263A | Birthday Sex: May’s Bucket List Wishes
- Luna Robbie
- Apr 30, 2024
- 80 min read
How full of fun can a hot girl spring into summer be? 🤩
It’s Luna's birthday!!! To celebrate the first day of PLAY, Luna explains all the exciting ways you can come along for this 52-day ride.
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Luna
It is my birthday today, which means it is the beginning of my 52 days of fucking, a.k.a. 52 days of play, 52 days of fun, 52 days of learning and exploration, and definitely masturbation and play and co-creation. And I.
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Luna
Am super.
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Luna
Excited and curious.
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Luna
About what is about to unfold.
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Luna
If you would like to see details, I made a very beautiful, if I do say so myself landing page which you can find at while Lecomte 52. I will go over some of those details with you and while the idea has been bouncing around and growing in my head for the past several weeks, I did notice a shift in my priorities, mostly mostly due to logistics.
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Luna
So I thought it might be fun to start off with a noodle about how we define success, especially as it relates to sex or fucking.
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Luna
I don't know, Kimberly should we even say fucking?
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Luna
Because I was going to say, especially as it relates to fucking. It is tempting here to try to make up the word success, but I am afraid that people would think that I meant an excessive amount of sex instead of a sexual win, although I don't know if sharing successes sounds fun. So first, a dictionary definition of success.
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Luna
It's a noun. The accomplishment of an aim or purpose. And Lord knows we in our society love accomplishing things. It is fun to check a box. They give some examples. You can look it up in the dictionary if you want. This is just from the dictionary on my MacBook Pro. The archaic definition is.
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Luna
The good.
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Luna
Or bad outcome of an undertaking. That's interesting.
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Luna
So the good or ill success of the maritime enterprises.
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Luna
That's a hilarious example. So I think sex wise it is key to define the aim or the purpose. When I am with a partner. Personally, I am looking for connection. I am looking for pleasure, which for me includes novelty like novel experiences do not necessarily lead me to orgasm, but they turn me on so much and bring me a huge amount of pleasure.
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Luna
For me, pleasure is not.
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Luna
Only.
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Luna
Relegated to orgasms, and then I also think mutual upliftment or more ness. You know, the idea that by coming together, coming together, that's not a requirement coming at all, and certainly coming together is not a requirement. But by being one person with another person in the same space, bodies touching, hopefully co-creating mutual pleasure. And I did get a question about what co-creation means, how I use it.
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Luna
So I will answer that soon. For me, it's like a generator, like a van de Graaf generator. Did you ever do that science experiment where you all hold hands in science class news app each other? Love that.
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Luna
My first experience with electro play.
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Luna
I know some people hate that I love it. I love the sensation. If you are on OnlyFans, maybe you saw me masturbate myself with.
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Luna
The electro toy.
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Luna
The internal one. Obviously the neon wand is there too, but so for me, connection, pleasure, including novelty, a mutual more ness, a mutual upliftment coming together with another person to create more energy than we started with separately. I really think it's kind of like the love clichés that I hear about.
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Luna
Partnership and marriage.
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Luna
But I'm like, it applies to other places. For those of us who are not prioritizing that necessarily. I love partnered interactions. Assuming I have selected the right partner because it feels like.
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Luna
A mutual boost.
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Luna
And then I always think of the 500 days of Summer, like the Helen Oats song playing in the background. Well, I want to cock my heart handle like I'm like, you make my dreams come true. Okay, separately when I am masturbating. So separately from partner sex, I will be honest. If I am masturbating, an orgasm is almost always my goal.
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Luna
Exceptions being last September when I was editing myself all month long and I did a daily masturbation meditation sensation exploration. Very fun. All of them are on only fans at Wiley or unlockable one by one at while free. So the seed of this idea for.
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Luna
52 days of fucking.
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Luna
Which I am publicly calling 52 days of play and honestly, I'm fucking done with censorship. I'm done with censorship. All of my on all safer work platforms. I'm a photographer. I am a photographer. I'm just a photographer going for because I can't fuck.
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Luna
With censorship.
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Luna
Anymore. I'm just like, I'm just regular. I'm a regular person. I also have sex.
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Luna
Okay?
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Luna
We live in a society where that's it's it's not weird. It's very normalized in some ways, but it's weird if.
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Luna
You acknowledge it. Okay. Okay.
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Luna
So. Well, the seed of this idea was absolutely originally about fulfilling the curiosity, but I do still very much have about what it would feel like to have sex with a partner, ideally different partners, but maybe the same partner every single day for 50 days because originally it was like five days. Wow. What would ten times as much be like?
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Luna
Can I even measure ten times as much? Feel good. And then I made it 52 because I was like, I could make my playing card deck. I don't know if that will happen in this time period. We'll see how signups go. All of that is to say, organizational logistics for the moment have shifted that goal slightly, right? So I might be saving the 50 days in a row for my hot girl summer, but my main goals right now are to learn to connect with the lovely humans, to explore through co-creation, to experience pleasure every day, to take good care of my mind and body and heart, and to get more information about my own priorities
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Luna
creatively, relationally, financially. So yes, I definitely do want to have sex. And I am very curious about what actual partnered sex for 52 days in a row might be like. But I am thinking of this entire thing as a first draft.
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Luna
Because maybe it will be the first annual one. We'll see. I wrote that on the invitation. We'll see.
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Luna
This is a test run. This is an opportunity for me to connect with you, with you lovely listener listening right now, I would love to get a voice memo from you. I would love for you to answer one of my questions as a birthday present. My birthday.
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Luna
Present.
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Luna
So I want to get to know you as well as other creators who love sex. And I want to have a chance to do more of the research on my bucket list. And also maybe organize. I did do a good first draft of organizing. It will go over there 69 things on it right now, as is 69 broad categories.
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Luna
I'll get into the details. Well, maybe you can help me organize it.
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Luna
It is now publicly available.
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Luna
Plus my friend gave me a stocking machine. So either way there will be definitely 52 days of fucking it is simply that my lawyer advised me that I should keep this experiment to other professionals for practical reasons, right? So he pointed out the possibility of power imbalance. What happens if someone seeks me out because they just want to have sex with me, and then they agree to things where they show their face publicly and then they're naked and then it ruins their life or something.
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Luna
You know, I don't I'm not that, he said. I'm allowed to help any newbies out there. They're allowed to hire me as a photographer and videographer to help make slutty content. That is the bulk of what I do. But until someone is established and has like 30 days or whatever number of posts, I don't have an exact metric written out.
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Luna
But you have to have already established your own naked slutty content before I can work with you. Also, I am sticking to professional testing standards, so pass certified or something where I can watch you log in to see test results, right? So that is the thing is, like in nonprofessional settings, there's a different standard when it comes to health and safety conversations.
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Luna
Half the people out there still scared out of their minds about it. When I bring it up. I'm tired of making my lovers nervous. I'm really excited to play with other professionals who have the same love like standard of care that I do when it comes to just keeping my body safe. So that is the reason for the slight shift in focus, and maybe I will do a different experiment, but I'm not going to put any other professionals at risk by mixing those things, even though I will be getting tested every two weeks.
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Luna
So I am very excited, and I figure that May's bucket list wishes there. They're all listed publicly. My wish is to day by day, see what I might do and even me exploring OnlyFans every day. Even me prioritizing Patreon. Even me learning these online platforms. Learning. Getting deeper into sex Panther.
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Luna
Oh my god, I'm so excited to take to take pictures of me.
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Luna
And my socks. I mean, I have them already, but like, I've never been like, I'm here to sell socks and panties and I can't tell you why exactly. I don't think Dalma does her panty selling podcast anymore. But I listen to the fuck out of that podcast and I was so curious in my early Hauraki research before I even had that phrase.
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Luna
So I'm going to see what unfolds. I have a big list. There's a lot that I want to create. I thought I might read to you some of the stuff that's on the website. 52 Days of Play. While e-commerce, five to the number five, the number 252. But it's numbers while e-commerce five two. The link is in the description below.
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Luna
52 days of Play. Join me for my first annual Hot Girl Spring into Summer.
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Luna
Birthday celebration Creation Fest.
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Luna
Los Angeles, California. California. Supplied April 30th to June 21st, 2024. Who is invited? Nice fun people a.k.a lovely humans sweetie pie as you might say. Follow along on socials or get exclusive updates and be my muse from anywhere in the world via OnlyFans or Patreon. I'm thinking that life. I'm thinking we'll see about Instagram. We'll see about Instagram.
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Luna
It doesn't like my collage was mostly and x. I am going to explore X, formerly known as Twitter. Some are also pro creators and I have a little, my actual invitation there. So if you know any professional creators who you love the little picture above Pro creators, you can click on it. That's my invitation. You can send that to people, or you can recommend me who you would like me to invite, and I will send it to them.
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Luna
So pro creators join me in person for a three part collab rolled into one delightful afternoon of podcasting, taking pictures and co-creating on camera. Plus, next, I always must have snacks and I am really excited because it is a create as you go. I've gotten some feedback that it sounds a little bit overwhelming, but I did my best to make it very clear and I think I'm a person who likes to eat a lot of little bites, right?
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Luna
If I go somewhere and there's a sampler platter available, I will always.
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Luna
Choose it, especially.
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Luna
If it has all the best things on the menu. I'm like, the world should be sampler platters. One of my very good friends recently told me this is called Girl Dinner. She's like, the way that you eat is girl dinner. I was like, what does that mean? Does that imply that I am not a.
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Luna
Woman cooking a.
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Luna
Meal with a main in the sides for a man? Because also I do cook for myself. Like I'm a really good, but I love to have my hummus and like 3 or 4 cheeses and my crackers and my pistachios and my almonds and my this and my that, you know, in my cut up carrots and I have the apple and on, you know, and I look I make a spread.
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Luna
I have a smorgasbord, I have a great size table. And why would I have to pick between a few things when I can have an indoor picnic as often as I like? Right. Me so this is the creative version of that. What? What is it? 52 Daily Explorations of Love, work and Making Love from G to x x.
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Luna
Play along as you please. I will be doing mornings of solo screen for you will see creation, low screen creation. I'm like oh shit, if I'm writing and I really going to do that all by hand, maybe not. I will probably wiggle on camera. Okay, I might wake up and masturbate every day. I'm leaving room for possibility. I might say hello when I go on a walk to encourage other people to go on a walk.
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Luna
We'll see an afternoon with a co-creator live streamed, so that's going to be live stream on. Only fans will get into the details. There's going to be a voyeur cam. If I don't have a in person co-creator, I might.
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Luna
Have a clone co-creator. We'll see. To see.
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Luna
And then in the evening, with the internet catching up with long distance muses. So the IRL pro Co-creation daily 1 to 4 p.m.. I like having a daily schedule that could shift if people need it too. I am not super militant about timing, but I really love getting into a rhythm and the idea of like creating a.
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Luna
Rhythm during tourist.
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Luna
Season for work and pleasure and art and beauty is, in my opinion, perfect. I'm biased. So in real life pro co-creation, so me and another adult creator, another person who is comfy. Oh my god, I really hope there are people that will just let me do the sex trick. You know where I'm like, what physical sensations do you like for like the last three years I've been like, but what if I just found people who would just let me explore their whole body?
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Luna
You know, I have been too shy to ask people. I thought it was too nerdy of an idea for a long time to ask professionals and I did ask some nonprofessionals when they were like, no.
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Luna
I was like, good point.
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Luna
So follow along. Live on OnlyFans only fans.com/wiley if you want to see what we are creating on the voyeur cam. So that's going to be a sound off. Mostly we might come say hi now and then, but it's going to be sound off. You can see what I'm doing in studio. You can see what I'm working on. You can see if I'm with someone.
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Luna
You can see if I'm being a clone on OnlyFans. I don't have to worry if my boobies are showing, so I might even change in front of you. I can carry you around on my iPad every day. I will have to make sure that I keep everything plugged in in the right places. So first there'll be a podcast we're going to explore.
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Luna
Love. That'll be the G-rated one. Then we'll talk about work. Since I have a work kink. And also, so does our country capitalism. Is capitalism a work kink? We'll see. I don't know, because I'll be working with professionals that'll be, sex work related. And those will be definitely public episodes. And depending on what unfolds, with all the stuff that's happening in the background on the podcast, I give a lot of details on my work.
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Luna
Update on Patreon this week. If you want to go check it out, we may be moving all the spiciest stuff to exclusive channels or other places that are, like more friendly towards sex then I guess Spotify. Then we're going to do a photoshoot. It's going to be a three part thing. First, I'm inviting each person to embody a playing card for the deck that I am designing.
