08 - 00:55:45:03

Electra

But that's okay. Like it'll happen.

00:55:45:05 - 00:55:46:14

Luna

Edging. You're right.

00:55:46:14 - 00:56:12:10

Electra

It's edging. Well thank you. Even just like last weekend, I was on a shit trip in Oakland. I didn't do anything that I wouldn't have been allowed to do before like that. I would have been fine. But it did feel different. Just the fact that, like, I shot for Crash pad and I did it with this girl that, like, I really do like and it was really cool, like doing the scene and like really liking her.

00:56:12:10 - 00:56:33:16

Electra

And I spent like the whole weekend with her and it was very like very classic queer, platonic. Like we ended up with matching bracelets and like where at the shop where I bought this dress and I like, won her a reversible octopus plushie and an arcade and like all kinds of things. But then also, like I did this stand on scene with this guy ruckus, whom I've worked with before.

00:56:33:18 - 00:56:53:14

Electra

Love him. Great guy. It was this fandom edging scene we had talked about, like I'd probably do like some handjob and then some fucking and some more handjob, and it was very much like eye control, like what you cover, not type of deal. But we just had like such good connection and chemistry that we ended up doing like all the edging with fucking, which is pretty like challenging to do.

00:56:53:14 - 00:57:11:21

Electra

And I ended up like making him cum even though, like we were using condoms, which sometimes he has difficulty coming with condoms, although they were my special pull tabs, condoms that I love very much. Even though it didn't do anything differently than I would have before. Like we weren't having sex off camera. It wasn't like maybe another time with like whatever.

00:57:12:02 - 00:57:31:11

Electra

It still did feel really different. And even though, like my wife has told me repeatedly, like you're allowed to enjoy the sex you have on camera, like even when we were not open, it still feels really different in my like, chest and soul being like, no, but like whatever. Trying to connect with this person that I like in this scene versus like, nope, this is business.

00:57:31:11 - 00:57:38:13

Electra

Like stay in a business box and just do your scene. So that was really cool. And exciting. And I think there's a lot for me to explore there coming out.

00:57:38:13 - 00:57:49:10

Luna

So fun. I'm so glad to hear you're having that. And I've loved it. I love friends of the pod colliding in these sexy ways. Okay, could you please circle back to the pulled out condoms?

00:57:49:13 - 00:58:10:14

Electra

Yeah. So inspired by a quest to find a smaller fitting non latex condom because I am allergic to latex, I found this brand called unique and they have a smaller size. They have regular size as well. And in fact it's only the regular that has the pull tabs. It's non latex. It almost feels like really really really thin plastic wrap.

00:58:10:14 - 00:58:30:05

Electra

It's not rubbery the way even like a skin condom is. And they have these pull tabs on the sides and you put it on by just pulling the tabs which unrolls it. And then the tabs disconnect so you don't have to touch the penis to put the condom on. It also comes in four different sizes. Even the smaller ones have like this disk at the base.

00:58:30:05 - 00:58:44:18

Electra

It almost kind of looks like a flower, and when you open it, it has a little sticker on it that says penis this side, so you know which direction it goes. The sticker does come off so they don't have to wear a thing that size penis, but you just hold the flower and you just it and it goes on and it's so easy and they're so nice.

00:58:44:18 - 00:59:01:16

Electra

And they've also been really great for I had a client who came to see me at the ranch, and we were like, getting him ready, doing hand stuff. He had a great boner. I put the condom on and go to do blowjob and he like, starts getting soft right away and he's like, oh my God, I'm so sorry.

00:59:01:18 - 00:59:18:21

Electra

I am not trying to complain about the condoms. I know that they are really important. I just I haven't had sex with a condom in 20 years. And he starts getting like, really flustered and concerned. I was like, you know what, don't worry about it. I got these other kind we can try. We went with the unique kind of boom, rock hard boner.

00:59:18:21 - 00:59:36:16

Electra

Great party, no problems at all. And so I use them all the time now with anybody who, like, may possibly have issues with the condom. They've been so great. Like even raucous was like, whoa. Yeah. Like I can't usually come in a condom, but they're really cool. They allow for much better heat transfer and they sort of like adhere to the skin a little bit.

