Sex In A Mall Bathroom: Caleb’s Update
- Luna Robbie
- Dec 19, 2022
- 13 min read
24 pansexual white cis male, switch.
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Luna
Caleb. Welcome back. Why don't you tell us what are some sexy updates you've had and or stories we didn't get to since we talked a couple months ago?
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Caleb
Well, since we talked, I had an incident with my roommate. It has led me to moving well, living out of my car for a few days. I met someone on Grindr and I'd basically met up with them that same night that we matched on Grindr. And from there, I've been living with them. It was really good. It was unfortunately on a futon.
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Caleb
But you know how futons are their squeaky. They're not always comfortable, but that the sex was good.
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Luna
Did you break the futon? I feel like as long as you don't break a futon, it's a really big win.
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Caleb
We didn't break the whole time, but,
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Luna
Congratulations.
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Caleb
That's. It's still in working condition. The first time I met is actually polyamorous as well as I am. And they're probably is very broad. It's all over the place, but they've taught me a lot about being poly, and, I'm sure I've talked a lot to them. I've been the same time.
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Luna
Are there sex specific things you have learned that you'd like to share, or just sexy adventures you've had that you want to tell us about?
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Caleb
Yeah, actually, I've been really open about how submissive I am, and there's probably, this person I've met is actually live in with one of their other partners, and their other partner is in a relationship with one of the other roommates that we have.
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Luna
So it's. Oh, wow.
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Caleb
Crazy, man. Yeah, everybody's everybody's with everybody. It's all we're like one big relationship. It's a crazy party. Yeah.
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Luna
But also what a convenient way to have a molecule. Because if you all are really far away from anything.
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Caleb
Yeah. And like, we're looking to move come December, January to a city where some of our partners live.
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Luna
Yeah. Is it possible to count the number of people in that constellation.
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Caleb
For people that they label as partners?
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Luna
And how many partners do those four partners have?
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Caleb
That's a whole.
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Luna
Okay, okay. Okay. So has it led to, like, fun, sexy orgies or is it are you still, like, getting to know everyone or, like, what's that been like?
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Caleb
There was a threesome the other night where, me and my other and my partners partner. We both got jerked off together in the dark. Kind of like late at night. It was. It was really fun. My partner leaned over and asked if they could get permission to jerk me off, and I didn't know that until it was talked about a few days later.
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Luna
Like you didn't know that it was planned, or what do you mean? Oh, they asked somebody else like.
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Caleb
This is like, I think the first night that I had started sleeping in the same bed as the other two.
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Luna
Oh, I think.
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Caleb
The second night. Yeah, the second night I slept with the other two. For the first few nights I was here, I was sleeping in the living room on the futon. Yeah, yeah. And then eventually it was like, you know, we're close enough that we could probably sleep in the same mattress, and it's significantly more comfortable, so you might as well.
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Caleb
And then it ended up leading to all of us being horny enough to want to have an orgasm together. So.
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Luna
Love. Yeah, I love that. Oh, okay. Okay. Anything else to say about right now, or do you want to dive into some of the stories we don't have time for in your original episode?
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Caleb
The person that I met on Grindr is trans female to male. I think the first person that is trans that I've actually been with, but it's an amazing experience. Yeah, I've learned a lot in just a lot of education about gender and sexuality that I had no idea about, and it's taught me a lot about myself, actually, through communication, about the way that I feel he's been able to put labels on my feelings for me, and it really helps identify some of the things that I've been going through, like I've had some gender dysphoria that I didn't even realize before was that, yeah, I've started going by his friends, which is a big step.
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Luna
Hey.
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Caleb
Yeah, my partner is dating another male body partner who identifies as male. Okay? And we're both attracted to each other, but we're also we're both really shy. And because of that, it's sort of slow in the way that we've been connecting. At the same time, this male partner in the household recently started up a connection to the other female body person in the household.
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Caleb
And yet because of that, like reach, focusing on our own partners, because our focus is on them, it's not so much on each other, okay. Which isn't a bad thing. It's just like we're taking care of the people that we need to in this time.
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Luna
Yeah, and being patient.
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Caleb
Yeah, there's a lot of patience that's needed. Yeah. Just developing and new relationships all over the place. So it's a lot of navigation that's needed.
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Luna
Okay. Do you want to pick a couple of the stories that you have to tell us that we didn't have time for in your original episode?
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Caleb
Sure. Yeah. We can start with the first one there. A couple of years ago, I was living with my parents in Scarborough. I met someone on the first date. It went a little fast. She said she loved me on the first date. I was a little shocked by that. But, we kept going on dates a little bit and eventually we ended up hooking up and the sex was really good.
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Caleb
However, one of the times we hooked up we were having sex missionary style. She came so hard that she pooped on my balls. We could golf ball size like turn gold out. And,
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Luna
At least it was a hard one.