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Luna
I have a little.
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Luna
Oh, click.
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Luna
To a Pinterest with some inspiration there, so I get to capture them on camera. In my perfect world, they do a striptease if you please get as naked as you want. Originally I was like, Maybe I'll invite say for work creators, maybe I will. Maybe I'll let them fill in the gaps. But I'm really excited to let it be sexy and naked, so I'm inviting them to strip outfit per their pleasure.
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Luna
I'll let a tripod take over then. Will we do duo stills together for promotional purposes? And just because, like, I love taking pictures with my girlfriends, I. Yeah, I haven't done anything super slutty, but like, I set up my tripod and that is the majority. Except for the pictures that I took with Kabeer last year. All of my photography is self-shot, right?
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Luna
All the pictures that you see of me, well, I just.
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Luna
Haven't posted anywhere except OnlyFans lately. Well.
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Luna
On Twitter or X there will be more and we will see. I'll post the tamest ones, maybe on Instagram. We'll see. Then after we do the photoshoot. So easy, easy. Our podcast. I'm I'm aiming for three 20 minute bite sized segments. Right. So part three is can I explore you on camera? Maybe we take turns, maybe we cross off a bucket list item or do some parallel play, or we hold the cameras for each other or whatever.
00:15:39:20 - 00:15:58:11
Luna
I hold the cameras for you. Like, this is where I'm down to get creative with my partner. I guess only fans. We can't beat me too much, but we might do a sensation play and see where that goes. So we will let the cameras roll for our negotiation conversation. Also known in porn as a consent to conversation.
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Luna
Although I was just talking to one of my friends about this who hates that. And for me, I'm really passionate about creating examples like the seed of all of this. The reason I want to do this is for me. I wish that growing up I had had more examples of like, okay, but how exactly do you and a partner have a conversation about what you want to do today?
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Luna
Right. Because that that doesn't happen very often in my book, unless I'm in a very kink specific heavy place with someone who is experienced and has been through a lot of negotiations. Right. I found myself leading and teaching more negotiations and struggling with that in my adult life. And so I want to shift that. I want to practice that, and then I want to play.
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Luna
And then I want into a recap.
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Luna
And I want to hear.
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Luna
What you loved, what you would.
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Luna
Definitely do again.
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Luna
And if we were going to.
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Luna
Turn it into a scripted porno with story written in, I want to fantasize about that. My favorite stuff. I have a sign up button for the professionals. Then I will do food and resting from for fun. You know, I know there will be buffer time. This is my buffer zone, so 4 to 6 ish. I'm eating food. I'm having snacks, I'm refueling on Wednesdays.
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Luna
I'm like, on Wiggle Wednesdays. Will I go get some noodles and do a live stream called I'm just noodling because that's that's also I'm like.
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Luna
Should I just scrap all of it stories.
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Luna
And just so many people have told me that they find the phrase noodling the way that I use it helpful. I didn't coined this term. I don't think I think a lot of people have used the word noodle to think, I don't know if anyone else says noodling, like as in, I am just noodling. That might be something you can tell me.
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Luna
I did get it from. I think it's a show with otters. It was on cable. I never had cable, but I knew some friends who had, like, they taught me the noodle dance.
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Luna
Doodle. Use your noodle noodle, do the.
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Luna
Noodle dance. So I actually, I think it was otters. I don't know what show that was. I should google it, but that is where it came from in my mind. And I really did develop the term because I got tired of people imploding, exploding, whatever when I was just asking curious brainstorm questions. So that's what it means for me.
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Luna
It's to really let the other person know that. I'm just curiously wondering aloud, there is no judgment here. This is an open, honest conversation, and I feel that that is a skill that most people in America. I do think my European friends are much better at this, depending on which country you're in, right? I would say my American friends in general are not as comfy noodling unless they feel a large amount of trust.
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Luna
And I wonder, especially in this extremely difficult, complicated time of nuance that we all live in. It could it could maybe help us talk and listen to each other. I don't know, I'm I'm not here to change the world. I'm just here to help us spread ripples of love. We can only change the world together. Right. So, food and resting, 4 to 6.
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Luna
Maybe on Wednesday, I'll get some noodles and slurp them live so that we, you know, practice slurping noodles instead of biting each other's heads off. I'd love to noodle out loud about sexy stuff Monday through Friday in the evenings. If I have energy, because that is the key to this whole thing, right? 52 days of play cannot happen unless I am well resourced and fun.
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Luna
I understand it is abnormal to want to do anything 52 days in a row. I also have begun to understand that I love intensity and I love doing the same thing over and over and over again. If I really like it right, I also know about myself that I love to create schedules and then destroy them and create them all over again.
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Luna
So there is a world in which maybe these things shift and I will announce it. But Monday through Friday, I am obsessed with the idea of at 6 p.m. hosting a Patreon co-working co-working session. So if you need an admin buddy, if you want to catch up on messages, if you've been like wanting to set aside some time for writing or whatever creative project you're working on, or maybe you just want to paint while we're all working, the plan is to have a zoom link for patrons where we come together.
00:20:06:10 - 00:20:24:00
Luna
Not like that. If you do, please camera off. If you're like making content in the background. I like to call it co-working and homeworking because when I'm doing like online, you know, when I'm scheduling only fans posts, when I'm doing all of that stuff and kind of going through content, going through my naked pictures, I will like to I've invited friends.
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Luna
I've tested this out to have them just like on zoom or on FaceTime, and we're muted unless we need on with, unless we have block, unless we have a question. So I'm imagining having a zoom. I'll be muted. I'll probably have my camera on unless unless I need to have it off. But we can talk in the chat, you know, so if people want to chat while they're doing that.
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Luna
But it'll be silent up until 6:50 p.m. so we can focus. I'm using that time to catch up on email, on OnlyFans. Messages on felt like whatever I'm doing during that time and for the last ten minutes, we're going to share our wins, and I will probably wiggle throughout this and invite people to wiggle, because I think and also my incredible, incredible trainer slash social coach, Jerry Wolf, his information let me know if you need it.
00:21:08:03 - 00:21:17:06
Luna
He's fucking brilliant. It really does prime the body to be ready for new patterns, and it helps fucking calm the nervous system down. I did not know.
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Luna
What I stumbled into with wiggling five.
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Luna
Years ago. Five years ago today.
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Luna
I started wiggling every day. I don't do it live. I'm going to bring some of it back, but it.
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Luna
Is still a part of my daily practice. Along with I meditate twice a day. This is not to brag.
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Luna
This is just to let you know that I'm a very regimented person, so I know people see me as a free spirit, but.
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Luna
When they want to try to just, like, hit me up to play for fun, I'm like, sorry. I'm busy being.
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Luna
Regimented and working and doing my art slash work.
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Luna
So I love the idea of being in community, working together. Maybe you're working on your artistic creation. Maybe you have been struggling to market something. Maybe you want to boundary your time on social media and you want to limit, I don't know, I don't spend that much time on social media, but maybe that for you would be a limit.
00:21:57:00 - 00:22:29:04
Luna
And then at 6:50 p.m. Pacific, we get together and we share a win for the day, for the week, whenever you're showing up to share your wins, we'll just say like up to three things each go around with. I also like I like sharing a couple of wins and wish we can do it however we want. Then I'm going to switch over to an interactive live on only fans, and I think that's where I'm going to just open my toy cupboard, because it's now the right side of my wardrobe is dedicated to sexy stuff, and I'm going to see what's in there that hasn't been played with lately.
00:22:29:06 - 00:22:45:05
Luna
I am open to people sending me toys. I am reaching out to brands for sponsorships to see if they want to send anything in for me to play with during this time. And I again, this is stuff that I'm like, oh, if I wanted to do this, I should have been planning it in January. But I didn't come up with the idea till February, and then I didn't decide to do it till the end of March.
00:22:45:05 - 00:23:07:16
Luna
So here we are in divine timing unfolding. So on OnlyFans, where will you lead me tonight? Sound is now on. You have my full attention. Join me live on OnlyFans at Wiley. We'll chat, we'll play. We'll explore the theme of the evening. I'm not sure yet how I'm going to like. I think I might go live on the iPad, but record on my computer so I can have the higher quality recording on OnlyFans.
00:23:07:18 - 00:23:28:10
Luna
Unless I'm dumb. I know I'm not dumb on OnlyFans so far, I have not been able to figure out if I can download something that I have recorded on the platform itself, which I'm like, fuck you on the dance! So I will probably be recording separately and figuring all of that out, which means you get multiple angles.
00:23:28:12 - 00:23:44:11
Luna
And at £0.08 pm I'm going to switch to one on one time. So I'm going to be on on Sexy Panther for solo days. If I am alone and or being one of my clone sisters who is exploring the hierarchy here with me and Dante, the.
00:23:44:11 - 00:23:46:00
Luna
Main character of mission 69, which.
00:23:46:00 - 00:24:03:08
Luna
Someday will get written, they each have a different job in the hierarchy that they're noodling on. If I'm fully focused on a research episode, I will probably still have the voyeur camera on. But I may have sex Panther off, but I am dying to get.
00:24:03:10 - 00:24:05:03
Luna
More slutty one on.
00:24:05:03 - 00:24:30:02
Luna
One calls. I don't like voice memos and text stuff as much on Sex Panther. I love the live call component. Video is cool. I like a live video on OnlyFans. I also learned that you can create a private livestream, so if you don't want to do another platform, or if you want to just kind of like do a different, like you want to negotiate, like 15 minutes of my undivided attention for a call on OnlyFans.
00:24:30:02 - 00:24:48:16
Luna
We could do that, but I'm going to have sex. Panther on starting at 8 p.m. Pacific Monday through Friday. And then there's a why I kind of went over that in last month's episode. More details about me, places to sign up, and then lots of specific details. I have the questions that I'm going to be asking for the Love Stories segment, for the work Story segment, and for the Sex Stories segment.
00:24:48:16 - 00:25:08:21
Luna
I am condensing it for this because it's again the sampler platter. And then details about the photoshoot, some details about the actual place Proration collaboration and the negotiation and the sensation play in the recap. And this is where you can find the link to my bucket list. It is also in the menu on wildly.com. You do have to click it.
00:25:08:21 - 00:25:30:08
Luna
I know people can't always tell there's menus on, so I will read to you the 69 things that are. It's not that I've never done them, it's I have not captured everything on camera. Oh I haven't checked off the solo ones. Some of these are partnered, only some of them I can do any sort of ways and there are so many dimensions to organizing this.
00:25:30:08 - 00:25:44:19
Luna
So when you click the bucket list link it just goes to a Google sheet for now. Because basically for the last year I've been like, I don't know how to share this. I tried to put a chart on my website. It wasn't loading on more, but like it was a very it's a very. For me, it feels like an extremely complicated way to accurately share it.
00:25:44:21 - 00:26:05:00
Luna
But I do have an idea that I'll be experimenting with. I'm. I think I could make a bucket list blog. So the idea is, well, we'll see. We'll we'll get there. I'll update you next month. So my on camera Andrew Roddick curiosity list. These are things I want to capture and record on camera for myself, with myself I love documenting.
00:26:05:02 - 00:26:15:03
Luna
I have had truly the great pleasure of documenting so many hot things, so many hot people. I want to, I want, I want to turn.
00:26:15:05 - 00:26:16:07
Luna
I want to do it.
00:26:16:09 - 00:26:36:18
Luna
So I would like to make out on camera. I want some parallel play. I want mutual masturbation. I have done some solo manual. I want to do it with a partner. I have done some squirting. I have done that with a Venus collaborator. I heard that only fans now doesn't allow squirting. That just entered my ears a couple days ago, so I don't have to research that.
00:26:36:18 - 00:26:57:02
Luna
Tell me if you already know I want to do titty fucking on camera. I haven't done that. My boobies are so wiggly I have to squish them together. I would like to do a foot job on camera. I have done oral on camera with a penis owner. I want to have the sex. I love the sex. I love multiple kinds of sex.
00:26:57:04 - 00:27:14:15
Luna
I want more pussy sex I want yeah, I guess I fuck myself. That counts. I want to have some scissoring. I do want to have scissoring. Roleplay wise, I want to do some MILFs and some dilf. I want to have a yoga teacher. Could be any kind of teacher, but yoga teacher and.
00:27:14:15 - 00:27:19:20
Luna
Yoga after chorus episode, I'm like, I want to have a Uma teacher fantasy.
00:27:19:22 - 00:27:38:15
Luna
I want to have a professor student fantasy. I would love to have a massage therapist and a client. I've been the massage therapist, never on camera, but I would like to be the client. I want to be the ones. Like yeah, just like that. I want to have an artist and a patron relationship that turns me on in a great way.