00:59:36:18 - 00:59:56:05

Electra

Also, they say on them that you can use them with any type of lube. I haven't tested that out. The idea of oil and a condom still makes me nervous, but I don't get as concerned about like using a massage oil and then switching to sex or something like that. Like I maybe wouldn't pour coconut oil right all over the condom, but I'm less nervous otherwise.

00:59:56:08 - 00:59:58:06

Electra

So yeah, I'm not sponsored by them.

00:59:58:06 - 01:00:02:10

Luna

This is not to say that it's a hard sell for unique. I'm. I want to go try it.

01:00:02:12 - 01:00:21:17

Electra

I know I should. Oh, the other cool thing too is, you know, you're not supposed to put a condom in your wallet. People do it, but you're not supposed to. But these come in a little, like, business card sized packet that is hard plastic. And inside it is the three condoms. And it's made so that you actually could put that container in your wallet.

01:00:21:17 - 01:00:25:15

Electra

The hard plastic is protects them. Okay. Anyway. Big fan.

01:00:25:17 - 01:00:39:08

Luna

Wow, that's so cool. You're so full of wisdom. Okay, tell us now, what have you learned about cultural norms through your work that has either surprised you and or that you would like to shift?

01:00:39:10 - 01:01:06:03

Electra

Male bisexuality needs to be a lot more talked about, and it is. But okay, so when I started in porn in 2015, there was this idea that all women are bisexual and there is no such thing as a bisexual man. I used to be. If you were a gay man, or if you were a male performer and you did one gay porn scene, that was it.

01:01:06:03 - 01:01:24:13

Electra

You're a gay performer now. You are not allowed to perform in the straight porn. And it's a holdover from the Aids crisis, which makes absolutely no sense because we're all doing anal. And also or like many people are doing anal, and we're all tested at the same place on the same schedule, like there's nothing inherently more risky. But that was a thing for a long time.

01:01:24:13 - 01:01:48:01

Electra

And through the work of some really cool people like Lucy Hart, the crossover star emerged. And crossover means you are a guy who does gay porn and straight porn who? And so now you have the bisexual threesome, which is considered straight porn, which is like so dumb. I hate the way like lesbian porn is also considered straight porn.

01:01:48:02 - 01:01:50:03

Electra

It's very stupid and exhausting.

01:01:50:03 - 01:01:51:15

Luna

What I didn't know that.

01:01:51:20 - 01:02:01:15

Electra

Could appeal to straight men is basically what, like if you go on Pornhub and they'll be like, do you want to see straight or gay? The lesbian is going to be under straight in that circumstance.

01:02:01:15 - 01:02:02:12

Luna

Okay.

01:02:02:14 - 01:02:25:19

Electra

Which gets really confusing for categorizing things like our content, which is lesbian content that was not made for the male gaze. Although I will say, like, if you are a straight guy and you like lesbian porn, you probably still like our website. Maybe not like this scene here or there might not be your taste, but in general, you're still going to like most of it and you are still invited to come watch and support us.

01:02:25:22 - 01:02:43:12

Electra

It is helping the community when you give us your money. Thank you. Yeah, but I wanted it to be more real. That was all. And I feel like we've been pretty successful. But to things I'd like to see change, it's already like really great progress that now we have by threesomes, we have crossover performers or whatever. I just wish it would stop being so fetishized.

01:02:43:14 - 01:03:03:03

Electra

I also wish that there would stop being the expectation on all women to be bisexual, both because they don't deserve to have that kind of pressure put on them, and also because I'm tired of working with people where you start shooting and you're like, oh, she's straight. Yep, yep. That's not oh, that doesn't feel good. Yeah. So that's my big thing that I would like.

01:03:03:07 - 01:03:22:01

Electra

Same with like I wish there was more space for trans masked performers and for non-binary performers. And I wish a lot of these types of queer identities could exist without being so hardcore fetishized. And I do think that, like, especially with more and more creators producing their own content, we will see more and more shifting. I just wish like, yeah, all right.

01:03:22:01 - 01:03:30:15

Electra

Like it's not like the process has been happening for at least six years. Really. It's been longer. But like I've been witnessing it change for six years and I'm like, shut up, you guys.

01:03:30:19 - 01:03:36:13

Luna

Fuck yeah. What would you say you're most excited to explore in your work going forward?