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Caleb
Yeah, yeah, it was enough to, like, make a bit of a mess and, like, shock me. But it was like we mutually agreed that I was going to go take a shower, and she would clean up the bedsheets because it was her house, and that's what I did. I went to take a shower, okay. And a couple minutes later she came in was like, hey, it's all cleaned up.
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Caleb
Don't worry about it. I'm going to come in and chat with you. So I guess there was some water on the floor from someone in a chat early in the day because as she went to get in the shower, she slipped and hit her head on the edge of the bathtub, giving herself a bloody nose.
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Luna
Oh no.
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Caleb
It was just one embarrassing situation after another.
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Luna
What did she do? Was she, like, embarrassed about the poop? I really don't want to poop shamed people because I know that it's such a fear of so many people, especially when it comes to anal.
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Caleb
Even though it was just a crazy situation to have just so much happen and it's so fast that this is all in the span of a few minutes. I was still watching myself when she came in. It was like, hey, how's it going? Bonk! And then just blood everywhere. I was like, well, now this.
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Luna
Wow. So that's like fecal play and blood play on it. Accident.
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Caleb
It was all on accident. Yes, exactly.
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Luna
Wow. Oh my gosh. I will say, just as a person who has a vagina and also has an asshole and has like felt some really great feelings of relief that have included an anal hook that has totally felt like shooting. And I've there's been like fear around that, you know, God bless every partner who like, doesn't freak out about shit because even as you tell that story, your column about it and like even for me, I use a menstrual cup.
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Luna
And so sometimes just putting that in, I can feel the way it creates pressure. And I'm also like, yep, it's this type of release. Yeah. If I'm like squishing it up in there with my finger, you know, it's a certain I can feel now I have enough like, awareness of the muscles in my body to be like, oh, it's this specific type of relaxation that will let me squirt, that will let me enjoy anal sex, that will let me come.
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Luna
And when I hold on to it, like, that's when I definitely won't poop. But it's like you can't.
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Caleb
Speak of storing. Yeah, I mean, it perfectly soaks in. Spoke yesterday.
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Luna
Really? Yeah.
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Caleb
Okay. Am I correct in thinking that it was you squirted with a virgin orgasm before I came before it scared before you came out, and only vaginal stimulation.
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Caleb
And then it was just.
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Caleb
And then from there, it was just everything else. Yeah.
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Luna
That's so cool.
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Caleb
And just to be clear, for everybody listening in, the partner that I'm with is sitting alongside me in the room.
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Luna
Yeah, my partner updates I love them okay. So maybe one of those like bed cover things is in order at some point. Yeah.
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Caleb
We have a couple of waterproof sheets with the washing machine in the house. Is broken and the landlord is being a bit of a.
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Luna
Oh man.
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Caleb
It's a tough situation. But yeah, my partner has a massive kink, so we're prepared for that.
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Luna
Oh my.
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Caleb
Gosh okay. Yes thank you. We've done some water sports in the shower a couple times since I met them a few weeks ago.
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Luna
Amazing. Have you been to give her a receiver? Both. Like, what's the.
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Caleb
Most of the giver. Okay. Yeah, I perceive two when I get squirted on, so. Yeah. So that same partner, the same partner of the picked on me later on. Like I think a year later we reconnected because I was like, I moved back with my parents or something. I don't remember the whole scene. And they're like, hey, let's hook up again.
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Caleb
And I think they were working. It's one of the Covid vaccination. Like, check out people for one of the vaccination sites at one of the malls here in Scarborough. And, she was like, hey, I'm just about to get off a shift. You want to come meet up with me? And I was like, sure. I came out and met up with her at the mall, and she was like, let's go hook up in the bathroom.
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Caleb
It was one big bathroom with like, an automatic door and an accessible toilet with handrails. I think that was a little bit lower to the ground so you could get to it. You're in a wheelchair? Yeah. And same thing with the mirror. It was all lower down to the ground, so it was easy to reach. And yeah, it was all automatic that there was like buttons for the lock and buttons.
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Caleb
There was an emergency. But yeah. So she, she got up on the sink and slid her pants down, and she took out a tube of lube that she had brought, but we didn't need it because it was wet enough to just slide in. I had a condom on the time. Just stay protected. Yeah, we both finished really fast.
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Caleb
It was really good, actually. We were looking for it because we had been talking about it like how the whole day basically ahead of time, this happened at like 9:00 at night, the Grays, the mall was closing. There wasn't many people in the mall, but it was still open and there were still people in the mall. I don't know if I'm pulling together, but okay.
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Luna
Yeah, sometimes at closing time, that's when they're like, anyone hear knock knock, knock, you know, like hot. Okay, wait. So she was like on the seat, like sitting on it.