00:27:38:17 - 00:27:46:19
Luna
I want to have dollar vacation I or bimbo ification like I'm into any. Like I do not care that much about clothes.
00:27:46:21 - 00:27:51:06
Luna
But I love when my girlfriends put me in an outfit.
00:27:51:06 - 00:28:08:18
Luna
I think this harkens back to childhood. Like we did play dress up a lot, but because I've never felt like clothes were my skill, you know, I pretty much have a tank top, leggings or shorts, formula jeans if I'm on set. Depending on the type of set, I will wear leggings. If I'm just doing like photo and video content, especially if I'm going to get in different angles.
00:28:08:18 - 00:28:19:08
Luna
But if I'm on like a real film production set, then, then I'm in jeans, dollar, vacation, bimbos, vacation, etc. I want to be a horny housewife. I also would like.
00:28:19:08 - 00:28:21:13
Luna
To fuck a horny housewife.
00:28:21:15 - 00:28:36:00
Luna
I want to have a boss and secretary situation. But see, now as I'm reading this, I'm like, shit, I want to be excited. How do I represent that here? But you know what? I have it written so that I can have a solo one. I don't know how I do boss and Secretary solo unless unless my.
00:28:36:00 - 00:28:37:11
Luna
Clones did it.
00:28:37:13 - 00:29:14:01
Luna
That seems like a lot of work. Probably not during this one, but maybe we'll see. Doctor, nurse, anything in a uniform military delivery? I mean, yeah, I'm. I feel like people in uniforms are just very hot. Is there an ugly uniform? Because even if it's like a baggy jumpsuit, I'm like, I want to get in there. Any fairy tale fantasy, sci fi specifically I like I'm like really curious about Pygmalion isms, her statue, stuff like, like, I did get to do an exploration with a friend where I was a statue and he had to fuck me to life.
00:29:14:07 - 00:29:16:19
Luna
I would love to do that with like, a robot, especially if someone.
00:29:16:19 - 00:29:18:08
Luna
Had to push my buttons.
00:29:18:10 - 00:29:34:09
Luna
And I would like to be an alien, you know? But I also would be very down for pirate like drag. I got to be a baby dragon. Oh my God, yeah, I got to be a dragon. I got to be a dragon. Have my tail. Did you guys do dragons get fucked or am I a dragon in a strap on?
00:29:34:09 - 00:29:36:13
Luna
We'll see. Maybe all of the above.
00:29:36:15 - 00:30:04:12
Luna
Toys and accessories. I made a category. So look, these are all broad categories. And you'll see in my detailed list right now there are a lot of redundancies and kind of like overlap. And I'm I'm like, should I put should I should I put all the different types of toys. Also like if I get into the subcategories of toys then, then there's like brands within subcategories and like how do I decide and like brands, I'm not really trying to give them free advertising, but I am trying to get toys without spending a bajillion dollars until, you know, all those things run through my head.
00:30:04:12 - 00:30:10:05
Luna
So doing my best to just simplify top down toys and accessories.
00:30:10:06 - 00:30:12:08
Luna
Oh, I want to do sexy stuff with.
00:30:12:08 - 00:30:31:04
Luna
Pantyhose and lingerie. I want to play with dildos. I've been doing that. Did definitely. And see, that's where I'm like, well, I did the class, although I've done my regular dildos. I will add the sub categories as they get crossed off. I think at some point or part of the bucket list writings during this time might include what I have accomplished already and what I still have yet to accomplish.
00:30:31:04 - 00:30:41:07
Luna
And I think there will be an overview on the bucket list blog, details of fantasies written on FET life, or at least a tease and then I think I will eventually read.
00:30:41:07 - 00:30:42:03
Luna
Those.
00:30:42:05 - 00:31:05:14
Luna
Details for Patreon and maybe also share that stuff on OnlyFans. I'm trying to figure out what goes where in which audiences want what. I've learned that a lot of my OnlyFans people are very fucking smart, thoughtful, curious, and just down to share. And also, I didn't respond properly, I think, to the ones that were looking for more like smash and grab you, like, here, let me just send you some slutty, slutty pictures.
00:31:05:14 - 00:31:11:09
Luna
I didn't understand what was happening at first, so now I'm prepared for all forms. But again, I respond really well to.
00:31:11:09 - 00:31:12:08
Luna
Irresistible, clear.
00:31:12:08 - 00:31:36:16
Luna
Invitations. Vibrators are a given. There's so many subtitled pumps. I fucking love stroker. I've never gotten to use a stroker on a partner, but when I was at Amina in January, Tanga gave me a tanga egg. So I have one to use. I just need a penis to use it on. I have gotten to use a strap on with a girl friend that that was very hot, but I have not done it on camera so I actually have to uncheck that box.
00:31:36:18 - 00:31:39:16
Luna
I have used a butt toy on camera.
00:31:39:18 - 00:31:43:17
Luna
And it was inflatable. Also other things I.
00:31:43:17 - 00:31:58:16
Luna
Would like to do more of that. I would like to do that with partners. I would like to be wearing a butt plug and getting fucked. That would be very hot. They're flicking toys. I've actually never used a flicking toy. I saw some very interesting ones at Vibe Expo. I've never played with a glory hole of either kind.
00:31:58:16 - 00:32:14:03
Luna
Right. Like there's one built for pussies. This one's built for cock. Oh my God, I don't know if I will make a glory hole this round for this one, but like me, maybe it is possible. I also definitely am going to use my fuck machine. I plugged it in. I turned it on. I've been practicing with the dildos.
00:32:14:03 - 00:32:29:11
Luna
I have not yet fucked myself with it. I am going to save that. Maybe for my birthday. We'll see. We'll see. The goddess is joining me on my birthday, so maybe we'll do that. Maybe we'll see what we're going to see. We're going to see where our feelings lead us. That is the whole point, right? We can predetermine stuff if that is fun and yummy to us.
00:32:29:16 - 00:32:45:15
Luna
But the whole point is like, what do you feel like doing right now? Because that hopefully is how we are having sex, right? I have heard from a couple of kinky people that sometimes we had this whole negotiation, we had a plan and I was in it. I didn't want to say no, no, no, no, no, that's not what we're doing here.
00:32:45:15 - 00:32:51:10
Luna
That's not what I want anyone to be doing. That's not what I do. I am very much. And the person is like, yeah, baby. Ooh, that's so good.
00:32:51:10 - 00:32:53:13
Luna
Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait whoa whoa oh whoa whoa.
00:32:53:13 - 00:32:56:14
Luna
Hold on. I got to readjust my arm,
00:32:56:16 - 00:32:58:10
Luna
And you know what?
00:32:58:12 - 00:33:14:12
Luna
Yes, it breaks the flow for a moment. It's not hard to get back into. I've never had a partner be remotely phased. Like one time. I like, couldn't articulate because I was, like, in a slightly non-verbal. I was getting spanked a lot and I was like.
00:33:14:13 - 00:33:14:23
Luna
And I was just.
00:33:14:23 - 00:33:27:02
Luna
Making all these, like, mad noises and I kind of like, got up and pause and I was like. And my partner with so calm and this just sticks in my brain. He sort of just sat back and looked at me and said, what do you.
00:33:27:02 - 00:33:30:23
Luna
Need? And it was so hot and.
00:33:30:23 - 00:33:52:15
Luna
Supportive and just like, why would we accept anything else? Right? Like that reminds me of the first night with my former master, even though everything else that came after is a little questionable. But that first night when he's like, well, what if you didn't have to be embarrassed in front of me? What do you need? So I've been able to ask myself that question what do you need?
00:33:52:17 - 00:34:07:12
Luna
And that's the whole point of these 52 days. What do you need? What is fun today? What? What do you need to play? How do you want to play today? Glory holes. Fuck machine VR. I don't know if that'll happen in this one, but I do have a friend who designed the VR games and I am due for a catch up.
00:34:07:14 - 00:34:19:14
Luna
Sensation play. I want to play with full body restraints. I am full hood curious. I definitely want to play with my hot wax. I always loved playing with ice cubes.
00:34:19:14 - 00:34:22:11
Luna
Did I do that solo?
00:34:22:13 - 00:34:32:16
Luna
I don't know, I know I put my butt plug in the freezer when I was playing solo. That is not technically an ice cube. I want to do faking on camera. That's the ginger thing.
00:34:32:16 - 00:34:36:19
Luna
Oh, I've done it before. Ooh, I like it. I mean, it's weird, it's a lot, but.
00:34:36:20 - 00:34:53:18
Luna
Oh, damn, I definitely need to do electric play. I am food play. Curious. I've never done any food play. I it's so funny because recently I was listening to something that was like, you think you're so special, you you all of the same moves. You bring out the whipped cream and the chocolate sirup. And I was like.
00:34:53:20 - 00:34:55:14
Luna
Is that the move? Are those the moves?
00:34:55:17 - 00:35:14:06
Luna
Like, I don't I would like to hear from you. It's like putting whipped cream, honey or chocolate sauce on a body. Is that like a go to like or spicing it up move like I don't know, I've only talked to a couple of people who are into food play. I'm not going to do splashing in my house. If someone wants to splash, they can provide the location and the kiddy pool and do the cleanup.
00:35:14:08 - 00:35:33:13
Luna
Mushy textures aren't my favorite, so I would really have to like the person to get into that. But I can also see a world in which it's very fun. I also need to keep frosting away from my pussy. I don't want to use infection, you know? So sensation play furry and fuzzy and fingernails. So this is I love brushing stuff up and down people's bodies.
00:35:33:19 - 00:35:51:15
Luna
I give the best post-sex back scratches like that's one of my go to forms of aftercare. Or it can be gentle, soft. I call them tickles in my family, where I'm just running my fingertips and nails up and down the skin lightly. Some people love this. Some people hate this. You know, some people only like, firm touches and squeezes.
00:35:51:20 - 00:36:10:19
Luna
Everyone is different. I discovered, sport sheets. Showed me all I need to write them. Like, please send me this. They have these gloves that are furry and also have little spikes in them so they can be nice or mean depending on how you're using them. I want to play with all textures and I here's what's hilarious. Remember how I put feather on my bucket list in January?
00:36:10:19 - 00:36:12:14
Luna
I didn't do it. I just.
00:36:12:14 - 00:36:14:00
Luna
A few days ago I was.
00:36:14:00 - 00:36:34:02
Luna
Looking at my like, I guess alter like my red, my red thing that has a typewriter and all my like, incenses and candles and just it's like we're in my grandparents ashes. It has a fuck ton of feathers I collected from an ostrich farm when I was a child. And so maybe those ones will fall apart and some peacock feathers that someone else gave me recently.
00:36:34:02 - 00:36:52:22
Luna
And I'm like, I thought I had to go out and buy feathers. They're right here. All along I forgot I still haven't put them on me. Maybe I'll do it right now. No, I'm going to stay fit. Well, okay, I did get my feathers and it feels auspicious because I forgot that these were given to me on my birthday, I think five years ago.
00:36:52:22 - 00:37:09:14
Luna
I think this is the 30th birthday present. I'm pretty sure that I lied about the ostrich feather because I don't think they last that long. It could not be the same one from elementary school, I think. I think those fell apart when I went to move them. So I'm doing one little, one little piece of feather that came off from the ostrich feather.
00:37:09:16 - 00:37:21:00
Luna
The note here says this is a rebirth. You are renewed, spelled in udy. Happy joyous birthday. And that's from my friend Val. Thank you. Val.
00:37:21:00 - 00:37:23:09
Luna
Val is very good at giving presents.
00:37:23:11 - 00:37:30:17
Luna
The other present Val gave me was, snake skin shed from her snake formed into a circle with.
00:37:30:19 - 00:37:31:13
Luna
Like, one.
00:37:31:13 - 00:37:32:14
Luna
Of my favorite quotes.
00:37:32:14 - 00:37:33:19
Luna
But our share.
00:37:33:21 - 00:37:39:03
Luna
From the moon is a Harsh Mistress, which is where while the name I from,
00:37:39:05 - 00:37:45:14
Luna
Oh, feathers feels so good. Oh, okay.
00:37:45:16 - 00:38:07:13
Luna
I highly recommend Feather Sensations. Personally, I'd love to have someone give me feather sensation. I'd love to give someone else feather sensations. Peacock feathers also feel special, so. Oh, that's so soft and nice. But I want to have them on my naked parts too. I would like to have nipple feathers, you know. So how do I write that in the bucket list?