01:03:36:15 - 01:03:58:06

Electra

Like on a personal note. So again, I'm having a hysterectomy eight days. And not only that, inherently it's supposed to help address chronic pelvic pain that I've had my entire life. So that in and of itself is going to change sex a little bit. But it also means no uterus, means no IUD. And I kept my IUD after my sterilization because I haven't had a period since I was 17.

01:03:58:06 - 01:04:19:20

Electra

I didn't really feel like going back to that, especially since I don't need my period to tell me I'm not pregnant. I don't have fallopian tubes. I know I'm not pregnant. So I've had that idea since I was 17 and I started birth control when I was 13 or 14. So it's been over a decade. It's been like really like half my life, my entire life since puberty that I have been on outside hormones.

01:04:19:22 - 01:04:44:14

Electra

So I am about to, for the first time ever, not be on outside hormones and have the best shot at reduced or none pelvic pain that I've ever had. I'm very, very, very excited, both personally and professionally, to get to see all the new things that my body possibly can do, and I'm excited to get to do it on camera in a lot of ways.

01:04:44:18 - 01:04:47:15

Luna

Oh my gosh, that's such an exciting moment.

01:04:47:17 - 01:05:08:08

Electra

And then for the website specifically, we're still pretty small. We're just under 300 subscribers right now. We've only been around for like eight months, but we did just have AC and selected for the San Francisco Porn Film Festival, and we're doing some events. Thank you. Some events towards the end of the year, like we're a violet sponsor for Las Vegas Pride, which happens in October because they did a pride parade in Las Vegas in June.

01:05:08:08 - 01:05:26:17

Electra

There would be no survivors. Yeah. And then we'll be at the exotica convention in November and in December. So I'm just excited for the website to grow. I'm excited for it to start making its own money would be cool so I can give more money to performers. I'm excited for our concept to be exposed to new audiences. I'm excited to get their feedback.

01:05:26:23 - 01:05:47:16

Electra

Someday I would like to make a feature or even like a few features that year, because our scenes are very they're not all scripted and they're very honest. Like there's many scenes where you see me running in to refill their waters or get batteries, or you see the lights stand for a second, or they ask Dalia real quick, like, where are we in the shot?

01:05:47:16 - 01:06:02:08

Electra

Or something like that? And like, we leave all that in. We're very, very honest about the fact that, like, here we are making this porno for you. Yeah, but it would be cool to do a couple of features and things eventually, and we'll need to have the budget to do that. And that budget comes from more people supporting the website.

01:06:02:08 - 01:06:06:00

Electra

So I'm excited for everything the future holds for the site.

01:06:06:02 - 01:06:16:15

Luna

That's so many exciting things. Okay, so if you could wave a magic wand and teach everyone around the world something about sex, what would it be?

01:06:16:17 - 01:06:27:04

Electra

Sex does not have to be defined by orgasm. It doesn't have to be all about orgasm. The goal does not need to be achieving orgasm. And in fact, it can be even better when that's not your focus here.

01:06:27:05 - 01:06:35:13

Luna

Here. Any other hot work related or sex stories that you just have to share with us before you go? Or are you going to leave us hanging for your personal story?

01:06:35:14 - 01:06:42:10

Electra

Someday I am going to leave you hanging for personal stories, although I do feel like I threw a few good ones in there.

01:06:42:11 - 01:06:43:05

Luna

You sure did.

01:06:43:10 - 01:07:01:11

Electra

But I will say, for people who don't have as much background as you do about the website, I will share a little bit about how we work and what we do. So like I said, Queer crush.com is the only lesbian studio created entirely by actual sapphic folks. The production team and the performers are all either legitimately queer women or sapphic non-binary people.

01:07:01:16 - 01:07:20:11

Electra

Our performers choose their own partners. So for occasionally they're like, no, please, Elektra, find someone for me. And then I do my best. But really, like we strongly encourage them to choose their own partner. They do their own styling, wardrobe, makeup. They can do no makeup if they want. We had a performer get really excited recently. We shot her two days in a row and she texted me in advance.

01:07:20:11 - 01:07:36:09

Electra

She's like, you know them? She actually says, like any amount of makeup from none to full glam, it's fine with us. She's like, is it okay if I wear no makeup? Like I have some acne, but like, it really feels more like me? And I was like, please, like, we want you to be you. So they do their own styling and then they get to do whatever they want in the scenes.