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Caleb
Yeah. She up on the sink and. Yeah. Treated her well. She was sitting on the sink.
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Luna
Strong sink. Amazing. Other cool locations. I feel like you had a couple on your list. Was there something else.
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Caleb
Since we talked last? I actually got to get have sex in my car. My ex broke up with her boyfriend and hit me up and she was like, hey, I'm horny. This is the one time I'm going to do this, but come fuck me. Basically. Yeah, yeah. I was like, you know what? I'm single right now. I could get laid.
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Caleb
I'll do it. So I drove the hour and a half to go see her with blankets and pillows in my car, and learn that I needed more blankets and pillows. Okay.
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Luna
Yeah, because it was cold or.
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Caleb
No, no it wasn't. Well, this was in, like, early September. This was. It was still nice. It was a really warm night, actually. It was like 12°C or 14 Celsius. It was really comfortable. The problem was that the back of my car is hard plastic. And my knees, my knees hurt. Oh, it was really good sex. Like I haven't had sex with her in a long time since like before then.
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Caleb
Yeah, but it was just as good as the last time. And. Fuck yeah, it was an hour and a half drive, so like, I was talking and texting with her the whole time. I shouldn't be texting or driving.
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Luna
Yeah, don't text and drive. Or if you're going to text, use the voice to text function.
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Caleb
Exactly. Yeah, yeah. So we were talking the whole time I was driving there and it was an hour and a half. So like there was a lot of like I think we were on the phone for a good portion of actually. And she was telling me like how she was super excited, like already super wet for me and like basically waiting for me to get over there.
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Luna
And just.
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Caleb
Take it. Yeah. And we spent a little bit of time driving around before it actually happened because we didn't know where to park.
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Luna
Yeah.
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Caleb
And I ended up finding on Google Maps is open lots of school busses where like the school bus drivers leave their busses overnight. Yeah. Nobody's going to be there until like 7 or 8 in the morning when the school bus drivers have to go pick up kids. Plus, it wasn't even like, I don't even think schools were open.
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Caleb
I don't know if schools were open at the time. I don't remember when exactly. We were parked behind 2 or 3 school busses, so the main traffic road couldn't see us. Yeah. And like my car was in complete shadows. We don't even see a and, we were facing like light at the only building in the area. Even if someone came out, we could tell that they did when they.
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Luna
Did, I. Sounds perfect. I feel like in that situation, the only other people that are going to be like out there might be like school bus drivers doing the exact same thing. And then you high five. Yeah.
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Caleb
Yeah.
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Luna
Or get invited to a bus or do your bus. Okay. Tell us one more hot sex story from your list, and then we'll catch up with more of them next time.
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Caleb
So shortly after my ex and I hooked up in my car, she was like, let's do that again. It was really good. So I met up at her apartment and the second time because we wanted something more comfortable.
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Luna
Yeah. So tell us then what your current sort of like priority around the emotional parts of relationship that are also sexual are.
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Caleb
Regularly taken care of, like my libido. And my little bit of my partner is fairly similar. Like we take care of each other in ways that we need to, and if we don't have enough attention, it's communicated like I've never been in a relationship with this much communication before. It's so healthy. It's so nice to be able to talk to everybody about anything at any time and have the knowledge about how to do so in a healthy and respectful way.
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Luna
Fuck yeah.
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Caleb
Yeah. Thanks to, you know, all that I've learned about how to do it the wrong way in my time.
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Luna
That's all we can do. Hopefully we learn from our trials and make different errors in the future.
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Caleb
It's been a lot of breathing and taking time to think about words before saying them.
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Luna
It sounds like you're with people who you're aligned with physically, conversationally, mentally, emotionally, and that's making a beautiful place to live right now.
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Caleb
I haven't felt this happy in a long time.
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Luna
Okay, so tell us now, what are your sexual hopes for your future?
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Caleb
We want to explore my male partner a little bit more. Yeah. And have I have a lot more sex with the people that I am connected to locally and unable to connect with in person.
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Luna
Okay. Do you want to see if your partner has any sexual hopes for the future, that they want to share.
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Caleb
Things that are typically more kink wide?
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Luna
Ooh.
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Caleb
Okay.
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Caleb
Quite so. Sometimes you say I'm not kink shaming on kink. Why?
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Caleb
Oh, kink wide as in Twitch?
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Caleb
Why so soon? So there's some things on the list that are a little taboo. Some would say, but I think it's ready and is willing and has the tools to help me explore.
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Luna
Okay, I'm hearing a future of possible kink explorations.
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Caleb
I would agree.
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Luna
Amazing. Okay, well Caleb, thank you for sharing these updates. I'm very excited to hear the future updates.
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