00:38:07:13 - 00:38:16:15
Luna
I don't know, how do I write? Yes, I've done this, but I haven't done this particular variation or I want to try this next. I don't know, it's gonna have to be long form. I'm not really a short form person.
00:38:16:17 - 00:38:20:19
Luna
Unfortunately for this world that we live in,
00:38:20:21 - 00:38:26:19
Luna
I want to play with plastic wrap. Mummification. Oh, I got to see the hardest scene of my friends doing.
00:38:26:19 - 00:38:28:01
Luna
That to hot.
00:38:28:06 - 00:38:48:00
Luna
Lady friends. Plastic wrap and playing with each other was so fucking hot. I would like to do some extended edging, giving and receiving. I am here for blindfolded sex, but I haven't done that in a fucking minute. I would love to have it on camera. I think that is separate from the hood. Full hood is different from just a blindfold I guess.
00:38:48:00 - 00:39:06:15
Luna
I also imagine that I'm blindfolding the other person, but I would also like to receive a blindfold. I also like variation with like face mask. I have these like created, you know, leather masks. I have the like airplane ones. There's something sexy about like, oh, the airline gave this to me when I needed fucking and then I want the classic necktie, you know, I don't know the neck.
00:39:06:15 - 00:39:27:11
Luna
Thanks in part to me. I no longer have any neckties. I used to have one from back when I was a 20 year old server at the nice restaurant on campus at USC, the university club, where I accidentally spilled a Diet Coke over all on a very important person. He was very nice. So the next category we're up to, number 46 is sensual nurturing.
00:39:27:11 - 00:39:39:05
Luna
So we pulled you guys in the last bucket list episode to be like, what do you want to see wild get into. And this had by far the most votes. So and it's so funny because I was like.
00:39:39:07 - 00:39:40:21
Luna
What, Kimberly, what do you what.
00:39:40:21 - 00:39:43:23
Luna
Do you mean? I'm a sensual nurturer. And Kimberly was like,
00:39:44:00 - 00:39:47:12
Luna
What? What do you mean you love nurturing? And I was like.
00:39:47:14 - 00:39:54:15
Luna
Oh, yeah, I am, but I guess to me I'm like, everyone wants to see me in Talkspace everyone wants me to be in charge.
00:39:54:15 - 00:39:56:00
Luna
And I'm finally.
00:39:56:00 - 00:40:06:11
Luna
Surrendering to that. I'm like, all right, I'll be in charge. I'll be in charge until I meet someone who is clearly more in charge than me. And then I'll chill. So I want to do dirty praise. I love.
00:40:06:11 - 00:40:08:03
Luna
Telling people how good they are.
00:40:08:03 - 00:40:18:03
Luna
And I'm open to receiving it. I want full body sensory exploration in every way, right? That's where I want to combine all the different things, but I this is what I really.
00:40:18:03 - 00:40:20:02
Luna
Want to do.
00:40:20:04 - 00:40:50:06
Luna
For 52 days of play. I really want. And I'm like, oh, 20 minutes isn't enough. Maybe we'll maybe we'll extend the play part and everybody is different. Right? And I also notice that when I'm with different people, I may get nervous in different ways and rush, but if I have someone where I'm allowed to take my time and fully drop in to experimenting everything, especially if I'm allowed to use words not allowed, but especially if I am with a partner who is comfortable communicating.
00:40:50:06 - 00:40:55:18
Luna
Some people do get overstimulated, right? And so I have been feeling into gentle ways to be like.
00:40:55:20 - 00:40:57:03
Luna
How does this feel?
00:40:57:05 - 00:41:22:00
Luna
Do you like this, this thing or that thing? Can I go down here now? What if I touch this part of you, you know? And so to have that open communication in an ongoing way, I'm like, why isn't that the main part of sex ed like past the health and safety biology part? Like, I want to make the sex ed lesson over and over and over again, where I get to explore a person head to toe and back again.
00:41:22:04 - 00:41:45:11
Luna
You know, that's that's really what I want to do. Maybe sex stories, X stories as we know it will be completely abandoned and or just moved to Pornhub. I don't know, it's a problematic platform, but apparently they have monetization. I can do YouTube, but with less censorship, obviously, so I don't know. Apparently I'm very sexy and very nerdy, full body sensual massage.
00:41:45:14 - 00:41:47:00
Luna
Oh, I've been talking to some.
00:41:47:00 - 00:41:48:06
Luna
Practitioners and I am.
00:41:48:06 - 00:41:49:10
Luna
Inspired.
00:41:49:12 - 00:41:55:06
Luna
Full body kisses and touches. I want to just be, you know, this is that that could also both.
00:41:55:06 - 00:41:56:15
Luna
Of those things could be folded.
00:41:56:15 - 00:42:01:07
Luna
Into full body sensory exploration. But I see it as separate.
00:42:01:09 - 00:42:03:00
Luna
What? Oh.
00:42:03:02 - 00:42:08:12
Luna
An anonymous wombat is looking at my bucket list with me right now, I am shy.
00:42:08:14 - 00:42:09:18
Luna
Whoa. Oh my.
00:42:09:18 - 00:42:20:00
Luna
Gosh. Okay, well why does Google call it Anonymous Wombat or did they pick that name? That is very funny. Okay, okay, I am having a hilarious, shy response.
00:42:20:00 - 00:42:22:22
Luna
Even though I put it publicly on the internet. Okay.
00:42:23:00 - 00:42:36:13
Luna
Full body kisses and touches I want even for full body sensory exploration on some. Unless someone was like yes, I want to be kissed everywhere. One time recently I was with a lover and I felt inspired, like I just wanted.
00:42:36:13 - 00:42:41:10
Luna
To kiss their whole leg and I was doing it.
00:42:41:10 - 00:42:42:23
Luna
And then I got self-conscious.
00:42:42:23 - 00:42:44:16
Luna
I was like, what if they're bored by me kissing.
00:42:44:16 - 00:42:57:10
Luna
Their whole leg? And then I could feel myself speeding up and switching to the other leg, because I always want to feel balanced and I want them to feel balanced. I love, I love to have balanced both sides. If I'm receiving, definitely if I'm giving it.
00:42:57:10 - 00:42:59:09
Luna
Also, it's very satisfying to be able to do both.
00:42:59:11 - 00:43:18:08
Luna
So I want to kiss a full body up and down and maybe only that, right? Like maybe only kissing and touching. I have to be able to touch so I can grab them and move on. I want to give and or receive hair washing and worship, especially with a goddess. And I'm like, oh, somebody please rent us a nice Airbnb so I can take a goddess.
00:43:18:08 - 00:43:33:20
Luna
I have a great bathtub, don't get me wrong. And everything is getting cleaned and great. You know, it's a great it's a great artist loft. It's a great studio. However, I've been living here for over a decade and I am a novelty person, so I'm like, how do I get this place? How do I get a van at least?
00:43:33:20 - 00:43:44:14
Luna
How do I go around the country where could I just stay on people's couches? Ooh, I could masturbate on every couch, stop with new ideas. But also, that's a great idea. So I.
00:43:44:16 - 00:43:47:11
Luna
I really want to worship worship some goddesses.
00:43:47:11 - 00:44:04:08
Luna
I want to wash their hair. I want to just, like, anoint them with oils. I did this to myself on OnlyFans. I don't think it's been shared yet. Or has it been? No. Maybe it was. I can't remember, can't remember timings of things. What is time I want to do foot worship. I want to receive foot worship. I want to get to know foot people.
00:44:04:08 - 00:44:22:12
Luna
I'm so curious, I am, I have been invited. Well, I have applied to do a fortnight in Los Angeles at the end of May, so we'll see if I end up doing that. I want to do leg worship. To me, that feels separate from foot worship. Maybe I'll combine them. If you have ideas for something else that needs to be like a main category of sensual nurturing, do let me know.
00:44:22:14 - 00:44:33:13
Luna
I want to do breast and nipple worship, cunt and cock worship for that that I have. Definitely. I've worshiped my own cunt on camera. I don't know if I would qualify. Breast and nipple.
00:44:33:13 - 00:44:34:15
Luna
Worship.
00:44:34:17 - 00:44:48:00
Luna
I've played with the pumps, but I'm like, definitely. For me personally, I don't know if it's possible to worship my own breasts and nipples simply because part of the worship for me is just.
00:44:48:05 - 00:44:54:01
Luna
Full receiving mode, right? Definitely. God do some anal worship.
00:44:54:01 - 00:45:14:16
Luna
And I also am really feeling curious. I love to be fed if someone I'm not a feed like I don't specifically have that kink. I've spoken to people who do and it's very, very intense. But like, I'm somewhere in between a love like you put of morsel food in my mouth. You feed me off of your fork. If we're out of date, like that's very hot to me.
00:45:14:16 - 00:45:44:05
Luna
And I love feeding other people bites of food, too. It's not necessarily an erotic turn on like anyone. Anyone I care about can feed me. And I like it without it being sexual and weird. Right. So. And then I finish with classics. I'm like, all right. I looked at porn websites, I was true, I in this research over the past couple years, I truly it's interesting in the conversations around porn, I think most people are not necessarily having the same conversation because I hear very few of the more they're defining what, like porn is not one thing.
00:45:44:07 - 00:45:46:19
Luna
It's a bajillion bajillion things.
00:45:46:19 - 00:45:50:12
Luna
And people use that term as a gigantic umbrella.
00:45:50:14 - 00:45:52:17
Luna
And,
00:45:52:19 - 00:45:57:02
Luna
There's a whole lot there. So what I want to do, I just call this classics for me.
00:45:57:05 - 00:45:58:18
Luna
I want to do.
00:45:58:20 - 00:46:19:20
Luna
An outdoor stuff. I know that I can't, some of that I can't put on OnlyFans unless there's location releases. I don't have outdoor locations here, so that's not going to happen on this one. Probably unless someone wants to, you know, hook us up with a nice fancy Airbnb so I can worship some goddesses. I would love to have a place where I could just invite.
00:46:19:22 - 00:46:29:20
Luna
I mean, in in my perfect world, brands are funding this, right? And I can invite 3 to 6 beautiful, beautiful performers, get them together, help them make lovely content, have some.
00:46:29:20 - 00:46:33:18
Luna
Delicious food, have some fun creating. That's what I like to do in person.
00:46:33:18 - 00:46:53:13
Luna
Joy. I definitely want to do that. I want to do some anal. Want to play with power exchange one double penetration. I still want my double penetration. Triple penetration. I would love to be air tight. Air tight. That phrase in particular really turns me on. I think it's also because like when I have like when I can actually Deep Throat and when I like can't breathe or something very relaxing to me about that.
00:46:53:13 - 00:47:02:11
Luna
Obviously I have to be with a partner where like if I need to come up, I come up. Usually I'm controlling the Deep Throat situation. I do have one partner who I have a lot of trust.
00:47:02:11 - 00:47:03:12
Luna
With who holds.
00:47:03:12 - 00:47:30:16
Luna
My head down, and that is very hot to me. I want to have a blow bang. I want to have a gangbang. I want to do all the different versions of threesomes. And in my perfect world, we hit all of our targets. So we hit 969 patrons and 969 only fan subscribers. And we have a very exciting party here in Los Angeles.
00:47:30:18 - 00:47:44:12
Luna
I think. I think the first part would have to be like the safe for work gallery part. I have to figure out logistics here a lot, and I don't know if we're going to have the bandwidth to do this. That's up to you if you want to. If you want to have a party happen, you can help me make it happen.
00:47:44:18 - 00:47:58:21
Luna
Also, if you're good at planning events and getting sponsors, please do reach out. If you're down to kind of go along for this ride, because I get so many questions about when when I'm going to have my afternoon delight play all day parties. And it's like, well, the answer is when I have a space where.
00:47:58:21 - 00:47:59:02
Luna
I can.
00:47:59:02 - 00:48:18:07
Luna
Consistently do that right and I do not yet have. I've been using all of my bandwidth for this podcast, so unless I switch, that's that's where we're at. But I would love to make Friday night the 21st the safe for work. Anyone can come. You don't have to be naked. You don't have to be sexy. I want to sell some art.
00:48:18:07 - 00:48:34:06
Luna
I want to do a fundraiser, I want to I don't have too many other ideas, but, that Friday night would be sort of like family. Family friendly ish. And then there would be, like, a naked artistic part that includes paint. And then Saturday would be the play all day. You arrive for brunch.
00:48:34:12 - 00:48:34:22
Luna
Doors.
00:48:34:22 - 00:48:53:14
Luna
Close at 11 from 11 to noon. There's the kind of like full introduction. We meet each other as people and then there's some play, and I have an idea of how I would structure it. I don't I don't have all the dungeon equipment, so that might be too big for this round, but you don't need dungeon equipment.