01:07:36:09 - 01:08:06:06

Electra

Absolutely anything they want. We don't tell them what to do. We don't tell them what not to do. We don't cut and readjust. You know anything at all. The only time we cut it was for like a battery change on the camera. Or if the performers ask us to, which is pretty rare. The only one that comes to mind is we shot a real couple, and one of them ended up moaning her partner's actual real government name instead of performer names like, obviously we need to cut there, but otherwise like we live in bloopers, lube, usage check ins, talking on camera.

01:08:06:06 - 01:08:32:06

Electra

We even tell them I have a whole speech I give at the beginning about how, like, you can be a real person, you can talk to each other, you can talk about things that aren't necessarily sexy, like you just talk if you want to, you can say, I'm bored, let's move on. Or like, now that doesn't really work for me, because one of the most annoying things about being on like a pro set is when you're in a scene, the cameras are rolling, you're actively shooting, and your partner is like, oh yeah, are you about to come?

01:08:32:08 - 01:08:33:12

Luna

Oh.

01:08:33:14 - 01:08:36:12

Electra

Well, I'm not going to say no in the middle.

01:08:36:12 - 01:08:36:22

Luna

Of the.

01:08:37:00 - 01:08:53:17

Electra

Screen, but I didn't really want to fake it. So I'm very clear that you can be like, no, but it still feels really good or. Yeah, no, but if you do this, then maybe I would or like. No, but let's change it up. Or like I don't really feel like coming right now. Like those are all such valid answers.

01:08:53:17 - 01:08:56:03

Luna

I've set some of those in real life great.

01:08:56:03 - 01:09:14:12

Electra

And that's what we're trying to show. It's real. Queer is fucking the way they actually like to fuck. Having actual real fun. And that's the whole point of the website. It's all run by me in daily, like 100%. So we love feedback. So if anyone's listening and you want to go subscribe and send us a message on the website and be like, here is my sincere, honest feedback.

01:09:14:12 - 01:09:22:18

Electra

Positive and negative, I love that I can absolutely taken into account because there's no well, I'll talk to corporate about it or whatever. Like it's just me and Dalia.

01:09:22:20 - 01:09:36:11

Luna

Yeah. Fuck yeah. Also, just if any of you want to give electric feedback, make sure that if you have something you'd like to be different, that you see it nicely. I always think that any sort of feedback can be delivered with love, even if it's like, I want this different.

01:09:36:12 - 01:09:54:00

Electra

Yeah, that's true. I typically try to specify like subscribe and give us feedback because I have gotten a handful of people usually in TikTok, comments that like, I went to the website and I watched a few of the trailers and this, that and the other thing, and I'm like, okay, well, we have 50 full scenes. Plus there's an interview for each one.

01:09:54:06 - 01:10:11:10

Electra

You're telling me you watched a couple trailers and decided you didn't like something, like, maybe you don't have the most accurate full picture? And actually, I don't remember what it was that they were complaining about, but I do think it was something that actually like, if they had seen more than three trailers, we would have already checked whatever box they were talking about, right?

01:10:11:10 - 01:10:14:07

Luna

Right. Do you do the interviews at the end? At the beginning? Like what?

01:10:14:12 - 01:10:31:14

Electra

The beginning. We do it at the beginning. It's typically like, introduce yourself. Have you two have worked together before or met before? How did this pairing come to be? How and when did you realize you're queer? Which is pretty, you ask? Like that survey that I mentioned asks if they're comfortable talking about that. That question is not just sprung on anybody randomly.

01:10:31:14 - 01:10:49:01

Electra

There is like a pristine opt in to that question being asked. And then like, what kinds of toys do you like? Or are you more of a top or bottom? Recently we've also been asking like, how did you pick your stage name? What is your earliest queer crush you can remember? Be it a celebrity or like a lifeguard or your baby, like whoever it's going to be.

01:10:49:04 - 01:11:10:19

Electra

But really, we just like try to get the performers talking, let the audience get to know them a little, let them get to know each other a little. If it's people who maybe don't know each other as well because we've shot everybody up from like, we are literally married and drove here together and have sex every night because we're literally married to we've never met before, and at least one of the performers has been doing only fans for a while, but has never made a video with somebody else.