00:48:53:14 - 00:48:57:00
Luna
If it's just a true orgy, just a true orgy.
00:48:57:02 - 00:49:05:18
Luna
So yeah, those are my 69 items that are there right now. And, I'm excited. I know I want a lot of things.
00:49:05:20 - 00:49:07:16
Luna
And I'm really excited about my fucking machine.
00:49:07:16 - 00:49:26:08
Luna
I know I'm going to keep changing my mind, but I have flexibility built into this structure. And I think especially if the theme is communication, if the theme is connection, and if the theme is sex, it must be flexible, it must change on the fly. I am, to be very clear, not talking about negotiating up in a scene.
00:49:26:10 - 00:49:50:05
Luna
I am talking about, if anything, negotiating down. If something is too much. I do not power through. My best skill is looking at something and being like I was not on point. There is something needs to change. If someone helps me understand if I'm wrong, like I'm pretty fucking self-righteous until someone helps me understand. If I'm wrong, then I'm an easy apology and then I do whatever repair I need to do to make it right.
00:49:50:05 - 00:50:13:03
Luna
Right. I know that we live in a society where we don't have that model. We live in cancel culture right now. We live in a lot of fear, a lot of judgment, a lot of lack of nuance, conversation. So I'm creating nuance here. I don't know how to go, but I am extremely excited and if you would like to offer me a no cost birthday present, it would turn me on very, very much.
00:50:13:03 - 00:50:35:04
Luna
If you would rate this podcast on Spotify and Apple and leave us a thoughtful review on Apple Podcasts. Subscribe on YouTube. Share a voice memo with me via. While e-commerce share I have lots of questions there. Just answer one. I'm just curious to hear your answer. I can make you a little outline if you need. If that's if that's the only reason that you're not doing because you're like, I don't know how, let's do it in my head right now.
00:50:35:06 - 00:50:55:22
Luna
Introduce yourself. I have the introduction stuff, you know, in the stories, my outline, there's an introduction page. And then give us the answer to your question. You give us an overview concrete. Give us some details about like why that's your answer or what it is. Maybe variations. You know how I get variations and a wrap up thought or conclusion or a noodle moving forward, or what you're watching or what you're learning or whatever.
00:50:56:00 - 00:51:00:22
Luna
I love hearing what you guys have to say. I know a lot of you are shy, but it makes.
00:51:00:22 - 00:51:02:10
Luna
Me so happy.
00:51:02:10 - 00:51:30:13
Luna
To get them. And please also share this podcast with someone you think would benefit from hearing examples of personal sexy conversations. That has always been the goal of this podcast. That remains my personal goal. I'm always practicing improving my personal sexy conversations because that is what leads to the best collaboration, right? And if you would like to give me concrete production support, that is the equivalent of a latte in Los Angeles.
00:51:30:15 - 00:51:56:06
Luna
I would really fucking love it if you joined me on Patreon. We are experimenting with new formats that in theory will be bite sized pieces. That is not what it currently is, but what's out right now. We have a hot sex story and this month's work updates, and by the time this comes out, it should already be set up a brand new, completely ad free podcast feed on Patreon that will come out four days early.
00:51:56:11 - 00:52:17:10
Luna
So starting today, episodes now come out on Tuesdays. We are doing our best to woo the algorithm. You are always invited to help with that wooing in the form of ratings sharing and reviews. And if you want the original Friday release schedule, you can support the pod, get ad free episodes and access hundreds of hours of bonus content on Patreon.com, slash, Wiley.
00:52:17:12 - 00:52:39:16
Luna
And that's also where you'll get links to the virtual hill working co-working during the 50 days. Again, that's for anyone with a non-normative schedule for artists, for creatives, for sex workers, for anyone who wants to use this time for social media planning, for responses, for boundary the screen time, or for anyone who just wants to set aside 50 minutes to write or work on a project that they have been meaning to prioritize, right?
00:52:39:20 - 00:53:03:00
Luna
And then again, at 6:50 p.m., we're going to wrap anyone who is on can unmute, and we will share wins and celebrations and then go about our nights. For me, that will mean hopping on to the OnlyFans life. And again, I have been doing kind of like long deep dive updates. I am breaking it up into different categories, so there's going to be a work update slash fantasy, a sex story that I will probably write out.
00:53:03:02 - 00:53:07:07
Luna
This one, the one that's out right now that I just did, it's it's a it's like a 35 minute story, but.
00:53:07:07 - 00:53:08:19
Luna
It's,
00:53:08:21 - 00:53:14:20
Luna
Exquisite mouth sex. What does pleasure look like right now? I also talk about the double edged.
00:53:14:20 - 00:53:16:07
Luna
Sword of the.
00:53:16:07 - 00:53:18:22
Luna
Superpower of sublimating suboptimal.
00:53:18:22 - 00:53:22:17
Luna
Connections. Oh, I shouldn't call it suboptimal.
00:53:22:19 - 00:53:40:12
Luna
It's just hard when something is, like, very wonderful and also have difficulties. I don't know if you can relate. I'm sure every human being can. It's also not really how we're taught to think about stuff. Again, that tricky nuance. But again, My Noodle and Friends, which is a lot of you, are very nuanced. So and then there are work updates.
00:53:40:12 - 00:54:01:11
Luna
So I have private work updates which include I'm combining my work updates and fantasies. There'll be a six story work update and fantasy sex fantasy and the noodle of the moment. So right now we have the work stuff up that I am talking about. My some of the behind the scenes stuff, a podcast and 52 days thoughts feelings.
00:54:01:13 - 00:54:04:23
Luna
Also just my own personal like artist life.
00:54:05:01 - 00:54:05:09
Luna
Which is.
00:54:05:09 - 00:54:12:21
Luna
Always mixed with sex stuff. And then my like large ish dreams that have to do with education.
00:54:12:21 - 00:54:17:01
Luna
And sweet potatoes, but like it's a really good idea.
00:54:17:03 - 00:54:20:14
Luna
So Patreon.com slash Wiley for those things if you're interested.
00:54:20:16 - 00:54:22:06
Luna
And if you really.
00:54:22:06 - 00:54:39:09
Luna
Want to spoil me for the price of a latte and a crescent in Los Angeles, of course. Also my favorite thing in the whole wide world. They're delicious. They're flaky, they are perfect. They are so good. Even if they're mediocre, especially if you toast them and they look like a moon. I mean, what could be? What could be a better thing to eat?
00:54:39:11 - 00:54:54:15
Luna
If you really want to spoil me, I would love it if you joined me at onlyfans.com/wiley. There's regular daily content. I am exploring live streams more and more. I also discovered you can do private lives, as I said before, so if you want to do.
00:54:54:15 - 00:54:55:01
Luna
That, you can.
00:54:55:01 - 00:55:01:03
Luna
Totally do that. And I am finally learning how the platform actually works and some of the more normative.
00:55:01:03 - 00:55:03:08
Luna
Social expectations there. So.
00:55:03:10 - 00:55:26:00
Luna
Join me there to play again. I always respond best to clear initiate tions and irresistible invitations, and my only fans experience really is being shaped constantly by what you share. I have so much created from these past couple months that's all being scheduled and shared. Now, along with the play and the live streams, I'm just gonna use my bucket list to see what feels good in the moment.
00:55:26:02 - 00:55:44:23
Luna
I'm going to follow my turn on or I'll follow your turn on. Or maybe we'll follow our turn ons together. And we are at about 5% of my first goal, which is to get 969 supporters on both platforms. So if you want to gift yourself and me a present for my birthday, I fucking love that.
00:00:00:00 - 00:00:28:17
Luna
This month I would like to know about your playful parts. Here are my questions. If you had to rate yourself on a phono meter, or it would be very fun to maybe say phenomena, but when I say it like that, nobody knows what I mean from one being the lowest to ten being the highest.
00:00:28:19 - 00:00:47:06
Luna
Tell us where you fall today and why you picked that number next. When it's time for play, what do you do and who do you do it with? And this is in your ideal circumstances. Or give us a smattering. I love a sampler platter. You know, give us a little potpourri of answers. What were your favorite ways to play when you were growing up?
00:00:47:08 - 00:01:11:01
Luna
Do you identify as an introvert, extrovert, or introvert? And so that's someone in the middle, right? Introverts get fueled by being alone. Extroverts get fueled by being out and about. I'm probably somewhere in between. I'm like both and depends on circumstances. I definitely need a lot of alone time to recharge. Tell us when do you feel drained by people and when do you feel energized by them?
00:01:11:03 - 00:01:31:18
Luna
Next. How do you like to play with strangers? Coworkers? Friends? Family? Partners? Yourself? And again, this can be the idealized version or the version that you actually do, right. And hopefully there's some overlap. How, if at all, do you like to plan your fun and play time? Are you more likely to be an initiator or a receiver of invitations?
00:01:31:19 - 00:01:54:02
Luna
What is an example of an invitation that you are most likely to say an immediate unhesitating yes to? Oh, this is interesting. So this list of questions was written 6 or 8 months before I wrote the outline to Irresistible Invitations. That is very interesting. What types of invitations make you cringe? But you say yes to them anyway? What types of invitations are a thank you?
00:01:54:02 - 00:02:15:23
Luna
No, please. What sort of parties or events are the most fun for you? What specific elements or experiences that leave you feel satisfied from an outing? Do you prefer to be the host of a party? The life of the party, a supportive guest, a person who stays by the snacks and drinks the whole time? That is me or something else.
00:02:16:01 - 00:02:41:20
Luna
I can also be the host that stays next to snacks and drinks. That's fine with me. Also, if I'm a photographer, I can be the photographer of the party. I like to have a job. I guess I could practice just like going and being in the wild, but I feel like unless I am with someone as their accompanying date, I usually get into very strange circumstances when I go places alone to social outings.
00:02:41:20 - 00:03:04:06
Luna
So I'm like, give me a job. Have you had an experience where something that was supposed to be fun and playful ended up being very painful? Does play factor into your love life, or does love factor into your play life in the next decade? What are three fun ventures or plays plantations you would like to cross off your bucket list?
00:03:04:07 - 00:03:25:14
Luna
Of any size, right? But they have to include fun. Not just like a travel thing. I mean, travel can be fun, but tell us specifics of why it would be fun for you if you were visited by the most playful past version of yourself right now, or most playful part of your current self? How old are they and what advice would they give to current?
00:03:25:14 - 00:03:47:03
Luna
You tell me what you think of those questions. Tell me if I am missing any questions to add to my playlist of questions. And I would really, really love to hear any of your answers. And they can be sexy or not, right? So play is used in a broad sense. I am using the word play more and more because Instagram can't censor if I talk about play, haha.
00:03:47:05 - 00:04:08:16
Luna
Next up, questions from you to me along with stories along with celebrations. First high why I loved your dating questions and I wanted to share a recent dating win I just had. Oh, my nesting partner travels for work a lot, so I've been looking for snuggle cuties on the apps, and I really appreciated this question from a recent match.
00:04:08:16 - 00:04:37:21
Luna
After we had made plans for our first meetup, I should note making plans also felt hopeful and easy because he was like you recently said, collaborating in the connection. Oh good job. I noticed I have become unfortunately accustomed to what seems to be a terrible new norm of gents gents. Oh, maybe I should be reading this in a British accent, who apparently expect me to do all the date planning and decision making, and then also split the bill because they're feminists.
00:04:37:23 - 00:05:02:13
Luna
But I digress. We matched. We easily made fun, creative date plans together, and once we had made plans, he asked me, what's your vibe with texting under these circumstances? Maybe some flirty banter or some incredibly deep philosophical text conversations? Or just save it all for roller skating? And then he gave a nice specific look on offer for more information about, apparently, a secret event that she was invited to.
00:05:02:14 - 00:05:22:05
Luna
Oh that's fun. I let him know that I love that question, and I opted for in-person, and now I am looking forward to an exploration with a person who has demonstrated an ability to think through my experience. And that is hot. Thanks for all you do. T. I have also since heard that that date went well and I'm fucking celebrating the shit out of that like I.
00:05:22:07 - 00:05:44:02
Luna
Yes. Thank you. More please. What a beautiful example. I love that celebration. Okay, this is a question from M. Hi. While I contacted you a while back to let you know, I came out as part of my wife. Thanks in part to your show. I don't know if you remember. I do remember I remember more about people who probably think we are strangers, and that is a weird imbalance in my life because I'm like, yes, my friend.
00:05:44:02 - 00:06:00:17
Luna
And then people are like, what? And then people like you, my friend. And I'm like, who are you? And I'm like, if I actually know, like if you wrote me with your name and you're using the same name and I know who you are again, I can't tell who you are. If you're using a hidden screen name like that, my brain won't save.
00:06:00:19 - 00:06:15:09
Luna
That's why I like email. I can remember a name, and then if I want to know a specific detail, I'm pretty good about remembering. People have hundreds of people in my brain. Anyway, yes, I remember you. I'm contacting you because I have a bit of a conundrum. I've been given permission to play with other guys by my partner.
00:06:15:10 - 00:06:34:05
Luna
That sounds great. There's a conundrum coming, but the search for play partners has been, well, difficult. Yes, I've tried the hookup apps like Grindr, Scruff Sniffers, and Squirt, but there's a lot of discreet and download guys on there, and that's kind of not my thing. I feel that I've also tried for life, but it makes no sense to me.
00:06:34:06 - 00:06:54:01
Luna
There is a learning curve on FET life. There's definitely a learning curve, and if you're not kinky especially, it could be very overwhelming. It is also very difficult in my opinion, to look at. But again, a lot of online interfaces, unless they're very beautiful and the notifications make sense and the platform actually works, are kind of tough. That is where I think Instagram actually has it going on.
00:06:54:01 - 00:07:09:12
Luna
It's one of the most, although I haven't been on in a minute, so I'm probably confused by it now. And field I hate field, I hate field. I'm just gonna say nothing, but it seems hard to use. Also, I hear field is glitchy. I haven't been on lately. I don't love that app. So long story short, pleura.
00:07:09:12 - 00:07:27:08
Luna
Pleura is another one. Formerly bloom. We interviewed Noah Ellen of Bloom. Long story short, I'm wondering if you or anyone you know has tips or suggestions on how to find play partners in a safe, ethical manner to remove some of the stress from what should just be some fun. I mean, yeah, I hope you don't take it the wrong way.
00:07:27:10 - 00:07:53:06
Luna
I love getting questions, I don't. You were lovely to me in the past, and I really appreciate that. I don't want to bother you if you're asking me work related questions, I do not feel bothered, especially when I can share them publicly. Thanks. Hope you're doing well. I mostly get bothered if people are making overt sexual things without introducing themselves, or trying to take a lot of my time for free when they really just need to schedule like a one on one call to talk through some shit, right?
00:07:53:06 - 00:08:17:02
Luna
So like if you have a question or something you're struggling with, I love receiving that in a message because usually it applies to multiple people. We all have the same kind of basic sets of questions, and I find that very helpful. Okay. So thanks. Hope you're doing well. So this is probably the most common question I get other than how do I ask or tell or get my partner to blink right.
00:08:17:05 - 00:08:40:17
Luna
Those those are kind of the two forms of like how do I date and how do I once I have a partner talk to them? The answer is talk to them. The answer is date. I don't know of any shortcuts. If I did, I would probably have even more partners and like more of a sex life. There are people I have spoken to an interview on Pod who are excellent daters, and they are very clear on what they want and what they need.
00:08:40:17 - 00:09:00:16
Luna
So I would say start by asking yourself if I'm on an app, if I'm going to try to use an app, how clear is my profile, right? It doesn't mean that idiots are going to read your profile, right? Like when people are scrolling through when they're just going so fast, they're just swiping. They may not pay attention to the thoughtful stuff you wrote, but but that also helps you filter.
00:09:00:18 - 00:09:26:02
Luna
Do you have an irresistible invitation for the types of dudes that you're looking for? Are you willing to pay for one app? You know, maybe I didn't hear OkCupid in there. I hear a lot of people have success on that. I don't know about, you know, like it's various things for queer people. I have heard that a lot of people who have success on apps are willing to pay for filtering, or they're willing to just spend the time and have the mindset where they know they're going to be filtering.
00:09:26:04 - 00:09:54:14
Luna
I personally really struggle with apps. I am not I mean, I'm probably currently on them, but I haven't been like swiping or active in quite some time because I believe that they fuck up the human dopamine system. Right? Part of what is exciting about a new connection is the novelty. And when our dopamine system spikes or gets attenuated to the swiping and the likes and the hearts, and then you chat like in that previous example, in-person is always my favorite way to connect.
00:09:54:14 - 00:10:17:18
Luna
I will now do like a quick little FaceTime to make sure that that person is a person and do a vibe check. But like it's been a minute since I've done that. I prefer to meet people in person. Personally, that's a different level of time commitment, and it also has its own set of difficulties in terms of filtering and also now because of the normalization of apps and because a lot of people are like, I never learned how to do friends after the pandemic again.
00:10:17:18 - 00:10:37:01
Luna
I never recovered my social skills. I don't know why I'm on my phone all the time, and because so many people are screen addicted. In-person stuff has its own set of difficulties, right? But I do hear from plenty of people who are using them successfully, and I personally am noodling on finding a friend to help me navigate them in boundary time.
00:10:37:03 - 00:10:55:23
Luna
If you wanted to be part of the co-working co-working, that could be a good time. Even if you don't do it on the live stream. If you set aside a time every day. Right. So, this I recommend for anyone dating this book. This is supposed to be fun by Myesha battle. How to find joy in hooking up, settling down, and everything in between.
00:10:56:01 - 00:11:15:14
Luna
And I think that she has some really, really clear things about how to write your profile. And I'm just going to read you the table of contents. Part one Know thyself. Part two do no harm. Part three leave it better than you found it. There's lots of subheadings that are great. There's practical stuff in here. The main takeaway is, are you presenting yourself clearly?
00:11:15:15 - 00:11:33:09
Luna
Do you know what you want? And then can you like, hang and communicate? Basically, this is her kind of like formula. I'm on page 50 of her book for take a moment to put together a few sentences that incorporate what you're looking for and your values. Below are a few suggestions to get you started. I really value blank.
00:11:33:11 - 00:12:00:07
Luna
I am looking for someone who blank. The most important thing to know about me is blank, you know? So is it perfect? Are apps ever going to be perfect? No. Are people ever going to be perfect? No. I would ask you. And what I have been making an effort to do more is are there events you might go to in your area in person, where you might meet people who are on your page?
00:12:00:09 - 00:12:20:16
Luna
I don't know how good your gaydar is. Mine is terrible. But I also do not have any like, concerns around being like you. You you know, I'm also not in a place where I'm going out to hit on people because I need to see what the other person is bringing to the table first. Right? So it sounds like I can't tell.
00:12:20:16 - 00:12:41:07
Luna
It sounds like you don't want to just hook up with people. Or maybe you do want to hook up with people you just don't like the on the DL thing. I don't know if that's a product of the area that you're in. I would say if you are looking for hookups, probably stick to hookup apps, because if you're looking for a personal connection and you just want to hook up there, often I hear from a lot of people where there are mismatches because of that, right?
00:12:41:09 - 00:13:03:21
Luna
I'm a person who confuses people a lot because I have a strong capacity for boundaries, which means I can really, really fully enjoy a play connection, a sexual connection, a work connection, a very specific type of connection. And it does not mean that I want, like, I love to eat a bite of metaphorical cake without eating the whole cake right?
00:13:03:23 - 00:13:41:16
Luna
I cannot eat cake in real life because it has too much sugar. But I would say get really clear on what you are wanting and if it's a hookup. If you're looking for an additional relationship, right? Most of the time I hear that people who have a primary partner and are looking for another primary partner, whether it's of the same penis or pussy owning parts or otherwise, most of the time, partnered people seem like busy enough or like they like, have it together in their life enough that they're sort of, like, I have to take time and put effort into.
00:13:41:17 - 00:14:02:13
Luna
I'm used to having a partner right there and that that is part of dating. So it also could be as simple as a mindset shift, right? Like decide how much time you want to spend every week looking, maybe go to some gay bookstores. But here's the other thing. It's like you can meet someone in person somewhere, hit it off, hook up, connect, and then find out afterward that they're on the DL.
00:14:02:13 - 00:14:24:09
Luna
So in some ways, apps have the benefit of getting really clear ahead of time on are we on the same page or you have to really practice your human ninja skills of making sure that those boxes are checked for you? And I think the more practice we have, the more we are clear. For myself, during the times where I've been like, all right, I'm dating this month, I set time aside and I make it a project or activity, right?
00:14:24:09 - 00:14:49:04
Luna
For me, it is a project. It is something that I am pursuing. It is a priority. If it's not a priority for you, then I mean, that's speaks for itself. Easy. But, I think also just trust the divine timing. Trust the unfolding. And if you're not wanting to put too much work into it, or if it's feeling distracting, like take your foot off the gas and ask yourself what needs to happen in order for this to feel fun, right?
00:14:49:10 - 00:15:06:21
Luna
Is there a way to simplify? It sounds like you're on a lot of apps. If you're on a lot of apps at once, maybe just focus on one at a time to see, I don't know. I have never been on more than to actively at a time personally, and I would say sniffy was described to me as Grindr on crack.
00:15:06:21 - 00:15:25:13
Luna
So I don't know. There also could be meetup groups or support groups. I don't know if you have any sort of like local queer centers in your area. I've heard from people where that's really hit or miss, really hit or miss. But just I, I like to meet people in person. I go to kink events. I just went to Kink Fest in Portland.
00:15:25:15 - 00:15:40:05
Luna
I'm also like, I don't know, do I want too many friends in my what if the friends get in the way of my work? What if they don't like my work? What if they try to distract me? So I really like meeting people who have things in common with me who fit into my life. I like meeting other artists.
00:15:40:06 - 00:16:02:08
Luna
I like, I love sex workers. I love sexy people. I like to find people who are just kind of on my same wavelength. And I have been finding more of that by going to events in person, which again, is in some ways a higher level of commitment than apps. But I like the in-person vibes too. More than anything, just continue to stay in touch with what you want and believe that it's possible right?
00:16:02:10 - 00:16:24:13
Luna
According to neuroscience, not woo, but also woo. Our experience is a combination of our beliefs and the actual things that are happening, the actual physical, tangible things. So it's not beliefs alone. It's not behavior alone, it's behavior plus beliefs. So the words that you say, the thoughts that you think are incredibly important. So believing it's possible is also part of it.
00:16:24:15 - 00:16:42:04
Luna
The more we think apps are terrible, the more our brain, because of confirmation bias and how it works will only notice the terrible. And you might miss a sweet sniffy or a sweet grind, I don't know. I have also heard from people that they meet people on social media. It sounds like FET life is where you were looking, so maybe you are looking for kink specific stuff.
00:16:42:06 - 00:17:10:17
Luna
But that phrase slide into DMs exists for real. And so I have never hit on a stranger on social media because I personally fucking detest it. But I hear a lot of people are into that. So, I wish you luck and I would like to hear your unfolding along the way. Okay. Next. Hello. While I have been listening to X stories formerly known as Sex Stories for just over a year now, and I have been learning so much from hearing you and your guests that I love learning things.
00:17:10:19 - 00:17:26:18
Luna
I am currently laughing out loud about dating. Your questions from last month have helped me reflect on my sifting process. Good order, good job Kimberly and some of my over excitement patterns. I recently met a guy on a night out. We kissed, but I knew almost nothing about him other than that he seemed younger than me and wanted to ask me out.
00:17:26:18 - 00:17:54:01
Luna
Okay. Ooh, a brave explorer. Long story short, it was a disappointing week. Damn. But in the past I would have kept trying to make it work because it is exciting to get attention. Relatable. But since I've been thinking about your irresistible invitations, best dates, and dream dates, while he wasn't the worst I have had, but none of our interactions were as exciting as meeting a cute stranger in the dark on a dance floor that is exciting.
00:17:54:01 - 00:18:09:18
Luna
Now in person meetings M maybe you should go to a dance floor. Are there gay dance clubs? That could be a place. That is where a lot of my queer friends meet people. How did that not pop into my head sooner? The clincher, though, was sex. I was honest about the fact that I am a sex worker. Woohoo!
00:18:09:22 - 00:18:27:10
Luna
And when I tried to flirt and get curious about what he was into, to see if there was at least a fun physical overlap instead of engaging with me, he just told me I must be so good at asking questions because of my work experience. Damn. In the past I might have dragged it out for weeks, giving him the benefit of the doubt.
00:18:27:10 - 00:18:44:01
Luna
This time it was just over a week and I stayed curious, but I got all the info I needed to thank him and say that I don't feel much of an overlap. I'm curious about your personal vetting process and how long you give someone you might date. If that's too personal, no need to answer. You guys are so cute thinking about my experience.