01:11:10:19 - 01:11:28:17

Electra

They've only ever done solo stuff. So like there's a wide range and it's fun to chat. We'll ask them if there's anything you're specifically hoping happens in the scene today or anything, like you're most excited about that kind of stuff. We shoot them first and then the interviews come out Monday, with the sex scene coming up the following Friday.

01:11:28:22 - 01:11:32:20

Electra

So like we just released the interview yesterday where this Friday the sexy will come out.

01:11:32:22 - 01:11:35:22

Luna

Fuck yeah. What was your first queer crush?

01:11:36:00 - 01:11:54:22

Electra

Looking back from when I was born, until I was four years old, I lived in like a little cul de sac, and there was a girl named Shannon who lived in one of their houses. And she's I think she's about five years older than me, maybe. And looking back, absolutely. It was Shannon right from the beginning. But the earliest like, celebrity or anything was Lindsay Lohan.

01:11:54:22 - 01:12:15:15

Electra

I had this Lindsay Lohan poster in my room, and I didn't totally get it at the time, but it's so gay. She's like, she's standing in this, like, really wide squared stance, and she's got her two thumbs and her belt loops and she's just very like, here I am, like big energy. And I had that poster right next to my bed for a long time.

01:12:15:18 - 01:12:32:05

Luna

That's amazing. Okay, help us in on a fantasy. If you had an unlimited budget to build a sexy playroom or house or castle or whatever sort of structure you prefer, it can either represent you, yourself or your entire brand. What would it be like?

01:12:32:07 - 01:13:09:23

Electra

It would definitely be very diverse, since that tends to be the theme with me and all of my sex things. It would be like very convertible, very like. And then you slide away this wall or like collapsible thing and then there's the doctor's office. But then if you come around this way, it's like a glitter dungeon and that like it would just have so many different options and also probably a lot of like rolling carts, because that ends up being tricky when it's like, okay, so my sex toys and things mostly live in a big dresser, like a full like double sized dresser.

01:13:10:00 - 01:13:38:21

Electra

For anyone who's ever been to Sheri's Ranch and the large rooms, they have these like double dressers. It's one of those same Ikea dresser across the hallway in my bedroom. But then I gotta take step over here into the studio and it's not that big a deal. It's across one hallway. But I'm like working on this very long term goal that would have me and my wife moving up to Oregon and would have like a separate guesthouse on the property that is the studio, which is great until you think, where are all of my sex toys?

01:13:38:21 - 01:13:44:16

Electra

Are they in the studio building? Are they in the main house building? Do I have two of everything? Like that's what.

01:13:44:18 - 01:13:52:22

Luna

I was going to fantasize for you that you have enough. Like there's just such abundance, you know, because also your personal things, we wash them differently. Maybe. I don't know yet. Do you?

01:13:53:03 - 01:14:02:17

Electra

Yes. Although I do use UV sterilizers for everything. Oh, the UV sterilizers have been a game changer, and I take one of them with me to the ranch to do with has been a huge game changer. Yeah.

01:14:02:18 - 01:14:18:02

Luna

Oh my gosh. Well, we're going to get into the details of all of your sex toys when I talk to you personally. That'll be in our future maybe post hysterectomy a little bit. Yeah. Electro rain. Thank you so much for being a guest on sex toys. Where are the best places for people to find you on the internet?

01:14:18:04 - 01:14:39:23

Electra

Obviously the website is my labor of love, my passion project. That's just queer crush.com. And then for me, my website is Chicago, slate.com. It's easy to remember it's easy to spell electro rain that that'll get you at the same place but harder, remember harder spell. And that's going to have my links to everything else that'll have social media and information about seeing me at the ranch.

01:14:39:23 - 01:14:48:12

Electra

They'll take you to my page of the Sheri's brothel website. I'll be back in September onwards. If you'd like to come see me, I'd be happy to see you. Yeah, you can ask me any questions or anything.

01:14:48:12 - 01:14:53:04

Luna

That's a fuck. Yeah. And those links are in the description below. Thank you so much.

01:14:53:06 - 01:14:54:15

Electra

Of course. Thank you for having me.