00:18:44:01 - 00:19:02:06
Luna
I love it when people think about my experience. But nope, that's not where my boundary lines are. That's that is. Apparently I'm an overshare according to some people, but that's the question I would add to your list, even though I'm sure it varies, it does vary. Thank you for the pod and for this dating win. Well, thank you for making your own dating one.
00:19:02:06 - 00:19:24:22
Luna
I want to make sure I give you credit there, with ripples of love and okay, that is a fucking cute email. And also, the question. Let's see. Well, first, I wanted to celebrate that you're listening to yourself because that is a skill that has taken me a long time to hone and to sort of figure out that it's not about me being like, well, you need to behave this way, okay?
00:19:24:22 - 00:19:55:19
Luna
So in order to make me happy, you need to behave like this. And to answer your question, I don't give people very long anymore. I now listen the first time that they tell me who they are, right? And I am always open to growth, but I stop putting out effort as soon as whatever the first thing, whatever the first big for me, like flag or problem or issue is I'm like, oh well, your actions didn't match your words.
00:19:55:19 - 00:20:18:00
Luna
So I am now going to notice that that is not a thing. And going forward, I will assume that is always a possibility. Like we are now in the zone where it could be one or the other. Now keep in mind you're talking to a very single, usually pretty happy single but dating person. And when I say dating, I don't mean any sort of like ongoing relationship escalator.
00:20:18:00 - 00:20:39:06
Luna
I do have one ongoing connection right now, but I'm a really specific personality, so I need I need someone to really show up in the ways that they say they are. And for me, consistency is the most important. So that's kind of like what I look for. And time lengths very mostly I'm filtering people out pretty quickly. If we make it the in person, I will always at least see the first date through, right?
00:20:39:12 - 00:21:00:22
Luna
I will pretty much finish out whatever exploration we agree to, and so that can be any length of time, right? If it's a phone call, I'll do the phone call. I meet in the phone call earlier. I may end the date earlier if it feels complete to me, but I will wait until it feels complete. I did recently have an exploration that was like a because of circumstances, and because of the irresistible invitation attached to.
00:21:00:22 - 00:21:23:18
Luna
It was a two day experience and I you know, it was kind of a mixed experience. It had some really high highs and some very confusing parts. And so like midway through day one, I was like, what should I just go do I still want to be here? And I realized that for myself, because of how my curiosity brain works, I would have felt really disappointed if I ended the exploration early.
00:21:23:18 - 00:21:38:13
Luna
And I decided that, like, the highs were good enough, like the good parts were good enough for both parties, right? I, I could tell that the other person was also having a good time, because they were telling me constantly how good of a time they were having, and we were on the same page ahead of time about like, rule number one, don't try to marry me.
00:21:38:13 - 00:21:58:05
Luna
Rule number two, don't try to hop on a relationship escalator with me. Rule number three, we're going to be going like moment to moment, connection to connection. So I was like, well, I already made it clear that I'm down for this container. So I was like, I'm going to finish the rest of the container. Even though looking back, I think I will never give a brand new person two days of my life ever again.
00:21:58:07 - 00:22:18:12
Luna
So I learned a lot from that, and I think I would just going forward, do an hour or two at a time and then see and I no longer have very much confusion around like is someone adding like, is there a mutual add of value to each other's lives? I don't mean it in a cold hearted transaction sense.
00:22:18:12 - 00:22:44:17
Luna
I also personally don't think transactional things are cold hearted, but I mean, if I'm having fun, if I'm getting something out of it, if I'm still curious, if I'm excited, if I have an excitement feeling, I will continue to follow it. If they also seem to be exhibiting that right, I don't chase people anymore. I also no longer try to correct behaviors, especially early on in my early online dating experience was terrible because I'd be like, well, in order to see me.
00:22:44:18 - 00:23:03:13
Luna
You mean Papa? Papa and I still have those impulses because it's really a new skill that it finally dropped in deeply. Like the biggest learning from my relationship with my former master is when someone shows you who they are, when their behavior doesn't change, all I get to do is set a boundary. So since I got really good at being like, well, here's what I'm available for.
00:23:03:15 - 00:23:21:11
Luna
And making boundaries are rules about my behaviors, not rules about the other person's behavior. So the more that I do that, that just decides what time it is. And it sounds like you did a really good job of being like, is this fun for me? Is this adding something to my life? And I step away? If the answer is no.
00:23:21:13 - 00:23:44:01
Luna
So I'm celebrating you and thank you for such a beautiful share. Oh yeah. Okay, so this I mentioned this in the previous episode, part one of this update. I've gotten a few different versions of this question at varying lengths, but it basically comes down to like when I will say the phrase co-creation. What exactly do I mean? I mean, a lot of things.
00:23:44:05 - 00:24:11:22
Luna
I it could be an art project, it could be a relationship. It literally just means I am making someone up with another person in real time. Right. So I do use it in sexual terms. I see every relationship, every sexual exploration as a co-creation. I like to say place co-creation because it kind of rhymes. And also it reminds us that it is an exploration and also both parties involved are responsible.
00:24:12:00 - 00:24:47:12
Luna
I most honor the reason that I am single is because I refuse to curate experiences for complete strangers when they are not meeting me with equal curiosity and effort, right? Apparently I'm so excited about everything. Apparently I'm more enthusiastic than anyone they've ever met. So when I'm with someone who is like reflecting this and I know, I know, most people mean like, wow, you're so different as a compliment.
00:24:47:14 - 00:25:06:00
Luna
But when I have just met someone and they're already telling me how different and far away I am, it usually means they are placing me on a pedestal. And now I'm the leader and they just want to be the follower and they want to eat up my yummy experience. And it feels kind of like deadweight. So when I say co-creation, I mean active.
00:25:06:02 - 00:25:23:15
Luna
It's like active consent, right? It's like active, ongoing mutual pleasure. That is what I mean. And I mean, we're play friends. Like, think of being kids on a playground except for grown ups. What do you want to do now? Well, I don't know, like, kids are great at consent conversations and for speaking up, they're bound. I mean, not all of them, but, like, if you all listen on playground.
00:25:23:21 - 00:25:41:10
Luna
No, I don't want that. I don't like it. Let's do it this way now, you know, and they figure it out. Where did I hear that? Recently someone gave that example. I was like, brilliant. Maybe confessed. I can't remember, but I could mean we are doing a photo shoot. I could mean that I am your photo dom, and you are my worthless little submissive who has to show me how he touches that cock.
00:25:41:10 - 00:25:59:19
Luna
Don't you dare come until I say so. I could mean that I am the submissive and I am serving someone. I'm. Maybe I'm getting spanked. Maybe we're working on a painting together. Maybe we're collaging side by side. Maybe we're getting together for an evening of hangout, and we decide if we want to go hot tubbing or eat food first or whatever.
00:25:59:19 - 00:26:26:02
Luna
I'm using the term very broadly. Part of that is because I am willingly algorithm and running away from censorship because I can't fight it. I'm one single independent artist, so I mean a collaboration between two individuals toward a common goal, and it could look like a little creation, like we think of it like as an artist situation, or most of the time I'm using it to talk about relational things, whatever that looks like.
00:26:26:04 - 00:26:48:08
Luna
In OnlyFans, I think I got this question from one of my only fans too that's like, well, how do you want to play? Do you want to order a custom? Do you want a sexy sex talk? Do you want to inspire me to do a photoshoot with your kinks? Like, it can literally be whatever we want, but we both need to be willing to be vulnerable enough to share our desires with each other and to say, yes, I want to do this.
00:26:48:08 - 00:27:04:12
Luna
No, it would turn me on if it was like that. Whatever. So that's what I mean. I mean, getting together to figure out what feels what a fun way to play. And if you're confused, 52 days of play will be full of hopefully, co-creation. We'll see. At the very least, I'll have co clone creations and that is just me.
00:27:04:12 - 00:27:25:00
Luna
But it's me and wigs exploring all the different parts of myself. Okay. Another question. So I wanted to ask what's some of your favorite smut books specifically? Something witty, funny, good character development slash plot along with some good scenes. My wife has been getting into smut lately and she read really good series, but has been let down since just looking for more good recommendations for her.
00:27:25:00 - 00:27:48:00
Luna
It can be just the guy in a girl three way group. Whatever lovers. Do you have a favorite smut book series? Lit erotica? Whatever. What do you like to read? Where do you like to read it? I don't, I don't read smut and there's no judgment there. I just mostly read sci fi fantasy with sex scenes written into it, which I don't know if that's what you're asking, but I will tell you my favorite things.
00:27:48:02 - 00:28:06:23
Luna
And then I read a lot of, I mean, right now, actually, I'm reading the letters from Leopold von Sacher-Masoch and then Venus in Fur. So I don't know if that's what you mean, but that's what I'm reading right now. It's hot. It's interesting. But I did reach out to a friend whose wife reads a lot of, lots of things.
00:28:07:01 - 00:28:31:01
Luna
I have also in the past, been recommended Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty trilogy. I've had a hard time getting into it personally, because in order for me to appreciate any sort of like even just in fantasy kink stuff, I need, like I need willing and consent walked into that. Like just for me personally, I know that a lot of people like, love the taboo of it, but I'm like, we learn from stories, whether they are on screen or in books.
00:28:31:01 - 00:28:55:23
Luna
So for me, I get, like, viscerally uncomfortable when there's not a clear frame of context written integrated into the story. Right? That's just me personally. So I will say first, the ripped bodice is a bookstore here in Los Angeles that is an excellent set of resources. They specialize in romance novels, and it's very, very well. I haven't been there in a few years, but it was very cute last time I went.
00:28:56:01 - 00:29:17:22
Luna
They used to have really good writing workshops. I did one with Emily Nagasaki there, which was really, really fun. So you can find them at the Ripped Bodice, Lancome. They're on socials and I have heard recently was recommended a Court of Thorns and Roses. I know nothing about it other than that it's a series. So that is in my notes and then my personal favorite.
00:29:17:22 - 00:29:49:14
Luna
This isn't like raunchy, smutty sex scenes, but this when I say consent is written into the story, this is what I mean. Jacqueline Carey I don't know how to say her name. Maybe it's Jacqueline Carey. I'm not sure. The Scheels Legacy series. Oh my God, it's my fave. It's my favorite. And she just so originally, it's from the point of view of the main character, who is an angry set, which is basically like ultimate, ultimate, ultimate powerful, submissive, super hot, beautiful fantasy world building.
00:29:49:16 - 00:30:12:00
Luna
And now she has just released one called Concealed Servant. So there's Chris Shields, dart, Chris Shields, avatar. I can't remember the names of the trilogy, but look up the Scheels Legacy series and then now there's like a companion book written from the point of view of another character. And it's so good. It's so good. So highly recommend that.
00:30:12:02 - 00:30:32:21
Luna
And lovers again if you have any recommendations, if you are listening on Spotify, please answer our question. Help us through that algorithm and tell us what sort of smut you like to read, or where you like to read your erotica and what you're into. I also wonder if that will get us. I wonder how the Spotify algorithm works.
00:30:32:21 - 00:30:50:02
Luna
Well, it'll be a place proration experiment. Or you can just email X stories podcast at gmail.com with recommendations. Okay. Hi. While I've been catching up on your Patreon shares and I have a question, what do you do for fun? It seems like you work a lot. I'm curious if there's any fun in your life that is not related to your art.
00:30:50:04 - 00:31:01:05
Luna
Thanks for your podcast and for the wonderful Patreon. Please take care of yourself. Well, okay.
00:31:01:07 - 00:31:22:11
Luna
Mostly I work, My relaxations are walking, sometimes hiking, working out. I really enjoy preparing my food. I do love a good hot tub or a good bath. And then I have a couple of close friends here in Los Angeles that I do. I also love to get spanked by a partner that I see regularly, and then I also love to have sex when I can.
00:31:22:13 - 00:31:41:16
Luna
I don't know if sex counts. I mean, I guess technically sex always counts as work because it's always here, I don't know, does this count as work? Is this fun? This is technically fun for me, you know, I guess I guess this is a really tricky question, and I've actually gotten some, like, judgment lately from people who are like, but do you do anything not sex related or, like, not art related?
00:31:41:16 - 00:32:14:08
Luna
I'm like most of the time that I spend unpaid, I am creating stuff I really care about. That is why I'm tired a lot. I am going from client work to my own work, and my work is the most fun thing for me. So I really only have friends who understand that, and most of my friends who I speak with regularly, whether it's on the phone or in person, like my number one noodle friends know that I love noodling about work, but for me, work includes a lot of personal stuff.
00:32:14:10 - 00:32:37:16
Luna
It includes relationship patterns. It includes noticing stuff out in the world and wondering about it. It includes, I find, painting very fun. I have been paid for paintings, but that started out as pure fun. I haven't sold one in a while because I don't want to yet, but but maybe soon that will change, actually, because my house is very full of paintings and, you know, that could be a fun gallery party finale for 52 days of fun and fucking.
00:32:37:18 - 00:32:55:22
Luna
I am curious about different types of fun. I would like to take a dance class. Kind of. That seems like related to sex a little bit. I am curious about primal. Someone just told me about primal movement and because I was trying to figure out like, where do people who listen to the Huberman lab hang out? I mean, I went I went to Kink Fest in Portland.
00:32:55:22 - 00:33:19:00
Luna
I fucking love that. That was a fuckton of fun. Being a baby drag and dressing up was fun. But again, I was also technically there for learning, for meeting people, for education and research purposes. But I would say for me, learning is fun and learning is probably my number one. If I had to put everything in like a category and describe it as fun, even if I'm creating, I am learning, I create to learn.
00:33:19:00 - 00:33:44:17
Luna
If I'm learning about myself, I'm learning about other people like it's win win. So for me, sex is the purest form of fun. Partnered sex in particular is extremely fun, especially when I have a partner who really can hold space for me and who really wants to play with me. That is when I experience the most fun. And then I have the second most fun talking about sex and learning about sex and I eat food for fun.
00:33:44:17 - 00:34:04:09
Luna
I go to museums for fun, but that also is related to the art stuff for me. I don't have, clear work life, personal life, boundaries. Be not. Not because I don't have good boundaries, but because I don't really care to draw it. Like it doesn't actually make sense. It's like when people try to, like, separate the mind from the body.
00:34:04:11 - 00:34:29:04
Luna
What are you talking about? Your mind is in your body. It's a two way signal system. I don't know, for me personally. So, I experienced life for fun, and I also have been told lately that I need more hobbies. I don't know if I need more hobbies, but I guess I would like more topics to talk about that are not sex or neuroscience because not everybody likes those.
00:34:29:06 - 00:34:48:08
Luna
And I do miss movies. I used to go to the movies a lot and that's like a normal thing. But that is one thing that, like, I don't do, I used to do when I was in relationships, like movies and TV and as a solo person, it's just not part of my job. I'm much more likely to, like, be in the bathtub or in the hot tub reading a book or writing.
00:34:48:10 - 00:35:12:16
Luna
So I would like to go back to more movies. And I also, I mean, I don't know if photography is fun. Making videos is fun. It's probably my number one favorite thing. That's not fucking thing is making pictures and videos of fucking or sexy related things. So, I'm I recognize the defensiveness in my tone, and I love that question.
00:35:12:18 - 00:35:29:05
Luna
I love that you are making sure that I'm having fun. Also, I'm about to do 62 days of fun. We're doing it now. I'm in my second day of 52 days of fun, so I have a lot of fun, like brainstorming, writing out things, creating schedules, redoing them, and just like visualizing futures that could make the world a sexier, more loving place.
00:35:29:05 - 00:35:45:13
Luna
And then working toward that. Right? So that's also why when someone like wants my time and attention to just focus on their personal, like they just want me to pay attention to them in a personal life because they want to feel special. I'm like, well, do you want to contribute? Do you want to do you want to join forces and make the world a sexier, more loving place to go?
00:35:45:13 - 00:36:08:18
Luna
No. You just want me to. You just want me to listen to you complain. That's a date I. Oh, no. Work, I gotta go. Oh, but work is so fun. Okay, this one is from w oh, another w collaboration. Oh, actually just thinks hi. While I paint daily for fun Leslie sequences. This is from a picture on your website.
00:36:08:18 - 00:36:27:18
Luna
I love the pose and shading and couldn't resist trying you as a golden figure. I love you hear your podcast give so much. Thank you for that. If you like the painting seven by ten and there's a way to meet your privacy needs, I'd like to send. God damn, I love thoughtful people. That is so. Yes. Thank you all for being so thoughtful.
00:36:27:18 - 00:36:51:05
Luna
I'd like to send it to you as a way to say thanks. No. Anything attached just thinks w. This is a really excellent painting and I love Kimberly helping me stay on top of email and organizing things. So that I actually respond to things that need to see my eyeballs. And so it's such a lovely, beautiful surprise to see this W.
00:36:51:05 - 00:37:10:00
Luna
Thank you. Another message from our married middle age male. Oh, I love an introduction. Who heard you on Amy and April's podcast Shameless sex? Yeah, I love Amy and April. I've only gotten to interview Amy so far, but I met April in person at Amy and great. They're lovely and wonderful. I think they're on a retreat right now.
00:37:10:02 - 00:37:28:10
Luna
You sounded like one of the most fun people on this planet. Okay, so see, I do bring my own fun with me. I love this theme of fun. Keep doing what you're doing and thank you, I love it, I love it, thank you, thank you. Thank you. Another message from Jay Dearest. While long time sex. Oh that's so cute I love it.
00:37:28:14 - 00:37:52:06
Luna
You get it. Sex stories. Listener. First time emailer. First off, I adore the podcast and the amazing work you do through stories. It's helped me tremendously through a really difficult year last year and keeps inspiring me as I reconnect my sexuality, intimacy, neuro spiciness and just myself. I feel you. So a couple days ago I'm listening to your episode with Cora Love, Cora, where you both go like, let's do this, let's wear flower crowns and fucking them.
00:37:52:06 - 00:38:11:18
Luna
Oh my god, that's not even written on my bucket list yet. Not even the big one. Kimberly, can we add it to my bucket list? And that's where I'm like, This is where I can make a meaningful offering and contribution. Oh, I grew up in a Slavic country. We're talking post-communist 90s, and for some reason, flower crowns are just a thing you learn to make at like five years of age.
00:38:11:18 - 00:38:30:11
Luna
But when I did my undergrad, my master's in the States, every spring, without fail, an American friend would be like, what? How do you make a flower crown? Just writing this makes me remember the warm spring afternoons teaching friends how to make dandelion crowns. Wait, what? No yellow ones? It's got to be with yellow dandelions. Could you make a crown?
00:38:30:11 - 00:38:44:23
Luna
With the puffy ones? They would fall apart. So I thought, well, Cora. And why? I'll need some flower crowns. They probably know how to make them. But on the off chance y'all have never made one, it'd be my absolute pleasure to send you a weed tutorial. Oh my God, I love. I love all of the words happening here.
00:38:45:01 - 00:39:01:23
Luna
It's a wee bit early for dandelions just yet. There is some here in Los Angeles. I saw some great ones. Yeah, here on the West Coast they're everywhere. But once they start popping up, I'll make a little tutorial and we would be happy to send it your way. Oh my God. Also, wait, I would love to do that along with you and have a crown.
00:39:02:01 - 00:39:20:10
Luna
I mean, I made clover ones in elementary school, but I don't know if they were the good kind, so I would be. I'm definitely curious about your flower crown method. Also, more importantly, I've been thinking of applying to go on next with yes, yes apply here. Not exactly. Sure when? Right now. I'll do it now 52 days.
00:39:20:10 - 00:39:42:02
Luna
If the calendar is full and you really want to do it during 52 days, let me know, okay? Especially like unless I'm fully fully booked with guests, which as of this moment I am not. I have a lot of like tentative, probably, but like the calendars open. So I want to save time for people. But like, I would love to be recording stories if I am not doing 52 days of fucking with a collaborator.
00:39:42:02 - 00:40:00:18
Luna
So not too distant future. Yes, yes yes yes. And I trust the divine timing, right? I want guests to feel ready. I never want anyone to feel rushed, or rather, I always want people to feel ready and prepared. And again, the questions are there. You can look at them ahead of time. I'm also streamlining things and bringing it down into this simple format.
00:40:00:20 - 00:40:18:20
Luna
And we might go with the love, work and sex format going forward too. I'm so curious how the 50 days is going to unfold and what I will discover every time I do an interview. I learned something new, not just about the people, but also that that's my favorite part, but also about how to listen and how to ask questions.
00:40:18:20 - 00:40:50:09
Luna
And I really am practicing being a better listener always. And that looks like sometimes more silence and just holding space better. Have a lovely weekend when it comes. Love J. Oh thank you. Amazing! Lastly, we are going to finish with some more celebrations. I am celebrating and feeling very grateful for those of you who have taken the time to rate and review X stories on Apple Podcasts, that helps boost our algorithm, that helps other people find us, that helps other people understand what value this show provides.
00:40:50:11 - 00:41:07:14
Luna
It's also helpful for me to understand what you are getting out of it, right? The more that I know what you like, because I follow my own curiosity streak no matter what, but I am heavily inspired by whatever is landing with the people I do hear from. So that's why I fucking love hearing from you. And I love hearing your answers.
00:41:07:19 - 00:41:26:12
Luna
And I love knowing you make flower crowns. And I love hearing about your dates and your dating wins in her dating struggles that I'm right there in it with you. So Michael, honest and real converse love this podcast and all of the real and honest stories. Love hearing folks that live the life they love. No shame. I love it to curious.
00:41:26:12 - 00:41:47:23
Luna
Listen up, Ginger says. Eavesdrop on a conversation about people and how they sex. Oh, what a great way to say it. The host's enthusiasm and curiosity are sincere and seemingly simple format just work. Yeah, it's basically like shame. A meter back story details. That's like if you ever want to interview someone about their sex stories, those are the outlines in my head.
00:41:48:01 - 00:42:09:15
Luna
And then, of course, I have a million follow up questions. The same questions are asked of each guest, but the answers vary wildly. It will get you reminiscing and analyzing your past or inspire the future. You, as well as open your eyes to other ways of being. It also just makes me feel connected to the whole wide world, and also especially on the days where I'm like, I'm never going to have satisfying sex again.
00:42:09:20 - 00:42:23:04
Luna
That's when I get the people who are in their early 20s that are like, yeah, so my partner and I, we just talk about everything. We're really good. Open communication are the threesomes we have? No, but we're really dedicated to each other. We just talk about everything. No best friend. Love them, love them, love them. I'm like, okay, so they exist.
00:42:23:04 - 00:42:45:05
Luna
I love it. Religious man says good, really great content. Lots of exclamation points from a religious man. Love you think you religious men Sorelle is it says excellent. I absolutely love this podcast while has the most wonderful interviewing style. Thank you. And I love how completely open and accepting she is of all of her guests and their lifestyle.
00:42:45:07 - 00:43:04:12
Luna
Her open, honest and loving approach is so refreshing. I strive to be as open minded and as inclusive as she is. Thanks for each and every episode. Oh well. I think if the desire is there, you already are right? We might have these kneejerk reactions of shame and judgment. It's not that I have zero judgment, I just I really notice it come up.
00:43:04:14 - 00:43:28:22
Luna
And I promise people when they come on the agreement is if it's legal and consensual, I'm here to celebrate. I don't yuck your yum. I'm here to learn. I also am a person that is just has a wide, wide, wide net of yes and am so hyper curious and want to try a lot of things. So someone recently called me Undiscussed Obel.
00:43:29:00 - 00:43:54:12
Luna
I read that that is not true there. I'm sure I have discussed, but it's maybe lower than most people. So lovers, those are the questions. Those are really answers. Thank you for being here with me. Thank you to all of you who write to me. I love hearing from you. It's been a really difficult year for sex stories, for a lot of logistical reasons that have nothing to do with the fact that I fucking love this work.
00:43:54:12 - 00:44:14:05
Luna
And when I get too far away from hearing from you, that's when I get on the brink of quitting. Right? And there's some tough stuff happening right now. So really, every review is so deeply appreciated. Every share is so deeply appreciated. Word of mouth matters. Encouraging your friends were interesting. If you're too shy, you know I love getting good, interesting guests.
00:44:14:05 - 00:44:33:06
Luna
And the next step is to really get outside of my own bubble and again, never want to fetishize. I never want to tokenize, but I just want to connect with people. And so I'm hoping that in the next year or so I can really, like go out into the world, especially if we frontload and batch create a bunch of stuff over the next 52 days.
00:44:33:08 - 00:44:48:00
Luna
So be a part of it, even if all my slots are full on the calendar. If you really want to be a guest on Sex Stories, reach out x stories podcast at gmail.com. Kimberly helps me stay on top of email. We fucking love Kimberly. Let's give Kimberly a shout out. Kimberly keeps this podcast going and so do you.
00:44:48:00 - 00:44:59:03
Luna
So thank you for joining me and keep sending me those sexy, sexy stories. I mean, x stories, whatever, any kind of stories Y Wycombe's share. They could be very safe for work.
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